yesterday i got a email from a person in vegas asking me if i would like to come dance there or at leased find a job he said he would be willing to help in what ever way he could. should i be worried about this?
Danielle
yesterday i got a email from a person in vegas asking me if i would like to come dance there or at leased find a job he said he would be willing to help in what ever way he could. should i be worried about this?
Danielle



Hi Eyez,
I am no expert on the matter but at the very least you want to find out more about this person, who they are, and what is their angle in wanting to help you. Don't let yourself be a victim or be taken advantage of somehow.
Find out all you can and then talk to some of the other ladies here who know the biz and can tell you what to watch out for. Proceed very slowly we like you around here and would want nothing bad to happen to you. OK kiddo?![]()
Anyone with a memory should be very humble.
XIX:
More info, please... How did he get your em address? Do you know him? How else did he get your em addy? If you know him, how can anyone other than YOU be the judge of his character? If you do NOT know him, then again--how did he get your addy--it would seem like a no-brainer in refusing the offer. Yes, that would cause me concern if you didn't know him and he knows you dance and knows your addy.
he got my email off of here. [email protected] posted:I saw your post on stripperweb and I wondered if you'd like to dance in Vegas? I'm here and I could help you-hope to hear from you, jeff
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so i wonder...



You wonder what? Pretty self explanatory if you ask me. If you're wondering if he could be a legit club owner/manager/recruiter the answer is NO. They don't send cold e mails like that. You're 18yrs old and giving way too much personal info out over the web!
(this is where you imagine me shaking you) Now stop putting links to your yahoo profile with picture and practically exact location! DO NOT respond to those sort of personal e mails! Even if it's just to say fuck off! I don't know the first thing about what goes through a pedophile mind; but wake up girl, even I can totally see you being a vulnerable 16yr old target! Nothing wrong with future plans to dance but PLEASE don't fall for some guy saying you gotta go through him to get in the biz! It's 100% BS! If you are 18, or when you are, go down to a S.C. yourself and ask to speak with a manager for an audition. This is how it's done without chance of winding up stuck in some Nevada whore house!
Sorry I'm not in sugarcoating mood right now.





Danielle, hon, some basic rules, especially if your in the sex industry:
They don't want to help you. They might think they want to help you, but the more they think they want to help you the more they want from you.
Don't ever ever ever put yourself in a situation where you can't take care of yourself. If you have to rely on anyone for anything, don't do it, and especially don't ever put yourself in a situation where you can't just walk away.
Don't put personal information on the internet. Go to your yahoo profile right now and remove the city, and change the email address to an anonymous account (like yahoo or hotmail or stripperweb).
Never never ever give out any personal information about yourself in the club, or to anyone who meets your sexuality before they meet you. Use that anonymous email address if you have to.
You are precious, protect yourself.
Lena
I've caught myself feeling way too paternal over ladies that have an effect on my libido. It's a rather conflicting feeling.
I agree with what's been said, completely. Don't bother with this. Period.
- Jason



Hi Eyezz,
First off thanks to everyone who took the time to give Eyezz some good straight ahead advice about this matter. I don't know Eyezz but I do know that she is a sweet young girl and I would want nothing to happen to her.
Be careful Eyezz and be honest with yourself. You have a dream and that is fine if that is what you want to do, then follow the dream but don't let anyone use that dream against you if you see what I mean?
Keep working on your diet, keep working on learning about the biz and then like Lena (A very smart cookie) said to you, "Never put yourself in a position where you are not in control of your own life" Make plans and stay with them and you will get what you want from life but never let others make your plans to suit what they want.
You are a good kid, take care and be safe,
X
Anyone with a memory should be very humble.
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