LMAO LENA!!!!!!!!!!!
LMAO LENA!!!!!!!!!!!
LIVE LONG & PROSPER!
Leigh Landon
Never explain yourself to anyone, because the person who likes you doesn't need it and the person that dislikes you won't believe it.



Lena's a true hustler! $ always on the mind.![]()





Well if this nice, sweet, quiet, non-assertive guy may add his two cents, let me state that I don't feel that I belong in the same category as Mr. "bleeding heart".
Everyone's different though, some girls like nice, sweet, quiet, non-assertive guys.
You don't have to be an asshole to get respect, just have a backbone.
If I seem quiet and detached as a gal does small gymnastic feats on my lap, as opposed to groping and making rude comments as I please, its perhaps because I have some empathy for that woman as a human being. Does that neccesarily mean that I feel pity for her because other people have treated her like dirt? Or that I'm going to patronize her with some tortured "I feel your pain", "you are loved" crapola? Hardly. I'm nice to dancers, because I'd like to be treated nice in return. Do unto others, right?
REAL nice guys are genuine. There’s nothing genuine about the opening post. Its just a bunch of trite, phony gibberish to me. I'm not the smoothest practitioner with women, but GEEZ, I'm not that bad of a schmuck.
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Former SCJ now in rehab.





Ok, just to clarify my comments, I did not mean that I like sweet, quiet, non-assertive guys, or that I like loud, harsh, sarcastic smartasses - I like them somewhere in between those extremes. I like a guy who is comfortable with himself, who is genuine, and doesn't feel the need to play games. When I used the word nice it wasn't in reference to a 'nice guy'. It was in reference to the word 'normal', just as one might say a 'nice' fat bank account, or a 'nice' juicy steak. What I meant by 'normal' was, I like guys who are comfortable in their own skin, as opposed to those who try to act like something they're not (usually because they feel the need to compensate for some other missing quality).
That said, I appreciate ANY guy who is genuine in his behaviour and personality, no matter what 'type' he is - so even if he isn't exactly my 'type', he has a better chance with me than the one who tries to fit into a mold of what he thinks I like.
Eibon, I'm sure things changed alot for you when you realized there was no point in trying to act like something you're not. Most people experience the same thing if and when they go through that stage. Alot of people never come to that realization despite all the lipservice they give to the notion, so count yourself lucky.
wow i just read this thread toooo funny. pamela congrat for nipping that moron right in the bud! glad to know girls on this sight are so on the ball. maybe if hes so fu****g wonderful why doesnt he go spread his caring heart to some charity who really needs it. looking for a payoff of sex or fantasy stripper love maybe? f*****g nimrod.



So...
If there are any bleeding hearts out there who can feel my pain and would like to heal me... tuitions about due again.
Lena, my poor sweet innocent Lena, I truly do feel your pain you poor dear girl....
Oh wait a minute that is your ass I am feeling not your pain! Sorry about that.But since you are in so much pain perhaps I need to perform a laying on of hands like the faith healers do. [oogle]
Anyone with a memory should be very humble.
Oh, I'm so glad to read this forum. I'm a woman and have only met other naive women, so I don't have many girlfriends. Nice to know there are smart women out there, what makes it even better is that they are strippers. Usually, anywhere else you would read a response like, "oh, thank you for understanding. youre such a sweet man." But you all know that he's full of shit and just trying to get attention in sexual ways. Ya'll are the smartest women I've ever met. I'm so glad to have joined this message board.
Sex is GoOd, Sex is Fine, Doggie Style or 69, Just For Fun, or Getting Paid, Everyone Loves Getting Laid, So if Ya Want Me in The Sack, Lick ur Lips and Hit Me Back...!!




