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    I am going to start dancing again soon like tomorrow soon. The only thing that keeps bothering me is I have that after baby body. I have light stretch marks and my breast kinda went south for the winter . Don't get me wrong my body isn't horrific or anything. Just do you guys mind that after baby body? Or do you feel it's more in the attitude? Guys let me know...

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    As long as YOU feel OK with yourself, you should be all right. If you feel up to it, go for it. The sooner you get back into doing something physical, the quicker you will get back in whatever "shape" is normal for you.

    All of us have some imperfections, so I certainly don't expect perfection when I walk into a club. A really nice personality beats baby body any time.

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    I agree with Dave on one aspect... as long as it is safe for you to do so, the sooner you get back to dancing the sooner you'll tone up, lose any residual extra pounds etc. However, for a fact you will never again look the way you did before getting pregnant. How this fact may affect your income potential now versus how well you did dancing pre-pregnancy is something that you won't find out unless you try. Unfortunately, not all club customers are as understanding of "imperfections" as Dave apparently is.

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    Now melonie,I know several dancers including myself that have had babies and do indeed look the exact same as before,I actually know of one girl who looks better.

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    i agree with michele.let us know how it went at work.
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    I looked better after having my daughter

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    Amaya, same here!
    Most people would rather be certain they're miserable, than risk being happy.

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    I know some women who looked absolutely amazing after childbirth and then some who looked like train wrecks.

    I think if you take care of yourself *for you first* then your confidence and sexuality come shining thru no matter what.

    There is beauty in all women. Women are like diamonds with all her facets gleaming and each diamond is unlike another - her 'cut' different than anothers....

    Dont worry that "after baby body" how do you feel? Let your own personal beauty shine for you - not only that Melonie is right the dancing will put things back where they belong a lot faster and in the meantime let your own beauty come thru.

    Good luck, Leigh
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    Well I went in to work and did really well almost $400. I mean everything is ok it's just when I had my son everything went a little bit lower. I guess the customers didn't think so.
    Thank you all for looking out ! REDZ

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    Quite honestly I think many women look better after having children!! And like Dave said, those imperfections make you real and special.

    http://groups.yahoo.com/group/vickivalentine/

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    Cool Beans that you did well! The most lovely dancer I have ever seen has 3 children, no joke......and the confidence and sensuality to play it off. Glad you saw the light.

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