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    Hi Everyone-First I have to say this is a fascinating forum-I am 23 and have thought about dancing a couple years ago but never really had the guts too. I was also a little self conscious of myself cause I am 5'10--118lbs, and a 34B. I feel more self confident know and I and my best friend (guy) has a friend who is getting married and he knew I always thought about dancing so they asked me if I would be interested in providing some private entertainment for the bachelor party--They offered me a thousand dollars to be there for two hours and dance full nude with lap dances for everyone (about 15 guys) and they want to be able to touch my boobs and the groom can suck on them. Now I am no professional but I do dance good so I know I can do it and I think I will say yes but are they asking too much for too little $$$$ I think the price seems fair and they said they want a private girl cause they can get more for there money-I really need the money so I want to know what you all think. My fiance is totally supportive and says go for it. He said it is my chance to be the center of attention for one crazy night.

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    I have never done any dancing outside of the club, I don't feel comfortable with it, so I don't have too much advice. I do think it would be very important to take a "bodyguard" in case things got out of hand. I know there are some other girls here that can give you some more insight on the subject.

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    Yes, if you decide to do it, make sure they give you the money BEFORE you start dancing, and definitely take a male 'bouncer' with you - one who is not friends with these guys at the party. Pay him some of what you make for his time. $1k is good for a two-hour show, and the contact level they specify is your call. If you're comfortable with that amount of contact, go with it, but make sure they know what your limits are and that they have to respect your boundaries. The only thing that throws a red flag to me is the line about them wanting a private girl to do the show because 'they will get more for their money' - exactly how much more are they after? Does that imply they will want sexual favors once the dancing starts?

    Finally, if they agree to a 2-hour show for whatever price, make sure they understand you don't stay past that time limit, unless they are going to cough up some more tips to make it worth your while to stay! Trust me, performing for a solid 2 hours is tiring - you'll want to be compensated if they want more time.

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    Hmm, yes, you totally really need a bouncer! I am probably wrong but your post gave me a suspicious feeling. You do know that for a day or two of dancing in a club, you could easily make a thousand dollars, no groping necessary. Especially fully nude, especially with them pawing at you... but, why haven't you got to a club anyway? What's wrong with your stats? They sound great to me.
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    Oh yea, I don't know how much you are supposed to tip a bouncer... ? So figure that into the thousand dollars... do you have an escort license?
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    Hey - thanks for the advice everyone--The bouncer thing is taken care of. I would never go alone. My fiance who does not know them is a big strong guy and has actually been a bouncer at a bar before so he will be going. When they said they feel like they can get more for there money I think they ment it is easier to get a full nude with contact girl privately-at least here in N.J.-I am comfortable with the contact level they want. I think it can be fun for a one night thing. If they want more than the two hours they better cough up alot more or I am out the door. I talk to my fiance about them possible wanting to pay more for sexual stuff and he said he was cool as long as I did not have sex with them. He said if they pay enough to finger me or a blow job he was cool with that. As long as he gets to fuck me after so we can roll around in there money LOL! I always thought I was too skinny to dance, thats why I never did. That and my ex-b/f was so against it. My fiance loves it when I dress sexy and show off my boobs - he thinks it is erotic and sexy He never gets jealous, I can wear a white thong bikini to the beach and he just looks at me with pride. I am so lucky. He makes me feel sexy not slutty. I think that answered most of your ?'s

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    I talk to my fiance about them possible wanting to pay more for sexual stuff and he said he was cool as long as I did not have sex with them. He said if they pay enough to finger me or a blow job he was cool with that. s

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    How long have you and your BF been going together by the way? Did you just get engaged?

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    We have been together for almost 4 years--engaged about 8 months. Wedding is in May. This will really help with the bills on that.

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    Hi Rose,

    Congrats on being together so long! I was afraid that he was someone you just met or something and got swept off your feet. I feel much better to know that he will take good care of you then. I hope you are not offended by me asking about it.

    The wedding can be a real money drain if you are not careful can't it? Plans for your Honeymoon yet? Vegas maybe?
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    Just be careful, people get drunk, and there is going to be contact for money. This is your first time, watch behaviour. And please no matter how much they beg....DON'T let them record the party. Or try to make sure in a 'coy'ay there is not one hidden. I do private parties now, alot beg for a recording. I don't like that. I don't let tit sucking happen either though. I don't think you would want to be a "locker room joke."

    Be careful, play safe, have a ball!!!!

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    If they want to talk about me in a locker room go ahead-if they want to pay me that much to suck on my titties for a while when me and my man are benifiting from it go ahead--in my opinion they are the dumbasses stupid enough to pay for it when they can all get it at home for free I'm sure. I will specify not pics or video and my fiance will check for hidden shit too. Thanks for caring so much everyone

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    Well I told the guy I would do it-It's Nov.22--I am kinda excited!

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