Personally, I hate bleeding hearts. I mean, when one has a tear in their left ventricle or their mitral valve, it can cause all sorts of life threatening problems. Plus there are always bad things like Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome and Arrhythmogenic Right Ventricular Dysplasia that really can put a damper on one's day.
If any of you dancers have this, I feel for you.. I feel your pain.. I really do.
Boy, am I sensitive or what? Someone hug me.
FOOD fight!!!
I was just wondering about the people who have heart attacks when the doctor says "You have AR VD"

Hello Everyone
this seems to be a stripper/ whomever board. that changes the professional format here altogether. however one thing that permeated most of the respones to the bleeding hearts post was apprehension and authenticity. this message is not mind to mind, thought to thought or body organ to body organ this message is heart to heart .this message for the stripper who gives a $5 table dance and is expected to give extras as well. this message is for the nude dancer who gets a dollar tip.
this message is for the stripper who upon walking through the club door said to herself " EXOTIC DANCING WILL NEVER CHANGE ME" but it has. it is a revolving door. for every stripper who walks through the door there are many more waiting to dance. you girls know what i am talking about. this message is for the stripper who the owner,manager,customers, and generally the world does'nt have the slightest idea of what you have been through,going through or headed in a direction of. even you strippers who can not relate to this know strippers who can. the business presents opportunities & situations that the average person can only dreams of. you have a responsibility because of what you know. only you know who approches to you!!! only you know who and what men think of but in reality is something else. the doctor,the lawyer-police- senators- professional athletes, leaders etc. not all of you. but all of you must support each other. for what it is worth. THANK YOU!!!! you have a responsibility. you are loved.
P.S.- if your still leary about this. Speak to the MEN ONLY who post on your board-customers about PREGNANCY- DRUGS-ALCOHOLISM- JAIL- STALKING- RAPE ETC. see what type of response you get to that. IF THEY HAVE LITTLE OR NOTHING TO SAY???





I read and then reread your post; what exactly is your message?
And you've obviously not read too many threads because if you had you'd realize there are lots of posts from the male members who are supportive. I don't think anyone condones RAPE nor is anyone openly wishing that upon anyone else. Sorry but your post isn't very clear.
Are you the one who uploaded dancer costumes in the uploads section of the gallery?
I think you misunderstand the reponses to the bleeding heart thread. Very few of us want to be saved (by Jesus or anyone else). Not all of us are hurting inside. Not all of us feel objectified and used. For you or anyone to assume we need the warm fuzzies from a bunch of words on a computer screen, is insulting our intelligence. We are a lot stronger and smarter than you give us credit for.....but thanks for the message anyway.
*feels loved*
I just realized....it is Sunday.
Did church just let out?





*snicker* [devil]
Dude, you make no sense. We are all in the business. We see all aspects of it. YOU seem to be the one who does not understand. THe girls who are unhappy with this job and their life will not only probably not post here to talk about it all the time. And just for the record, YOU sound like a really creepy guy to me. Sorry if I'm being harsh but I've heard it all and you sound like some pervert trying to get some. BTW, if there are girls who give $5 dance WITH extras and are pissed about it... what the hell are you going to do??? Also, I've gotten one dollar in tips from getting naked on stage before, it happens, especially if we're slow. It's all part of the job.
If you think school is hard, try being stupid.
>>Speak to the MEN ONLY who post on your board-customers about PREGNANCY- DRUGS-ALCOHOLISM- JAIL- STALKING- RAPE ETC. see what type of response you get to that. IF THEY HAVE LITTLE OR NOTHING TO SAY
I'm happy to talk about it. But the only pregnancies I've participated in have been planned. I don't do drugs, and I'm not an alocholic, nor do I encourage either one. I've never been to jail. I've never stalked anyone, never raped anyone, and I think those who do should be appropriately punished.
So do I fall in that bad man category because I have little or nothing to say?
- Jason
P.S. I just posted a message over in the blue site that was a response to a fairly unreasoning attack, then deleted it, thinking, what's the point? Logically, I should delete this one, too. ;-)



