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    whats a normal tip for a $20 lapdance (or if you get a few $20 lapdances form the same stripper)?

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    hi... i was actually curious about this too... i started stripping for the first time last night!!! Finally!!!! And I sold 4 $20 lapdances, but didn't get any tips for them... is this normal? Should I expect a tip?

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    i know a few weeks ago i got like 4 or 5 $20 dance from one girl and gave her a $20 tip she counted the $ and gave me another dance. I was trying to tip her and i guess she though i wanted another dance. very wierd but i wasn't complaining.

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    If you get to keep the whole $20 I probably wouldn't expect or hustle for a tip especially if I did multiple dances for one person.

    Puderba, a $5 tip for a $20 dance is always nice and if you really like the girl, pay her double. I love it when that happens.


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    some customers are not aware of tipping so if you politely remind the at the begining, like (what ever the rules are) I can touch you but you cant touch me and you can tip if you like. It has just about garunteed a tip every time at least a 5$
    good luck girls
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    some customers are not aware of tipping so if you politely remind the at the begining, like (what ever the rules are) I can touch you but you cant touch me and you can tip if you like. It has just about garunteed a tip every time at least a 5$
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    that's a good idea... i'm gonna have to try that one out... thanks hon... ;)

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    hi ..ive been doing this for about 3 years now on and off and ill tell you ive learned to take each customer on a case to case basis . for 1 i wont sit with a guy for a 20 dollar lap dance . in the club i work at its 30 dollars a dance or 4 for 100.00 . now when men are givin an option they will choose the cheaper route . i entice them for the 4 for 100 then i charge them a 30 dollar fee afterwards. a tip to men is a few dollars ,go for the big money ....if you get a guy who doesnt ask the price for a dance have a ball! keep dancing , make eye contact and act very interested ,this distracts the guy from the amount of songs hes getting and makes him feel you really like him . at that point you can get any amount you want .i could go on and on all day i have alot of hustles, email me if your interested .

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    I wouldnt call that hustling,more like ripping the guys off,thats not the way to get regulars or the advice to give to new dancers.

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    agreed michelle. bet you dont get much repete business.
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    at first I thought Charity was talking about overcounting dances (which can work in a high volume fast paced club but I'm not advocating it) but after I reread her post it simply sounds like she is distracting the guy from keeping track of the number of songs she's danced. I admit I've been guilty of this one before but I also stated "let me know when you want me to stop" before I even started.


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    Alot of guys won't tip for dances, some will. I probably get tipped for lapdances about half the time - funny, but the guys who only buy a couple laps will tip me more and more frequently than those who take me to VIP. I guess the ones going to VIP think they're spending enough already, but if you work it out by the song, they're actually spending less than the guys getting laps (at least at my club), unless they go for the more expensive champagnes. We are a service industry just like any other, and service people live on tips! I can't figure why so many guys haven't grasped that concept....

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    I generally have gotten into the habit of stockpiling only two denominations of money for my SC trips, namely ones (for stage and waitress tips) and twenties (for private dances, cover and drinks). I keep the Andy Jackson's separate from the rest of my money, so I don't have to fumble through my wallet for fives and tens, or piss off a dancer by handing her the wrong bill in a darkened room. God knows its happened.

    If the dances are $20, I very seldom will tip extra for buying just a few because I like to make my payments in $20 increments. If I felt a dancer did an exceptional job, I'll "tip" her by simply buying more dances. I might tip an extra $20 for say, six or seven dances, but few gals seldom get beyond three.

    If they're $10 dollar dances, I'll often buy them in sets of two, pay $40 for three, or even $60 for four. I hate fiddling for exact change!

    $20 around here is equivalent to 2-3 hours wages for some guys (before taxes), and is a pretty good return for a dancer over what is seldom more than five minutes of work (even if your club takes a third of it). Therefore it is not customary to tip extra for dances. A few weeks ago, I went to a club where the dances were $25. I bought three dances and handed the dancer $80. Without me even inquiring, she asked me if I needed change, over five measley bucks.

    Perhaps the mentality in some clubs is to keep the price high enough where its no big deal if a dancer doesn't get a tip on top of the standard price, but if a customer wants to pay extra, pay double or even triple the price then more power to the lady. Free market enterprise, right?

    Most guys probably aren't aware of proper tipping etiquette at a strip club because many of them (namely casual customers) don't quite understand the concept of how the business works, like the misconception that you gals get a wage or salary, instead of having to pay in to the house.

    While I think that there should be guidelines for tipping, I dislike the idea that it should be mandatory or expected to the point where one has to ask for it. That just seems a tad greedy to me.
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    I receive tips off of dances probably half of the time. Any tip I receive on top of a dance is greatly appreciated. I never expect a tip or ask for one. I think it is rude and tacky to ask or demand a tip for your lapdances. I have gotten dances myself and I will tip the girl if she is good and has a great personality.

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    Tipping is SOP for me (my dances are always good as I only do with my regular ladies). Dances are $20 each. I pay $50 for two and if we happen to do four then its $100. My club doesnt take a percentage of the dances, they just charge $20 per dancer per shift so from that standpoint the the ladies get to keep most of the money. Works for me. When I see my favorite I give her $20 up front to cover her tip out.

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    Default Re: lapdance tipping????

    while I agree it IS tacky to demand a tip, I think Lexus's technique is acceptable. Some guys enjoy (or maybe even think they're expected to) tucking multiple bills in your g, garter, between your breasts.


