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    Default Is there such a thing as stage-age?

    After real-name the #2 question involves age.
    Are their stage-ages where you +2 or -2,3,5 based on the customer's age? Say one thing to A and a different to B? What is the optimal perceived-fantasy factor?
    I know I am older than 99% of dancers, but the last 4 dancers I talked to were all 35+, but looked younger in club light.

    Similar vein, but is there an "eeewh-dad's age" factor where the early 20-somethings skip someone who could be their father's age? Or just look for better targets first.

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    I did get kind of grosed out a few times,dancing for a guy in his seventys,but personally younger than that is fine,but 70-80,thats like grampa,good thing there isnt too many of them coming in.

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    Default Re: Is there such a thing as stage-age?

    it kinda bothers me dancing for people that are older than my dad.... but i guess it comes with the territory...
    i noticed that a lot of the 40+ age groups won't tip me in my panties or bra... they like to hand me the money...
    i think it's because i'm only 20... but look 16... i think for some men it's unsettling to see a girl who could be their daughter dancing... but some others...they just don't care..and seem to get off on my innocence...

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    I have seen a large % of the ladies around here say that in their personal life they actually prefer guys a bit older than them so I suspect most do not mind dancing for older guys if they are clean, polite and good tippers.
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    I prefer a man older then me, or at least close to my age. I will dance for 20 year olds, and god knows i have, some like an older women, and it turns them on. Fine with me. Most younger guys are strapped for cash though, so my target audience was older men, and we got along great. They don't mind spending money, some are retired, divorced and lonely. The seemed to be my best customers.

    Again all the guys any age are fine. Older men know what they want! (some of them anyway, the games were played along time ago.)

    Pamela

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    I have a dancer name, dancer age and dancer personality. When a guy starts asking personal questions like what's your real name, it really bothers me, because strip clubs are not supposed to be about reality. It is interactive entertainment. We are being paid to play a role. That is why the guys go to strip clubs, buy porn videos and nudie mags.
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    I always tell my real age, no matter what. I don't care how someone reacts to it - take it or leave it. Most gasp, saying 'wow I thought you were about 25'! The 21-year-olds always look shocked, as if they knew I was older but not that much older. I realize 30 seems ancient to most 21-year-olds. The older guys usually seem a little relieved, as if they suddenly feel they can relax a little cuz I'm far from jailbait and maybe they won't have to edit their conversation to suit a younger girl. Anyway, the day I feel I need to lie about my age, you can bet I won't be dancing!

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    I dance by my real name, tell them my real age. I'm only 24, but when I am older, I don't see myself lying about my age. Why be ashamed of your age when it means you have seen more and have more experience?

    I like dancing for anybody that treats me with respect. The younger boys seem to be less respectful and have less $$. I like dancing for older gentlemen as long as they are just that, gentlemen. The old handsy pervs aren't so fun, that goes for young boys too. I hate dancing for the guys that are so old and frail that I feel like I am going to break them if I sit on their lap, or give them a heart attack once I show them the twins.

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    Default Re: Is there such a thing as stage-age?

    LOL! Kobi wrote, "I hate dancing for the guys that are so old and frail I feel like I am going to break them if I sit on their lap, or give them a heart attack once i show them the twins." LOL...i felt the same way, then i'd feel sooo bad! there was this one guy who LOOKED thater' way, but gave the most outlandishly strong bearhugs!!!

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    I hate dancing for the guys that are so old and frail that I feel like I am going to break them if I sit on their lap, or give them a heart attack once I show them the twins.
    Well come on then Kobi cause my lap is still strong although I just might have a heart attack if I got a close up of the twins. LOL
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    The younger guys it's easier for me to be sexy and play off the fantasy but I do prefer the older gentlemen (as Kobi put it). 9 out of 10 times they are more polite, have better manners, realize this is a job, they pay better. But some older guys are just creepy.

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    Default Re: Is there such a thing as stage-age?

    About half the time I'll tell my real age. The other half of the time I'll make them guess and let them think they guessed right.

    I gravitate towards older guys.

    Lena



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    Well come on then Kobi cause my lap is still strong although I just might have a heart attack if I got a close up of the twins. LOL
    Next time you're in Vegas...

    BTW, Xmarx, I was talking about guys twice your age.

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    Default Re: Is there such a thing as stage-age?

    Lena, The only way you are going to get a male to tell a female what age you really think they are is with a powerful incentive to tell the truth. Like $5 off if you miss by 2 years in either direction.
    I am very bad at guessing ages, and unless it puts the guess under 18, I ALWAYS subtract 7 years, especially in a non-SC setting.
    1. I do not want to risk offending if my bad guess is wrong
    2. It is a lose-lose proposition if I guess right and everyone els has guessed low. Its a "make-my-butt-look-fat" ?

    Kobi, I have a bp of 110/70 and I would have the defribilator standing by.

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    I too have the dancer name & age and I actually tell them I'm older than I am.... I'm 22 but typically tell them I'm 24-25. Most of my customers are 30+ so I think it makes me seem more "real" to them like they could actually date me.... I'm a GFE kinda dancer....

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