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    I have been dancing for over 7 years now and am considering taking a few customers up on there offers of 'private' dancing. I'm sure a lot of you have had your regulars ask you if you would consider dancing out of work. Don't get me wrong here - I'm talking about regulars who you have known for awhile, years even, and are totally harmless. The guys that spend a nice amount of money on you each time they see you. Well take that and than almost double it because that's what there willing to pay just to have you all to themself. A regular of mine asked me last week if I ever thought about it - and this is a guy who I've known since last summer. So I'm definitley taking it more seriously I guess and considering it. Even if I only danced for 2 or 3 of my regulars - that would be some nice extra income - while not having to go into the club at all on some days - and guaranteed money. Any guy that I've discussed this with knows without a doubt that it would be strictly dancing, nothing else.

    I'm sure you all have your different opinions and I would like to hear them. Especially if any of you all ready do this.
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    i highly doubt once you got them alone.. they would strictly want a dance.. maybe the first time.. but i bet you anything everytime they would try to do a little more.. here and there..

    if you are really going to try it.. i would strongly advise you to have someone else with you.... somewhere

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    ok by the title of your post it seems like you want to dance for customers in your home [what]......NOT a good idea. [nono]your house is your safe place and customers can always turn on you no matter how long you have known them. :o if they spend money like you say then you need to make them get a hotel room [clap]...public place and still seems professional and private ....dont underestimate a customer being nice [beat]......but be carefull with what ever you choose to do. HTH

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    Yeah, this kind of situation can get rather creepy, I think. I've done bachelor/ birthday parties in guys homes before, but that's with a group and another girl, plus I always brought a bouncer. Personally I think you're better off sticking to club dancing. Who knows if something goes wrong and the relationship with your regular is forever ruined?
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    Now matter how well you think you know someone I would always be cautious about a customer that wants to get you alone.

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    I guess i will throw in my 2 cents since i now do only private stripping. First, i always keep in mind that a rape or worse usually happens with someone that you know well, or have had previous contact with. Usually, not always however.
    I would never bring a party to my house. Never, that IS dangerous.

    I don't do hotel rooms, because of the atmosphere. (you know what i mean.)

    I go to the guys place, always have a friend with me, guy usually. And call one other person to tell them when i should be done.

    My cell will ring around 5 minutes after the party is to be over, and i answer. I tell my friend that i am on my way. Bull, i am going home, but i make it seem rushed now.

    People know where i am, and that is safety. A call after the show never hurts business, but makes you seem busy and very good....Off to the next for all they know.

    Good luck,
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    I honestly have to say that dancing in your home is not a good idea! Your home should be the only place where you can actually live "your life" not the fantasy of a club. If you feel that you must dance for these handful of regulars, hire a bodyguard, or a man you trust to watch over you. You may have been dancing with these men for years, you dont know what thoughts are brewing up in their heads...Always stay focused, and cautious.







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    I agree with the others, dancing in YOUR home is NOt a good idea.
    I do private parties outside of the club and I always take a bouncer with me. Don't let a customer try to convince you that you don't need a bouncer just to dance for them. If all you're going to do is dance then the customer should not be concerned about you bringing a bouncer.

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    I don't do hotel rooms, because of the atmosphere. (you know what i mean.)
    I think I'm a retard....what do you mean?

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    If it's strictly a business matter, you don't even want them to know where you live. I don't think compromising your security is worth the extra income. Even if you went to their place I'd bring someone else along.
    Thank them but tell them your place is too small to entertain.

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    I'm assuming she's refering to prostitution (that's what it appears to be). Correct me if I'm wrong.
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    Rule number one, and it's a biggie: NEVER BRING A CUSTOMER TO YOUR HOUSE! I keep my home and my business totally separated. If I wanna do any private parties, I'll dance at a bachelor party where my bodyguard and other dancers are present. NEVER TRAVEL ALONE!!
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