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    while I agree it IS tacky to demand a tip, I think Lexus's technique is acceptable.
    I agree. I mean after they've paid for the lapdance and a girl asks, "Can I have a tip?" or "Where's my tip?".

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    If your interested in more responses this same topic was discussed on SCJ.

    http://www.stripclubjunkie.com/cgi-b...578567;start=0

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    hi ..ive been doing this for about 3 years now on and off and ill tell you ive learned to take each customer on a case to case basis . for 1 i wont sit with a guy for a 20 dollar lap dance . in the club i work at its 30 dollars a dance or 4 for 100.00 . now when men are givin an option they will choose the cheaper route . i entice them for the 4 for 100 then i charge them a 30 dollar fee afterwards. a tip to men is a few dollars ,go for the big money ....if you get a guy who doesnt ask the price for a dance have a ball! keep dancing , make eye contact and act very interested ,this distracts the guy from the amount of songs hes getting and makes him feel you really like him . at that point you can get any amount you want .i could go on and on all day i have alot of hustles, email me if your interested .

    welli can tell you from personal experience that is a way to piss a guy off. Me and my buddy hung out at PEC a hile after the rest of our party left and then (after they left) we spent spent over a $1000 on god knows how many dance. By last count i think i had 8 different dancers over the night. He was pretty close to taht number too so between the two us we prolly had 15 diffrent dancers. I know i like one enough that later on in the night i got a second round of dances from her. There was one one girl that was really hot and my buddy said she gave a good dance but he refused to get another round from her simply beacsue she just kept going between songs and didn;t ask if he wanted another one between song he figured that it was justa logn song (techno......). Had she not done that he prolly woudl have spent more on her and tipped her. Instead he was pissed cus he though he only got 2 songs and she like $100 please!

    the one i got a bunch of dances from i gave her two $20 tips over the course of the night and got i guess 8-10 dances. She was pretty cool about it because the first time round she said i got 3 songs and i know it was more than 3 not sur ehwo many but i'm think more like 5. She amde me ahappy camper. Quite frankley i think she gave the best lapdance i ever had. She was wicked hot an dvery nice. Plu her lil outfit made me crazy! Thanks whatever you name was @ PEC!!!

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    Yes I see alot of girls asking for tips at the end of the dance, which I think is rude and tacky in the extreme. It's not a tip if you're asking for it! I rarely even mention tips because I just don't think it's cool, but once in a while if a guy is asking whether the tip on the VIP tab goes to me or not, I tell him no that's for the waitress, but he can tip me in cash if he'd like. That's as far as I take it. If they want to tip, I appreciate and thank them accordingly. If not, no sweat.

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    I wouldnt call that hustling,more like ripping the guys off,thats not the way to get regulars or the advice to give to new dancers.
    well im not ripping them off but guys come in there to spend money , men dont get ripped off but im not going to say "should i stop thats 3 ...." instead i keep him interested and i make alot more money . i get plenty of repeat buisness in fact they call the club to see if im there b4 they come in . not only that but i have men who give me 100.00 dollars a song , they like me in body and they like my company . i think all dancers should go for as much money as they can , isnt that our whole point of dancing as opposed to flipping burgers ?

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    at first I thought Charity was talking about overcounting dances (which can work in a high volume fast paced club but I'm not advocating it) but after I reread her post it simply sounds like she is distracting the guy from keeping track of the number of songs she's danced. I admit I've been guilty of this one before but I also stated "let me know when you want me to stop" before I even started.
    thank you , you interpeted in correctly , im simply trying to share how to make more money with each and every guy .

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    I won't tip on a lap dance unless I believe it was worth it. Dancers who ask for a tip beforehand spells trouble IMO. My insistance in not tipping a dancer at a club several months ago cost me dearly, since I was inadvertantly pickpocketed by the damn ho as she handled my trousers as if she was stripping me as part of the dance . In other instances the dancers simply sucked and just wanted the extra money. These are reasons why I've avoided paying for dances in my last visits to SC's.



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    I don't normally expect a tip for a lap dance, and I don't ask for one. I get tipped probably about half the time, everything from two to twenty dollars.

    I do expect a tip for champagne rooms and jacuzzis, though I normally don't ask. At my club a half hour room or jaccuzzi is 220, and I only get 100 of it. If it's a jaccuzzi, I have to go re apply my make up and touch up my hair and stuff so I'm off the floor for more than half an hour and still only being paid for half an hour. There's one bouncer that will hustle tips for us, when he gets the credit card stuff he'll say "would you like to leave a tip on the card for the girl?" and most guys will.

    If a customer is a complete asshole that I don't want to see again, and from out of town so I probably won't have to deal with them again, I'll sometimes ask if they'd like to tip me.

    With older men where I do the little girl kinda thing, I've been experimenting with asking after the room "how'd I do?" and most of them tip then.

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    Yes charity ,we do this to make lots of money,I work at the top clubs across the us were only 1 in 20 that come in get hired and I make alot of money,but I dont do 10 or 20 dances with a guy without enquiring if this is what he wants,but most of the time I am in the vip room were I am payed by the hour so it doesnt matter,its all in how you project yourself and do business.

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    If a customer is a complete asshole that I don't want to see again, and from out of town so I probably won't have to deal with them again, I'll sometimes ask if they'd like to tip me.
    Lena
    Yup, but for me, depending on the guy's level of assholiness (ie: he keeps ignoring the boundaries I've set and I'm constantly swatting his hands away from my kitty) I'll say "Look, I've already told you don't touch me there. Keep doing it and the price of the dance will double (or triple)"


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