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    Hi everyone. I was wondering how many of you are "no touching allowed?" I'm not disrespecting anyone's choices and if you have a different "line in the sand" than me, more power to you. But I'm interested in hearing from those who have chosen the "hands off" route and whether they feel it limits the amount of money you can make. Also, how to you let your feelings known, especially if you're in a club where other girls go farther?

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    Default Re: No touching allowed

    I'm a light touching in non-strategic areas kind of person with male customers. I sorta specialized in girl/girl shows where the guy just watched. Those were sure fire bank and I'd go full contact with another girl. With female customers, I would go as much contact as she was cool with, except no customer touching inside the G-string.

    In Indy light contact was all that was allowed so it didn't hurt earnings. In Lousiville, there were definitely people doing HJs, BJs and FS who made more than I did. But I never considered the extra money worth the it.

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    Default Re: No touching allowed

    I basically go with what's legal in a particular city.

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    I was a no touch dancer. I often out earned what contact dancers said they made, so no I can't say it hurt my earnings.
    Ofcourse I did not work in contact clubs either. I am sure I wouldn't have earned what they did in the same club- but that is they key right there. If a dancer prefers no touch she should work only in no touch clubs or you risk getting mauled even before you state your personal limits.
    There are still places in the states where no touch is the norm- a good example is Atlanta.
    I also found that the no touch clubs were more upscale and attracted a higher income level type customer on average that the touch clubs during my travels.

    The drawback to being a no contact dancer is that usually you have to rate a min of a 7 to get hired at the No contact $$$ clubs. And the costume requirements are usualy more strict and expensive too. A eye catching gown runs $60--$100 +
    And no contact dancers MUST be able to entertain just as well with her witt and charm (if not better) than with her body. Being good looking will only get you in the door. Its witt and charm that earn you the big bucks.


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    From no contact, to very little.

    My knees down, upper arms, shoulders and hair.
    My hair was the biggie.

    Guys would love to run hands through the hair and stick money in it like a flower!!

    Looking back now the hair thing seems silly

    Pamela


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    Hi Lilywhite, the question of contact and how much is really based on the club you work at and the region it is governed by. In my immediate area, alcohol serving club's are latex nipple cover's and t-back, 18" air dance club's, non alcohol nude club's the dance's are topless, full grind without customer's touching the dancer's if you drive 60 mile's down the road in any direction you encounter full hand's on contact club's. The biggest difference being that the girl's that work for me would invariably never work where customer's can touch them ( that's why they work here ) anymore then a girl that work's in a topless bar will work totally nude. You work, generally, in a club that offer's service's that you as a dancer are comfortable performing. Unless of coarse there are no choice's.

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    No touching, no extras.

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    Depending on the customer I allow touching ONLY on shoulders (NOT NECK), arms, just above knees but no higher.

    Seems a bit technical when worded this way. I don't give a list of do' and don'ts to customers; but I do have quite a few "playful" lines that I give that lets them know not to, without spoiling mood.

    If I'm dancing and he looks like he's about to start touching:

    "Wow, thank you for being such a gentleman. Some of these guys get so handsy I can't even enjoy the dance."


    If he reaches for t-back:

    lightly slap hand and say "now, now babe, she bites"
    He'll get the message.

    Boobs:

    First try I move his hands and keep dancing.
    If he tries again I say "stop that you naughty boy, you're gonna get me in trouble"

    MY PERSONAL WORST: touching my face [nono]

    Sorry, I don't have playful response to this. For some reason this seems to be my target area (every dancer has a target area where they always get messed with)
    I move their hand quickly and spend rest of dance "on guard."

    Do you dance nude? Most nude clubs (maybe just in Tx though) allow zero contact. My friend only dances nude and does VERY well.

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    Default Re: No touching allowed

    minimal contact absolutely no extras.
    I agree about the face thing - wtf is that I always wonder? Creeps me out, touching my face.

    Depending on the customer, I feel like a ninja octopus sometimes, squirming and moving to avoid gettting groped!
    I have stopped dances and demanded payment with those that will simply not behave.

    Other times you get a guy that is such a gentleman and these are the times I give my best in that dance, and make my biggest dollar off of.
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    Default Re: No touching allowed

    The amount of contact I allow depends on the club rules. I do pefer to work in a no contact club though.

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    Default Re: No touching allowed

    minimal contact absolutely no extras.
    I agree about the face thing - wtf is that I always wonder? Creeps me out, touching my face.

    Depending on the customer, I feel like a ninja octopus sometimes, squirming and moving to avoid gettting groped!

    Glad I'm not the only one who can't stand them touching my face. I bitched about it once while on my cell in the dressing room and some of the girls looked at my funny and it's okay you're not gonna get in trouble if they see a guy touching your face. WTF?

    Ninja octopus Now that's a classic!

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    I've had plenty of dancers stroke or cup my face. Doesn't bother me. But I don't touch them without permission.

    Sat with a mini-fave once, shared my food. She complained of sore feet. I gave her a foot rub. The next time I came in, she came over to my table, sat next to me, put her foot in my lap, and smiled ever so prettily.

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    Default Re: No touching allowed

    As a customer, I am an inveterate rule follower. I assume no touching period unless otherwise informed. I follow the directions of the dancer, because she is the one working, and she is the one dealing with customers all night. She leads my hands, I follow... not the other way around. Sorry if that makes me sound like a dancer suck-up, but thats they way I operate in my life, and I stick to my personal code of ethics.

    In one of my favorite haunts I have gained a decent rep for not trying to grope and get more than I am supposed to. Dancers who practically make their customers sit in their hands allow me to run thier shoulders are back (I give a mean back rub ) because they know my hands won't suddenly go to the wrong areas.


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