Ok everyone I need some advice. So I usually don't dance on Sundays because it's always dead. Well we had an amateur night and I decided to go dance that night and see the new girls dancing.
Anyways, after all that hoopla ended, the regular dancers went up on stage and an older guy asked me for a lap dance after my set. So we went in the VIP room and I was doing my thing and I work in a nude club so I bent over to take my t-bar off and he grabbed me!
Of course, the bouncer saw this and grabbed him right away but I nearly fell over I was in shock. I've never had this happen before. Now my manager is talking somewhat about pressing charges but that's not my worry. Now that this has happened I feel dirty and violated, I don't want to go to work now. And I love to dance.
How do you ladies deal with this kinda stuff and the bad feelings? Some of the girls said you get kinda numb after a while and it's still wrong but you don't feel as bad anymore. And to all the guys out there, any advice from a guy's POV? Please help because now I'm fearing going to work tomorrow.
Shayden : )



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Obviously this "guy" is a sicko, and has resorted to objectifying women-- thinking he can just touch someone like he has... 

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