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    ugh... i just need to vent... i've only been dancing for 2 weeks and i've had two SHITTY nights in a row...
    my feet are killing me... i have raging PMS...i can't even bend my knees my muscles are SO sore... i'm all bruised up.... these agency girls stole money from me.... and made NO MONEY as it is!!!!....i just wanna cry...
    :(
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    Oh I remember those nights
    Dont worry it will get better.

    What are agency girls?

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    thanks honey...i hope it does get better...
    at the club i work at...
    they work with an agency of russian girls who come to america (illegally) and sign a contract to dance for 2 years and give the agency a percentage of their money so they can stay... then they help them obtain citizenship after the 2 years are up... they dance at all different clubs... we usually book two a night a few times a week and a bus comes and drops them off... they are usually very sneaky... most give over the top extras (i work at a low mileage club)... and a few even sleep with the managers... some are nice...but we've been having a lot of problems with them stealing clothes...money...makeup...all kinds of stuff... its a shame... i just would like to think that people are better than that... it makes me sad...

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    If I were you Heidi, I would keep anything of value in your car or even better, at home. The things you do need at work I would make sure were locked up. Don't forget, you have to take the good with the bad.
    Chin up,
    ~R

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    thanks ravin...
    good advice...i'm gonna keep everything i don't absolutely need in my car locked up...
    my cheap ass club doesn't have lockers
    it will get better tomorrow...i hope...
    xoxo
    heidi
    ....i did not design this game...i did not name the stakes...i just happen to like apples...and i am not afraid of snakes... -Ani Difranco

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    I read in National Geographic a couple of months ago that the "Agency Girls" may actually be slaves. Many "Agencies" hire these girls to be fashion models and they end up stripping and whoring and stuck in the US without any money or even a way back home. For most of them their families won't even have them back.

    I'm not making light of your pain, Heidi, just trying to see if this could be the case from your club. If it is I would disassociate myself from this club immeadately. I would make a call to some kind of authority to find out more information about the agency girls, and if there is anything that could reflect badly on you, if so leave this club and never look back.

    You will encounter girls that steal in any club in any town. That is just a fact of the business. Be sure to leave anything of value at home, and be watchful. I hope that your week gets better. I just quit the only club I was willing to work at in town, so my night isn't so great either


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    i didn't even think of that Paris...i will definately look into that... that would be awful... now i feel so bad...
    thanks... i hope your week gets better too hon...

    xoxo
    heidi
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    Thinking of you Heidi and hoping that today is a better day.
    I am also a bit concerned about the club you work at. Didn't you tell us once before that they were not very nice in the way the customers treat the girls, etc, expecting too much, that kind of thing? I seem to remember something like that.

    Anyway take care of yourself and if you need to, change clubs, you are way too nice to have anything bad in your life. Hugs from the Xman
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    Paris,

    Good vibes coming your way too kid. Something will turn up for you, you are way too beautiful not to have some other chance present itself. Not sure I ever told you this but you take my breath away. You can't buy groceries with that but please accept it as the compliment I mean it to be and I hope it gives you a smile.

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    I have also heard about those agecies who do such terrrible things to those young women from Russia. Most people in Russia live in such horrible poverty that they are easy targets. It is really sad. I think it was sixty minutes that aired the story that I saw a year or two ago. Maybe you could do call some authorities who could help these women. Just be careful not to let anyone know that you are trying to help if you decide to do so. The people who run those agencies are truely evil. The woman from Russia that I saw on 60 minutes was forced to have sex with anywhere from 50-100 men a day in Italy. It was the sadest story I have ever heard.
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    Heidi- for the feet check out goodfeet.com Their arch supports are great and were designed for the showgirls in Las Vegas.

