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    hi guys haven't been on in awhile, anyhoo i seem to have run into a problem with one of the girls at work, although there might be more i'm not sure. i'v been working at this club for almost two years and i guess i finally made the flavor of the month because a few girls are supposedly pissed off at me and are planning on cock blocking me, i don't know who they are , my source refuses to tell me for some retarded reason. any suggestions as to what one should do in this situation? i'v never had a problem with this before and its gotten me pretty bummed out .

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    Is your source reliable, or are they just trying to get you riled up?

    I have never been in this situation, although I have come close. It was only one girl and I wasn't sure she was "cock-blocking" me, but I had a feeling. I just held my head high, didn't stoop to her level, and kept going on about my business. Nothing bad ever came of it, we never had to work together to often either so that helped. The situation just sort of died out. I was bummed out at first too, but I learned that in the long run she was just making herself look like a dumba**.

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    thank you so much for the advice. it just sucks when you know that someone is going to deliberatly try to f#[email protected] with your money it dosen't make work a good environment on top of all things considered. perhaps i'm taking it too personalyl because i'v never had anyone hate me b4. but i guess the advantage of this industry is that it does make you grow thicker skin wether you like it or not..

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    I'm lost again ladies. What is "cock-blocking"?
    Anyone with a memory should be very humble.

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    Can't some people just grow up!!!!!

    I would go on "ignore" when the time comes (if it does) handle it. Until then you really don't know what to expect. Play cool, be yourself, mind your biz, you will be fine.

    I hope you have good management. We have to rely on them at times. Screw talk. Do your job. And don't get into a cat fight.

    You are MUCH better than the childish games wanna be adults play.

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    a cock-blocker is actually a guy, generally speaking. He's your (you being another guy) friend who somehow intervenes between you and a girl so sex doesn't happen.

    I'm guessing in this sense, it means a girl who is delibrately making it so guys are turned off towards her.

    Anyway, I have a girl like this. She HATES me. It's kind of funny actually because she spends so much energy hating me that she spends time talking shit about me and pouting about me in the dressing room instead of making money. She eve got fired for this for a few months. But you know how it is, they always come back. The management is on my side. They said if they hear any stories about me, she's done.

    Anyway, about two weeks ago she tried to do some "cock-blocking" on me.....tried to steal a customer away from me....long story....it back-fired big time. She just about had kittens.

    You will get the last laugh if you are not spending time hating on other girls and they are hating on you.

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    I agree with Pam to just ignore her. From my point of view, she really can't do all that much. Sure, she can make up some lies. But the guys are usually pretty savvy to girls pissing on eachother and they probably will guess that she's full of sh*t. If some do believe it, the truth will usually come out in the end. You MAY want to casually mention something to management so they're aware of this chick. If she causes problems, they may just want to get rid of her anywaz.
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    just absolutly ignore the rumors. this is juvenile immature bs. this is your job, your livelyhood. you really dont have to do anything if theres a problem girl she dig her own grave in the end. just sit back and wait. dont stoop to be a part of it.

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    thank you so much girls. i'v been worrying it so bad about it , i got myself sick
    im just goign to keep working out and keep feeling good about myself and let her bask in her own misery. i guess she consideres me a threat where she didn't before thus it is kinda flattering if you think about it...
    once again thank you for all the advice , sometimes i'm so tempted to do something reallly mean as mentioned in previous postss but then again it would just make things worst...
    blessed be

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