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    I was wondering if any of you ever had a B/F that actually really liked and wanted you to be a stripper because they enjoyed showing you off. My fiance is like that he loves when I go braless or wear skimpy stuff and has encouraged me to strip and will be comming to watch (and protect) me when I do my first private show next month. Have you ever had a boyfreind bring his freinds to watch you dance. That I can see be awkward-I was just wondering?

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    Hi Rose,

    I am older than your BF and when I was young I was very jealous about stuff like that. Now I LOVE it when guys check out my wife because I know she is going home with me and if they are drooling it only makes me proud.

    And in fact I have had the fantasy of seeing her do an impromtu strip in a club some time while all the other guys go wild over my lady and then she goes home with me, etc etc...

    But I think the reality would be much different than the fantasy and for that reason I would never want to find out for real. She is mine and only mine.

    Not to mention I cannot imagine that the rush you might get would last very long if you were stripping for a living every day.

    Anyone with a memory should be very humble.

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    proud of stripper bfs arent that unusual but bringing in the friends and family would really make me wonder about his character.. i once was dating a guy who brought in (after i dumped hin) his little bro and dad to show me off. i ignored him and acted like i didnt know him. how fucking sick. thats like incest and gang rape wrapped up in insecurity

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    I have two questions.

    1. How long have you and your BF been together?

    2. Who first brought up the subject of you doing private shows?

    ......Okay actually I have three questions.

    3. When you said he was comming with you to protect you while you did your first private show, does that mean he's comming with you to work at a club or is he talking about a private party at someone's residence?

    Just curious.

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    Kittie, there is a thread called Bachelor Party and she talks about all that stuff. I asked the same question by the way about how long they had been together. (Great minds think alike huh?) ( four years i think it was?)

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    http://www.stripperweb.com/cgi-bin/y...num=1066255569
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    Ex Boyfriend hated anything idid if it related to making money in the sex industry. Funny thing, he had porno of all sorts, and actually picked up a dancer ???? Go figure. But i could not be what he liked.....CRAZY.

    Pamela

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    Ex Boyfriend hated anything idid if it related to making money in the sex industry. Funny thing, he had porno of all sorts, and actually picked up a dancer ???? Go figure. But i could not be what he liked.....CRAZY.

    Pamela
    Absolute classic double standard. "I want other girls to be like that, but not you". That smacks so much of hypocracy.

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    My boyfriend is one of the few guys I dated who never tried to censor the wild side element of my clothing. I go from prep to trashy in one day depending on my mood and he completely understands. If we went out to dinner at a nice restaurant, I might wear a nice dress or a nice dress that covers completely in front and is knee or tea-length but has the entire back out and almost shows my butt crack. He doesn't mind and he has said that he loves my body and doesn't mind if I show it off sometimes as long as its done in good taste. He knows guys check me out and I know he checks other girls out. Hell, we talk about cute girls and their clothes and shoes together and I comment about fine guys and he acknowledges my comment with no discord whatsoever.
    As for bringing friends to see my dance: yes and no, no he didn't actually bring them for the specific purpose of watching me dance b/c he wasn't there just to see me dance. He doesn't come to my club like that and thats the agreement we have. It was my birthday and they brought money and champagne and his friends spent the nite hitting on my coworkers after they tipped me for my birthday set. Yes, because he knew I would be doing what I do-getting naked and they did come out with him to help me celebrate my birthday with the understanding that I would get naked.
    It depends on the relationship you have with your man. His friends are my family, but these are the same people who come to my house,sit on my couch, eat my food and ask me for advice with their wives and girlfriends. We are all a familial type social circle where everyone knows everyone else's wife or girlfriend and where they work and what they do. Also, I'm not the only stripper in the group so this may make things significantly different in terms of what friends of your guy may perceive.
    "Come what may although I often say realities come from dreams, but approach all lies with open eyes because NOthing in this world is EVER ALL it seems."

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    Omg don't feel alone. My boyfriend is just like that while he doesn't come into see me he asks me about work all the time. Stuff like " tell me all the guys reactions while you were dancing for them" and stuff like that. Sometimes it gets on my nerves but now I realise that it is so much better than him being a green eyed monster about it!!!!!!

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    My x was very supportive about it, he still is. I always wanted to do it but I was too scared, so he took me to my very first strip club and told me to not be scared and just get up there and do what I love to do. His brother is a SCJ and he gets kinda weirded out when his brother shows up at my club forgetting I'm working that night (they had some set agreement about not going to see the others girlfriend strip). He understands it's a job and a job that I love to do. Even though we're broken up now, it has nothing to do with me dancing and he still comes to see me sometimes to pick me up from work and stuff. He's never come in and sat down and watched though because he says he knows what strippers do but he doesn't want to actually see me do it, better to keep that in the dark.

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    Its almost like window shopping at the mall, you can look all you want... but you cant buy anything. i never did have a problem with my friends looking at my x, as long as they didnt try n go over my head and do something stupid

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    Omg don't feel alone. My boyfriend is just like that while he doesn't come into see me he asks me about work all the time. Stuff like " tell me all the guys reactions while you were dancing for them" and stuff like that. Sometimes it gets on my nerves but now I realise that it is so much better than him being a green eyed monster about it!!!!!!
    Thats what I am thinking-I would rather a guy who gets off on it than a jealous maniac!

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