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    My insistance in not tipping a dancer at a club several months ago cost me dearly, since I was inadvertantly pickpocketed by the damn ho as she handled my trousers as if she was stripping me as part of the dance .
    Well I really hope that didn't happen at my club. I'm well aware that many customers experience this kind of thing at other clubs, but if it happened where I work I'd be severely disappointed. We are expected to hold ourselves to slightly higher standards than that! I know that no matter where the club, any particular girl may be a bad apple, but one bad apple, as you well know can give the whole bunch a bad name

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    Slightly off topic but related to a comment made earlier. To the folks who also offer a "# for price" like 4 for $100--How many of you have considered making that offer on the second dance? I have found that some great stage dancers are not that good at lap dancess and some mediocre stage dancers are great. I am not talking about behaviors like extras, more motivation and enthusiasm. I won't go for # for dances unless I know the person is good. But dancers seem to forget this isn't a written contract and fail to pursue the good prospect of getting $100 if they are good in Dance 1. I would love to switch from 1 for pricing to 4 for pricing and a lot of people act as it is either or.
    Also be sure at all times the customer is aware of the dance count by whispering in the ear the count. I am obviously distracted at the time and a client thinking it is 2 when it is 4 is easy with a lot of songs. Heck make a game of the song number and make it sound sexy.
    PS on topic: I tip better for fewer dances than more same as I tip more (in percentage terms) for a cup of coffee delivered quickly than a steak dinner that is average service. I also consider degree of difficulty in enticeing me. The faster I say yes, the less time the dancer has to spend marketing.

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    Well I really hope that didn't happen at my club. I'm well aware that many customers experience this kind of thing at other clubs, but if it happened where I work I'd be severely disappointed. We are expected to hold ourselves to slightly higher standards than that! I know that no matter where the club, any particular girl may be a bad apple, but one bad apple, as you well know can give the whole bunch a bad name
    No, it wasn't at your club. I would've been able to tell management and have the dancer disciplined, but where I was it was a no-win situation so I had to leave it there



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    Why couldn't you talk to management at the club the incident happened Carlos?

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    welli can tell you from personal experience that is a way to piss a guy off. Me and my buddy hung out at PEC a hile after the rest of our party left and then (after they left) we spent spent over a $1000 on god knows how many dance. By last count i think i had 8 different dancers over the night. He was pretty close to taht number too so between the two us we prolly had 15 diffrent dancers. I know i like one enough that later on in the night i got a second round of dances from her. There was one one girl that was really hot and my buddy said she gave a good dance but he refused to get another round from her simply beacsue she just kept going between songs and didn;t ask if he wanted another one between song he figured that it was justa logn song (techno......). Had she not done that he prolly woudl have spent more on her and tipped her. Instead he was pissed cus he though he only got 2 songs and she like $100 please!

    the one i got a bunch of dances from i gave her two $20 tips over the course of the night and got i guess 8-10 dances. She was pretty cool about it because the first time round she said i got 3 songs and i know it was more than 3 not sur ehwo many but i'm think more like 5. She amde me ahappy camper. Quite frankley i think she gave the best lapdance i ever had. She was wicked hot an dvery nice. Plu her lil outfit made me crazy! Thanks whatever you name was @ PEC!!!
    and ofcourse i run this risk with not asking if they want me to keep going but in the long run i make more money . ive been told my lap dances are great and ive never had a man unhappy . in fact ive gained many regulars that give me 200 whether i dance 1 song or 4 , they also send me clients but i understand your point and how every man is different . after being in this buisness for a few years you learn how to feel out customers , my men know im there to make money . with that we all have a good time ...happy stripping! lol

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    Every man knows that you are there to make money. That doesn't mean you should take advantage of them.

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    Are you sure you're making more money in the long run, Charity? I mean, how would you know? I'm the type to say something at the end of each dance to guys I don't know. Sometimes it's not clear like I'll say "should I keep going?" and they guy will get confused that I mean a second dance. Anyway, I've been accused of being a scam artist and they will tell their friends about how I overcharged then in the back and whatnot, and then all the friends are scared of me ripping them off. I hate that feeling. If I know for sure that the customer understands that each song equals $20, I won't say anything at the end of each dance.

    Anyway, as for tipping, I don't usually ask for one, but I have if the guy comes. It totally grosses me out and I figure I went above and beyond the call of service and he should be grateful!

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    and ofcourse i run this risk with not asking if they want me to keep going
    You are also running the risk of them refusing to pay.


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    Anyway, as for tipping, I don't usually ask for one, but I have if the guy comes.
    yeah, me too. [puke]


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    Why couldn't you talk to management at the club the incident happened Carlos?
    It's not necessarily an "upscale" club with proper security and concern for customer's enjoyment. I'ts more of a dive, with a not so clean reputation. I felt that if I told on that specific dancer I'd probably get into deep shit with those particular people running the club.



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    It's not necessarily an "upscale" club with proper security and concern for customer's enjoyment. I'ts more of a dive, with a not so clean reputation. I felt that if I told on that specific dancer I'd probably get into deep shit with those particular people running the club.
    Damn, if I were you I'd look for a new club to spend my money in. But that's just me.

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    The only club that I worked at was a topless club, where dances were $15 (low to no contact, tops stayed on) and it war pretty normal for the guy to hand you 20 and not expect the $5 back in return.

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    Lapdance tipping, is there such a thing?
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