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    So there is a guy who comes into my club (who we are convinced is the unibomber) and rolls dollars into little balls and "tosses" them in the "general direction" of your crotch. Ok, eeew. I am not into this and usually will "toss" them back but there are tons of girls who allow it and they BANK$$$. Anyone else think this is icky and should not be tolerated?


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    I think it's a regional thing. When I first started dancing, at my tips were handed to me or put in my garter, except when we got people in from the southern states. Atlanta I know for sure this is common, not at all ment to be degrading or icky. More along the lines of being showered with his attention, admiration and best of all $$$. Rule of thumb, if you get guys like that at stage, keep them there, they cause "stage-flation" which can be a good thing. If no-one else gets showered, guess what... you look like the #1 dancer and you wind up with the most laps. The happier you pretend to be about it, the more that image will stick into the minds of the guys watching you and their logic may interpret that as "wow, she's cool as hell and I'm not the only guy who thinks so... I better not let her leave without getting a dance b/c she is getting hotter by the minute..."
    So this unibomber guy... sounds like throwing dollars at the performers on stage is his fantasy... don't mess that up... if he can't get his fantasy entertained, he'll take his dollars to another club.
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    There are guys that pelt dollars at us sometimes and I don't really care for it either, but I don't want to offend them since they think they are doing something nice. Usually I'll point my finger like "wait one minute" and smile or just ignore it and pretend I don't see where the dollars are coming from....which kind of defeats the purpose for him.

    Unless he's going to spend a lot more money later in the form of dances, I don't really pay attention to the dollar bill tippers.

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    Hmm... makes sense. I guess it's just the idea of him waiting for the "money shot" to give up they money. I guess though... no scenery no greenery.

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    See, I hate it because I find it objectifying....why is it okay to throw anything at anyone?

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    I agree Emily, I would find that a bit insulting as well and yet I guess it depends on the person. Some are a lot tougher than others and they would only think, "Hey keep throwing money my way idiot".

    I feel that way about the guys who hold out the money and then pull it back too, I resent ladies being treated like trained seals or something. But then you know me, I am the other idiot, the one that wants to save all the dancers. LOL
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    It drives me crazy too. He leans WAYY over and AIMS it at the "zone" it gives me the heeby-jeebys. The fact that he's not so easy on the eyes doesn't really help and he never buys dances and is really pretty rude to the girls who don't let him fire ones at their kitty. This guy just sucks. No big money potential so I don't really feel bad for ignoring him or for getting offended when he does this.

    Thanks for all the feedback gals. Just needed a little support on this issue!

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    See, I hate it because I find it objectifying....why is it okay to throw anything at anyone?
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    Please don't expect uniform logic and ettiquite while you're on stage. People come to a strip club to escape reality and society's general rules. It's very unlikely they even think that throwing dollars will offend anyone.
    Just remember:
    1. you're naked (or close to it)
    2. most customers are drinking
    3. man + alcohol = fool
    4. fools have no logic
    Some people drink because they like to act a fool and alcohol gives them a good excuse to do so.
    How do the bouncers usually react to this behavior in your club? If you don't want it, tell the bouncer or manager, etc.
    On one hand, you have the right to not feel "objectified" while you're stripping... [rotflmao]
    On the other hand, these people are in the club for a party... so party up!! [monkeydance]
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    I don't expect them to act like decent human beings, I just choose not to relish in it like some girls. I merely tolerate the pelting of dollars only because I don't want to offend any customers who actually think they are being nice. It doesn't really offend me since the job as a whole is objectifying and I've accepted that, but I can still find certain aspects of guys' behavior obnoxious. The best part of this job is that I don't have to pretend to like it.

    As for the guys who pull back the dollar, I don't tolerate that since they are trying to be jerkoffs.


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    The pulling back of the dollar is un-cool. I just won't accept the money just to show them that I think it's tacky. I am the least likely girl to make a scene about anything but I usually won't give the "puller-backers" the time of day. It's usually the broke young ones who do that anyway so it's not like I'm ruining my chances at the big $$$ from them. It's just one of those things that will never go away, but I will never get used to. You know???




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    Believe it or not Emily I get that kind of shit in my job. I run a retail store and I have had punk kids flash a roll of cash in my face like I should jump or something.

    I once knew another guy in the same biz as me. A kid did that with him, and said "I've got $300 cash here mister and I want a better deal!" The guy took out his wallet, flashed the kid his own roll and said, "Big f*cking deal kid, I've got $1500 and that is my pocket money". Kind of rude but it makes me laugh to think of it. LOL
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    DIfferent reasons i guess. Funny this post comes up at this point. My 3 friends went to a club the other night, 2 girls 1 guy, and my one friend says "he" wads up 1's and throws them at the dancers passing by. I asked why, and she said he loves to watch the money hungry dancers jump around and grab it. (he's sick, in my book,) and some stumble and trip just to grab a bill, he really thinks it's funny.

    There is one reason i know of. That reason sucks, and he likes to throw one when they are looking right at them.

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    If someone were throwing money at my "money shot", I would personally find it disrespectful and ignore it. I feel like the reason they do it is because they get a kick out of disrespecting the dancers or seeing them scramble for money like Pamela said.

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    Emily just saw your post...
    I agree, i don't care what the hell you throw at me. It's not cool. Don't throw bills at the dancers. It's rude.

    Ok, if it was 1 grand i would pick it up. But probably not dance for you, because it was thrown and anyone could have grabbed it.

