and one more thing-
Kaiya wrote:
Even at the place I work (Lusty Lady), I get guys that think they get to come in and have sex with me once the $20 is in the meter, hehe. I even get guys that start pushing on the glass like it's supposed to come down and let them into my side of the pleasure booth. Kaiya (at the Lusty Lady San Francisco)
In cities where extras are more common this is how many guys will act.... these same guys travel and visit other clubs too and act the same way. Dancers are more and more being sexualy assulted at work by customers who expect and commonly get extras. They don't ask if its ok- they just touch,grab or insert fingers because they just assume if they pay it is ok :o And just where did they get the idea that this behavior is ok.... I really feel this matter of sexual assult becoming more common in clubs is a DIRECT result of extra dancers .
Think about that the next time you do an extra !
[grr]
When I started dancing close to 10 years ago- contact was not common and extras were limited to the very bottom level clubs only. The more common contact became the common extras became and each step the customers became more demanding for sex acts. And now we have a whole group of customers who just touch etc right off the bat. Who is to blame for this- extra dancers thats who !
Extras just don't have any rightful place in stripclubs and neither do women who do their extras IN the club. Those kinds of activities belong in private homes or hotels
I know I am ranting here- but in club extra dancers just really burn me up with their "we aren't hurting anyone BS" That is exactly what that is too- TOTAL BULLSHIT.



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