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    Default LAP DANCE/BEST LINE

    WHAT IS YOUR BEST CONVERSASHION STARTER TO GET THEM TO BUY A LAP OR VIP DANCE? [boobies] [boobies] PLEASE LETS HEAR THE MONEY TALK. [frustrated]PLEASE HELP.
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    Destiny36,

    You might not get alot of responses to this thread due to the fact that most dancers see stripping as a selling game, and if they tell you what they say to attract potential customers, then they might be up against that same verbiage where they work, then they'll have to think of some other slick approaches. It's kind of like if you are a car salesman and you ask the other salesman what they say to their customers, chances are they will be apprehensive about telling you because they too are working on commission and are more interested in keeping their "edge" than sharing the "how-to's".

    On the other hand, some dancers also have the thought pattern, "Not every is going to find me attractive, so if my line doesn't work for me, by sharing it I might be helping out some of my sisters whom the guy might be interested in."

    Having said that....

    The ice-breaker I hear most at my club is:

    "Are you ready for a lapdance?"

    I think this works much better than, "Would you like a lapdance?" (which is more of a Yes/No type question).
    Not that the one I recommended isn't, it's just less abrupt and more of a suggestive sell.....think of it as the difference between his wife asking him if he wants his slippers (to which he thinks, "Whatever"), and her asking him if he is ready for his slippers. The "Are you ready for XYZ?" approach sounds more sub-servient, like he's being pampered (even though we all know it isn't subservient), to which he'll think to himself, "Yeah, I'll let you do this for me"...when in reality he's doing it for you (the "it" being giving you money, while he mistakenly thinks that "he's" being taken care of/served).

    The worst one I heard was this really aggressive dancer who would ask either of the 2 questions above and if the guy said that he wasn't interested, or "Not right now, thanks", she would say, "What, am I too ugly for you?"...unfortunately this would work extremely well in guilting the guys into getting a dance from her, but at what expense?....the customers might avoid the club entirely after that just because they don't want to deal with her, and/or they might tell all of their friends that there's this "hard sell" girl(s)(or girls, by way of guilt by association) at the club and that they shouldn't go.

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    I always smile and say Hi my name is _____. What's your name? Then I ask him any combination of the following questiions 1where he is from 2 what brings him into the club tonight 3 is it his first time in the club 3 has he had any lap dances tonight 4 how long he has been hanging out in the club tonight
    Once I get a feel for what type of guy I am dealing with, I ask him if he wants to go over to one of the couches for a lap dance. If he says no, I just say OK maybe later and I walk over to the next guy.
    The number one most important thing to remember is not to spend more than two to five minutes trying to make a sale. It's just a lapdance not a marriage proposal. It is not to your benefit or to the benefit of any of the other dancers to just sit around talking to a guy for free. He needs to know that you are a working girl and you work for money not drinks. As a matter of fact when a guy offers to buy me a drink I usually order a bottled water just so he gets the hint.
    Check out hustle hut. You will find some great advice there.
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    When I worked at a local club before I traveled we would get a lot of out of towners in ,being as its in florida,I would walk up smiling the whole time and then sit down and say hi whats your name,tell them mine and shake their hand then have you ever been in here,if they say no I say oh you have to try are famous dance then its like whats that about,well we had an area we did are dances in that you had to walk to the back of the room and step up and I would always say,even if they said maybe later I just got here,well would you like to go sit back in the section and chat,its much quiter,90% of the time they woukd say yes,we would go back ,he would offer me a drink and within 2 or 3 songs they would usually say can you show me how that dance works now.When I staretd traveling and could not opperate this way as the dances were done right at the table I would never flat out ask for a dance,I would say are you ready for the florida girl,being as I was from out of town,this was a conversation starter and an ice breaker and that worked well,sometimes they would say sit down and I would but only for a song or two and if they didnt dance I would be extremley friendly and tell them I would be back when they are more aclamated.

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