    RUDE. Perod.

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    I'm glad you girls have my back on this. I don't walk around all night throwing napkins and cocktails at these guys and their cocks and balls. Why do they throw stuff at me? It shows a lack of class and I think other guys notice how tacky it is, too. Many guys have said, "what's up with the pig man throwing money at you girls?" and I reply, "we think he's the REAL unibomber and no one wants to piss him off so we just ignore it!!!) heehee.


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    I don't care when they throw dollars at me. I love it when they miss my crotch because I egg them on to keep throwing. Yup, throw another one, and another one, and another...


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    The throwers (unless they are just aiming at the stage in general in a crowded room) and the guys who pull the dollars back both get ignored by me. I've never run into a "big spender" who pulled this shit and if I happened to miss one that did, I don't care. Rude behavior. I make my money off of lapdances, not scrambling on the floor looking like I'm desparate for a dollar bill from any old loser. Too many fun cool customers to waste time and energy on this sort of character.

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    I have to say I can care less. If Im in a playful mood (because this was not uncommon at my club)I would do the little goal post thing with my hands . I really didnt care, Im kinda easygoing like that.
    The pulling back the money thing though, I came across that like twice, that makes me mad. My response to those guys both times was
    "Fuck you bitch, I probably make more money than you....I dont need your shitty little dollar" The guys who did it were stupid young pricks.

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    I think it is a regional thing. Most guys at home do this, but we have a special time where we actually play a game called coochie ball. Two girls sit back to back in the middle of the stage with little plastic cups right between their legs and guys try to make the shot. Newsflash:most guys have poor aim except those damn baseball guys.
    But, the girls can do this just for extra tips during their stage set or they can offer a free dance to whoever makes a basket with a bill of the largest denomination. So, its not enough to get a basket but the biggest bill with a basket gets a free dance. I've chosen this as opposed to dancing a two song set on a slower night and guys really love it and the onstage take is really, really good. It's also a way to sell more dances later in the night b/c you are a fun, happy girl. Sometimes guys do just throw money, but I've never seen anyone throw the money at the girl. I see them throw it onstage in shapes, or do football tosses, but never just physically hit the girl with it.
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    If someone threw a dollars at me I would find it extremly degrading and I would find a manger to put an end to it. Especially if he's throwing at my crotch!! We all need to make money but no one needs to to put up with that to make it.

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    ok, so it's pretty obvious that most of us don't like it and a few don't care. I feel compelled to add that nobody is "beaning" the dollars at me. (if THAT happened then a shoe would probably get boomeranged from stage) also keep in mind that I work with a lovely 6 foot rule in place; no one is able to tip my titties or garter.


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    The circumstances Soy describes seems to indicate that this guy gets off on calculating the trajectory of his "moneywad" shot. That goes beyond playfulness into perversion.

    Playfulness, even if not appreciated, doesnt have rude intent (although it still could be rude). He doesnt seem to be doing it as a goof, but as a degradation. Its a subtle difference to the observer, but not to the thrower and throwee. You have every right to not be degraded if thats what you think is happening. I know a lot of dancers would rather him keep his measly rolled up dollars than have them tossed at them in that way.

    Pulling back dollars? Guys who do that should be flogged. That can nver be amusing in any circumstances.

    Here is a little "mishappen dollar" story. I always sit at the stage and tip when I go to a SC. Sometimes, though, all the seats are taken (rare occurance, since so many guys at the club I got to regularly like to hang away from the stage and be cheap freeloaders). There are more seats away from the stage, which is where I sit when the stage is full. I don't like being there and not tipping (I know I know.. its the "tip-earning" bartender in me.. sorry.. I wont change), so one time I made all my dollars into little airplanes, and floated them over the heads of the other customers to the dancers on stage. It was a goof.. and it was fun. The dancers thought it was a riot. One dancer came off stage after she was done and thanked me for making the effort.

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    I think it depends on the customer. If its a whole bunch of obnoxious drunk, young guys then it bothers me a little. Otherwise I usually don't mind because I find it kind of a turn on. But if its only a couple of times though. I gets kind of annoying after a while.

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    I really don't care if a guy throws money at me on stage - there have been a couple times when a guy was doing it in a rude way, and I just ignored it and continued my set - after all, it's not like he was throwing knives or something! But 99.9% of the time when guys throw money on stage, they're just throwing it because they're seated further away and can't or don't want to get up there to hand over the tip. We get that alot here, and when it's busy and stage is full of tippers, plus guys are throwing money, I'm a happy girl!

    I've run into a few who hold out a bigger bill, and then when I come over for the tip, they switch it for a $1. Those are assholes and get nothing but a nasty comment from me, along with that $1 shoved back in his face. Interestingly, all those I've encountered were either in some hick town in the states or, since moving down here, American tourists.

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    I haven't had many pullers... I usually dance away, give them time to think it over just in case they don't realize it's crappy, then come back. If they still do it, I ignore them the rest of the night as much as possible. I'm not a dog. I don't twirl for treats. The worse one also added, "I don't know how much you make, but I can guarantee I make a lot more money than you," like I freaking care and am going to play with him just because he has a good job. SURE. The throwing is weird. Glad it's never happened to me. I'd probably just kick it back to him while I was dancing or pretend I didn't see it, maybe say something like, "Oh, honey, now that's not the way it's done," and try to show him where to put it. He probably already knew, but there's a chance to change behavior without looking dumb. *shrug*

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