I don't know how you reached that conclusion based on what I said. I've never had a problem with the choice women have. In fact, I made a point to say I am in favor of that.
There has LONG been a tradition of hurting/mutilating women for men's sexual pleasure (chinese footbinding, African genital mutilation) and it was seen as consentual....mothers would actually force their daughters to get it done because of the value placed on it. It wasn't because the mothers enjoyed watching their daughters get tortured, it was because men had been victimizing women to the point where it was acceptable to treat them as property and lesser creatures. I want to believe we're moving away from this. While Hunting for Bambi is consentual for the women, it makes me sick to my stomach to think of why men would actually want to do this.....goes back to an old tradition of men victimizing women. Hopefully we as a species have evolved enough to accept women as more than a mobile piece of meat for men....ready to be hunted down. YUCK!
It's kind of moot to rhetorically change the rules of the game to men are the victims because that doesn't play on archaic gender roles that empower men by subjectifying women.
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