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    Not directly related to strip clubs but--by accident I happen to have found a website on the internet (a soft-core porn site) where a friend of mine is posing nude. She doesn't know I know about the site. I'm thinking of subscribing. I'm wondering whether any of you think it would be poor etiquette to do so or not.

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    May be just me but I would consider this like looking in the bathroom window when you heard the shower running. On the other hand asking them if it was alright and did not bother them would be the right approach and earn respect.

    Maybe they do not care and maybe it would creep them out. Depends on the person.

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    It does sort of seem like 'looking in the bathroom window' yet it is a legal way of doing so. That's what really turns me on about the idea. I would probably subscribe anonymously...

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    Peoples reactions are all different.
    I was talking to a dancer last Saturday who interrupted the conversation to go give a bug hug to a former neighbor who knew her dad. She said it felt funny, but she did not appear to mind. Go figure. If this is a serious friend, not just an acquantance what do you have to lose by talking to her. Might even help the friendship.

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    She's not a really close friend--more of a good acquaintance--so it might be a bit unusual to ask her about it at this stage. But it also does seem weird to subscribe in some ways.

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    I would say either talk to her to make sure it would be ok with her.

    If you don't want to discuss it with her then I don't think that you should subscribe.

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    Thanks for your comments, Ravin. I'm wondering why you feel that way. The reason I don't want to discuss it with her is that she is actually a co-worker. I am a little bit friendly with her outside of work so she is a bit more than just a work acquaintance but it could be seen as harrassment to even ask her about this given that we work together. However, if I were to subscribe anonymously she wouldn't need to know...

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    Zen, don't read to much into this. If this girl has established a pay website, it was for the express purpose of causing guys to pay for memberships. A lot of guys who I have gotten to know a bit over the years, from club customers to a judge to ex-high school classmates, are now members of my pay site, for which I am very grateful. Go for it!

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    Shes out there to be seen! It's a free (well paid perhaps) for all! She knows anyone can see her in due time, if she thought this through

    Go. She put it out there for people to see, so it's not the same thing as a peeping tom. Thats without permission, you don't need hers when she poses nude on the web. Besides, she would love to have your money!

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    I completely agree with both Melonie and Pamela. In fact, I was surprised to read the objections prior to their posts. It's a no brainer. Go for it.

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    Go for it, she put it out there to share!

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    Yep. I would. If she doesn't want people to see her, she shouldn't have put it out there. I would think that the fact it's there whould be giving permission enough.

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    Boy I thought I was way off base when I read the first posts and then I got to Melonie and Pamela and everything came back into line again. I say join the site. This is not a voyeur situation as the first posters indicated. She put it out there in the public forum for people to pay to see. I see it as, if the girl posed for a mens magazine would you ask her permission before you went and bought the magazine? I had a similar situation but it was a coworkers wife who was on the web. Couriosity won out and I temporarily joined the site. My coworker was fully aware that other coworkers had joined the site, and he didn't have a problem with it. Hell, he was making money off of the site.

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    I say join and don't tell. Telling her you joined or even asking her would be poor etiquette imo.


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    If you join and are discrete about it then you are just supporting your freind in her endeavor to attain the American dream and have her own business. What is wrong with that?

    Now if you join and then spread the pics all over town or tell all her freinds and embarass her or something then that would be creepy. Otherwise enjoy and help her make her car payments! LOL
    Anyone with a memory should be very humble.

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    Why ask her? She has her pics out there, and she knows the risks of doing so. She knows someone who knows her may see her - if she had a problem with that she shouldn't have her pics published. Just subscribe, and keep it to yourself. If she doesn't mention that she has a website or models for websites, you shouldn't bring it up because she may be uncomfortable with that. Many internet models choose the internet because they want to be 'anonymous'. This is NOT the same as peeking in the bathroom window - she is advertising herself in public, so anyone in public can look.

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    I agree with the girls- if she has a paysite, she knows that her pics have the possibility to be seen by anyone- a neighbor, co-worker, or even family member. It's not like she has her pics up on a personal site by accident - she has it up knowing full well that someone she might know can see it.
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