Hi tonight was a pretty dead night. I made money only cuz I hustled my ass off. There was one girl at work today who is down in the dressing room who is counting her money in front of us all the girls who had some pretty horrendus night and she goes "huh I made over a grand and didn't do anything tonight" Right in front of everyone! Now it really did not bother me because I left with 540 which I consider to be great money expecially on a dead night. But there were lots of girls that could not even claim the dances they had to at the end of the night. I just thought that was really mean. The thing is this girl ALWAYS leaves with a grand. Yeah she is really hot but she has all of thease regulars. Girls always say that she is sleeping with her customers.I just thought they were envious but now I am starting to wonder. How can she have all of thease regulars and thease guys give her alot of money, she is not a dirty dancer. What is her secret. I am just as good of a dancer as she is but I can not keep regulars!I great night for me is 800 of pure dancing and hustling. For her it is 3000! What am I doing wrong? Is it possible that she does have realationships outside the club or is it just a sort of charisma she has? Is the only way to keep regulars with that kind of money on a consistant basis to have a realtionship ouside the club with them? I refuse to do that. Or should I just accept that just being a dancer(as in just dancing for your money) brings you in 800 to 900 tops in one night? Beacuse that is all I can physically do!!!!



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IMO i beleive this girl feels no real self-worth; for someone who is insistent(makes it a point) on letting others know how much $$$$ she made feels she in essence, is worth nothing...see? :-/ so she has to go "LOOK at what i made",= what others think i am WORTH(at least monitarily) but the tangible is a heck of a lot more convincing then inner peace(intangible). plus--she is setting herself up for potentail recourse...such as= people jumping her outside the club, breaking into her locker, ect...you should really pity this poor girl, she's in a real world of hurt and trying to convince others(as well as herself) she has worth.



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