Well, hello yourself there.Hello Everyone
That would be two things, and I believe what you're trying to say would be our apprehension towards his lack of authenticity. In any case, I think our responses just shows our lack of gullibility.this seems to be a stripper/ whomever board. that changes the professional format here altogether. however one thing that permeated most of the respones to the bleeding hearts post was apprehension and authenticity.
this message is not mind to mind, thought to thought or body organ to body organ this message is heart to heart .this message for the stripper who gives a $5 table dance and is expected to give extras as well. this message is for the nude dancer who gets a dollar tip.
this message is for the stripper who upon walking through the club door said to herself " EXOTIC DANCING WILL NEVER CHANGE ME" but it has. it is a revolving door.
Again, what message would that be?
Know what you're talking about; now, what's your point? We're, rather I'm, not worried about some younger stripper coming along and taking my job. That's simply not the way this industry works.for every stripper who walks through the door there are many more waiting to dance. you girls know what i am talking about.
I'd rather they not know what's going through my head. They'll know what I want them to know about me.this message is for the stripper who the owner,manager,customers, and generally the world does'nt have the slightest idea of what you have been through,going through or headed in a direction of. even you strippers who can not relate to this know strippers who can.
Responsibility to do what exactly?the business presents opportunities & situations that the average person can only dreams of. you have a responsibility because of what you know.
Hmmm... support each other? I though it was the doctors, lawyers... whom we get our financial support from. In any case no, we are not responsible for the emotional support of another. That's not a healthy way to live. I'd go crazy if I felt responsible for every other stripper in crisis.only you know who approches to you!!! only you know who and what men think of but in reality is something else. the doctor,the lawyer-police- senators- professional athletes, leaders etc. not all of you. but all of you must support each other.
A bit creepy babe.for what it is worth. THANK YOU!!!! you have a responsibility. you are loved.
p.s. Are you on crack?P.S.- if your still leary about this. Speak to the MEN ONLY who post on your board-customers about PREGNANCY- DRUGS-ALCOHOLISM- JAIL- STALKING- RAPE ETC. see what type of response you get to that. IF THEY HAVE LITTLE OR NOTHING TO SAY???
I was not going to read this thread because I thought it was somone selling clothes but started to read it when the volume went up.
It is so convoluted and disorganized I still am not sure about the PS's meaning.
1 Never been involved in a pregnancy in any fashion.
2. Never did drugs, but they are everywhere.
3. Am an alcoholic, sober awhile. Dancers I've met who drink are more concerned about the calorie-intake than the quantity of alcohol. You an find alcoholics everywhere in all professions. Strip clubs played no role in my disease.
Never went to jail, stalked, or raped anyone. Know soneone who was raped at work in a pizza parlor though. Closest I came to stalking someone was following a girl home from a movie theather cause she passed me doing 10 miles over the speed limit and wasn't sure it was her.
I still buy pizza. (pepperoni, sausage and mushroom). Getting hungry.

Hmm. I can't speak for the ladies here, but if your username is meant to indicate the fact that you sell clothing to dancers posts like this aren't really a great way to drum up business.Hello Everyone
this seems to be a stripper/ whomever board. that changes the professional format here altogether. however one thing that permeated most of the respones to the bleeding hearts post was apprehension and authenticity.
Your rambling message makes little sense. But you do sound like a wacked-out customer.
Sort of like a weirdo at the club today - he had the nerve to throw one of the classiest dancers I've seen a bunch of coins.
You sure you didn't throw some Canadian coins on stage today pal? :o



This person says weird stuff all of the time on Dancerdolls.com. Actually it's the reason I stopped posting there. The things said by this person never seem to make any sense.
I'm not going to put down whoever posted this message, but I'm going to say it made no sense to me. Maybe I need to read it again, but I don't want to feel stupid if it makes no sense to me again. Can anybody tell me the point of this post, I'm clueless and would like to be educated on it?
Sex is GoOd, Sex is Fine, Doggie Style or 69, Just For Fun, or Getting Paid, Everyone Loves Getting Laid, So if Ya Want Me in The Sack, Lick ur Lips and Hit Me Back...!!



It isn't just you Nina.
Peace to all and to all a Good Night.
Anyone with a memory should be very humble.




Exotic, you seem to have quite a few stereotypes about strippers and men.
Exotic dancer wear--
Please don't post when you are high and/or drunk.
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