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    Okay, over the weekend, I took the gf (a part-time dancer) out to dinner and then off to a club where she had never worked. She had never had a ld before, has sometimes suggested that she has leanings that way, so I thought why not?

    We went to Pigales, but the girls need to talk more to couples when they come into the club! We probably dropped $600 over the weekend, but only because my gf got up and approached the dancers, nobody came by to offer a dance or even chat! We did get some great dances, but too many of the girls just stand there and gossip instead of actually saying hello. Do most girls have a problem dancing for couples?

    She really enjoyed herself , and may go dance there now (which means that I can't go back, oh well ), but I'm just curious. Are you afraid to approach, or just shy about being with a couple, or just turned off about the situation?

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    I am not shy about couples at all! I actually approach them when i see them. Usually, they want dances. I like that it whets my bi appetite, so all parties are having a ball.

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    I love dancing for couples! The only thing better than both is just the wife or girlfriend, LOL. Doing laps for couples is sort of rewarding because it is a shared experience and they usually enjoy it more than the average male club-goer.

    But I agree with Miss George, though I regularly approach couples, I have a propensity to approach the singles males first. I have done over 20 dances in a row before for a guy, but no more than 8-10 for a couple.

    Also, I find that perhaps half of the couples will not want dances, and those that do will only do a few. Perhaps this is why you were not approached by many dancers at this particular club-- they were thinking of previous experiences.

    A good way to test if a dancer likes women or is open to dancing for couples is to have your girlfriend tip at the stage. If the dancer is friendly and gives your gf special attention, she probably likes girls. If she simply tugs the side of her g-string open with indifference, that is not a great sign.

    There are some dancers who will shy away from couples, but for each one of those girls, there will be another who loves it and will show both of you a great time. Good luck!

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    Sometimes it's just hard to tell how cool the wife/girlfriend is. I don't want to cause a fight if I walk up to a couple and she's not that much into it.
    Otherwise, I like dancing for couples. I'm just iffy about approaching them.

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    I like dancing for couples and usually approach them, whereas most of the other girls in my club do not approach them. Miss George is right though, in my experience, they usually only want one, maybe two dances. So if there are other customers that have better potential for wanting more dances, it's not a smart business move. But I do it anyway, because I like to. (maybe because I am part of a couple and like it when girls approach us in clubs.)

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    I've had a few bad experiences approaching couples so I just don't bother any more. It's really not worth the potential of causing trouble (if the woman is not really comfortable there, as is mostly the case) or having to deal with some attitude (one couple said sarcastically once as I walked away, "Nice try."). I have never had a couple do more than 5 dances so I normally think chances are better for making money elsewhere as well as easier to deal with. I dance fairly regularly for 2 couples that come in, but that's it. A few dancers at my club will not do dances for women, so I'm sure there are others out there. It must suck to be part of a couple and have to chase dancers down, but on the other hand, it might even be better! You don't have to worry about pissing dancers off or wasting their time by saying no and you can pick and choose when and with whom you want to dance. Your girlfriend probably already knows this: it makes it so much easier for us dancers when people ask us for dances for a change.

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    Default Re: Do dancers have an issue with dancing for coup

    I agree with everyone in that they may not get that many --or any dances.

    However if the girl tips me and seems interested, I always stop by and chat. Most couples that frequent my club just want to watch.

    I love dancing for them though! Danced for an adorable couple some time ago, they were so cute!

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    I rarely approach couples because 1) you can never tell if the female will be cool with it, even if they're tipping at the stage, they sometimes get super jealous if a dancer approaches the table; 2) they don't usually do more than 1 or 2 dances and expect alot of 'prep' time; and 3) many are WAY harder to deal with than a guy alone - two sets of groping hands are much harder to fight off than one - and most couples who come in are looking for a girl to take home and they're VERY aggressive about 'asking'.

    OTOH, if a couple asks for me, I'm happy to come over and dance for them, because I do enjoy dancing for the ladies

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    Thanks for the feedback girls! I'll know better if we ever go back in!

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    I actually do not like it when guys bring their gf's or wives into the club. I know that I will not be able to get the guy into VIP if he is with his girl. Most guys that go to the clubs with their girl don't spend more than 20-40 all night. I might approach couples if there is no one else left for me to approach, because the action in the club is at a temporary lull.
    I am also afraid that the guy is just being an asshole to his girl by saying hey look at all of these beautiful women; when he should be saying how beautiful she is and not comparing her to the strippers.
    Plus I really don't feel comfortable dancing for another woman unless she is a very butch lesbian. I am used to dancing for men and I know how to deal with men. It seems really weird for me to try to treat another woman like she is a man.
    That's just my 2 cents.
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    Default Re: Do dancers have an issue with dancing for coup

    Well I can understand most of the points you make, but don't you think it would be fair to at least try!? I go with my husband all the time and it's because the club here I love the way I feel comfortable you just might be surprised we have spent about $700.00 in one night before on the GIRLS I am just saying you can not stereotype people like that and yes it is me that wants to go I have so much fun, and no I don't go there because I want to find a chic to come home with us I think women have to most beautiful bodies and I have alot of respect for a women that is brave enough to get up there a take her clothes off. Yes I am bi-curious but would never expect or ask anyone to go home with us and like I said earlier that is not the reason I go. I go to have fun. Well that is MY .02 cents

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    Maybe I missed it and someone else said it here but the key to approaching couples is in approaching the female first and lathering the attention on her.

    My wife seemed to attract a lot of the gay or bi ladies she used to dance with and still does today when we go out. But even the straight girls we know that have approached us seem to go to her first, sitting on an arm of her chair or pulling up a chair next to her.

    A common fantasy most of us guys have is wanting to see our lady with another lady so I doubt there would be much jealousy shown from the guy.

    A great opening line I've heard " Oh my gawd.... How do you do it?... I want so much to bring my husband into a club with me but I get so worried about getting jealous and you seem so comfortable here...... With that line she tells my wife she is involved with a guy herself and is complimenting her composure as well as starting a conversation with her. I guess I've heard it 3 or 4 times.

    All our best experiences in clubs have been with ladies that approach the wife first..... I just wish we had the same taste in ladies.

    Not that I complain a lot.






    I have a difficult time meeting ladies!

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    We have the same taste in ladies - as long as they are not more beautiful than her!

    Now she wants to go again, as long as the dancers are heavier and older! I think that I'm getting jealousy vibes, and maybe should stop before it gets out of hand!

    But still, I think that it's a lot more fun to go with the SO to a SC than it was when I was a PL going on my own!

    So maybe I'll be good, and continue to let her make the choices!

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    Default Re: Do dancers have an issue with dancing for coup

    I like to dance for couples... Mmmm, Yummy... Oops, sorry, the problem is that most women, with men or not, are often jealous or catty, its just an iffy situation that most dancers stay away from!


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