    For the bruises - Go to walgreens and get a pure cocoa butter stick. It will speed up the recovery process.
    Hang in there. My first 2 1/2 weeks of dancing were horrible. I worked in a club where there were tons of hookers and this in turn encouraged the customers to sexually assault the dancers. I had a guy try to stick his finger up my butt and more than one guy try to stick his hand in my pants. It was horrible. I hope that you can find a better place in your area.
    Most people prefer to believe their leaders are just and fair even in the face of evidence to the contrary, because once a citizen acknowledges that the government under which they live is lying and corrupt, the citizen has to choose what he or she will do about it. - M Rivero

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    thanks everyone...
    this place always makes me feel like i have a support system that i can turn to...
    i swear since i have been a dancer i have found more support , advice and love from the people in this forum than with people that i have known for years!!! it's amazing!!! i <3 you all... BIG HUGS...
    my club is a shithole and i WILL leave if these agency girls are being mistreated... i appreciate everyone bringing this to my attention... i feel awful because i was kinda bitching them out...
    but if not i'm just gonna stay at the club i'm at until i learn how to dance and am comfie doing it...then i'm off and on to better things
    xman you are a doll and spoke probably the kindest things i have heard from a male "voice" in the last hellish 48 hours....
    livenudegirlsunite... i <3 your name... i think it's so true... we should have a stripperweb convention or something... i would love to meet all of you in person.... i'm heading to walgreen's on the way to work... and am checking out goodfeet.com as we speak... you are a heavensend...
    take care all and stay sweet
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    Heidi, to keep your things a little safer at work, try carrying your stuff in one of those roller carryon suitcases like everyone uses at the airport, and put a lock on it. This way you can keep your clothes and makeup and things in there locked up, and the only way anyone can steal it is to carry out your whole bag. I've done that in places where there weren't enough lockers and never had anyone take my bag.

    Also, for your money, I suggest wearing a garter on your thigh or ankle, folding the money over the garter and strapping a thick rubber band or small ponytail holder around the bills. That will secure the money to your leg so no one can steal it! Keep your ones on the outside, and never count your money in front of anyone.

    Hope things get better for you!

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    thanks a lot bridgette... ;)
    as always i appreciate the advice...
    i need all the help i can get... lol
    i want to buy a garter...
    i may go and look for one today...
    any suggestions on where i could find one...
    thanks again doll

    xoxo
    heidi
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    They usually sell garters anywhere they sell stripper clothes and shoes. Where do you get your outfits? You can also order them online from alot of places....

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    Hoping the end of your week is better than the beginning Heidi. We've all been there. I think that's why this is such a great network of people. We're all in the same boat

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    For anyone interested in what the agency girls are going through here is a link to an article from the web site of the Coalition Against Trafficking in Women.
    http://www.catwinternational.org/fb/Russia.html
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    I just read a posting on a club I belong to where spammers were soliciting for those girls. It was so sick. Also Heidi, believe it or not, I was just shopping with my nieces for Halloween costumes at Halloween Express (I think) and they had the most amazing stripper clothes! I couldn't believe it - I wanted to buy some shoes there, but the explanations.....I'll go back without the little ones!

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    Heidi I also dance in NJ. Believe me those girls you work with have it HARD.. I have chatted with some of them and they literally have to give all their money to thier 'agency' and they live in tiny apartments in Brooklyn 5 girls to a room at times. That's why they steal, do extras, and go around for tips like 5 times drawing customers away. They have no choice. If we have a bad night we just mope around. They HAVE to make money no matter what.

    NJ gogo bars are infested with agency girls. And I wouldn't get to involved with them. Those agencies can be very dangerous. You should try another club. Club 516 in Old Bridge is supposed to be good also Fantazies in Keyport.

    I know what you are going through believe me. I can sympathize 100%. Some advice.. Lock everything up (even your jacket and shoes). Never let you money leave you thigh or leg.

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    the garter belt is a good idea but i found that it started to bug me when dancing. that and when giving private dances it made me nervous b/c some of the guys attempted to reach for it. So what i did was put the money around the strap of my shoe and secured it with a rubberband. It feels a little weird at first but at least it's difficult for anyone to get to it without you noticing.

    yeah the first few weeks are hell on your body. I've been dancing for 2 years now and i still have nites where my feet are killing me and i have bruises all over. It will get easier! Just hang in there girlie

    do you have valet at your club? If so, I wouldn't keep anything of value in your car(unless it's in your trunk) At my club I've heard of the valet taking items out of the cars. Just get a lock like Bridgette said and hopefully nothing will be stolen.

    When i first started dancing i found that the girls were mean to new girls. From glueing their shoes together, throwing their clothes in the toilet or straight up stealing their makeup and clothes. Hopefully things aren't that extreme where you are! and don't be afraid to change clubs b/c you feel your not good enough yet. don't worry about it, just get out of there! Doesn't sound like a good environment to work, and trust me, there are better clubs out there.

    sorry for rambling!
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