I rarely start a topic of discussion but need a little room to vent. After reading a thread in the ladies about slander I was possessed to start this one.
To start, my wife and I are fairly well respected within the realm of our industry ( locally ) . We are the pseudo fantasy couple in our area. I owned a business and worked the club's to stay social. We got together and some of the girl's where jealous, calling me a sugar daddy and saying that there was no love and she was only in it for the money. After our son was born I had the opportunity to buy a club, which I did, fulfilling another widely shared fantasy that many of us in the industry have. Therefore fueling even more jealousy amongst our now rival's.
Now back to my wife, we have been friend's for 7 year's and together more then 4 year's two of those married. She is also one of my dancer's and as one we work very hard and well, I might add, at keeping our relationship out of the club. I'm her boss at work and she is mine at home. She work's really hard for her money and take's exceptional pride in her career and ability to perform. Anyways the hugest problem we have encountered is that she get's destroyed by other dancer's, either from our past or one's we have meet along the way. She has a fantasy life that she share's with customer's, that she is a student and work's her way through school dancing ( the ol struggling student angle ) , she uses the same story all the time to keep it all straight. Other dancer's that know her and work at other club's keep telling her shit to customer's and ruining her money. There's one that I busted doing coke out back one night and fired, 2 other's at a rival club that are just jealous because there live's suck and hate that she is successful and happy and many other's that we can't place yet. To the point that we don't tell new girl's coming in that we are a couple until we know they are going to work out and stay. We have even had girl's inside the club pulling the "oop's I slipped" shit and killing her earning potential. It is so frustrating for the both of us, I have so much trouble dealing with it that it's starting to eat at me. Yeah I've given her the " hey baby, they can't compete at your level and they cheat at the game to knock you out of the race, jealous bitches, what come's around goes around." and all that stuff. I doesn't help when they are taking all the money and she's fighting to get her's. Guy's will spend on a dancer who has an S/O or kid's or what ever if it's presented properly or not brought up at all, guy's will never spend serious money on the " owner's wife " ever. She is intangible and perceived as such. This is unfortunately a smaller city and therefore much more of a problem then it would be in any place with a population of say around a million. I guess the truth does hurt sometime's![]()
Just had to vent, any comment's, suggestion's welcome.
Peace,
Not so Crazy, Bob



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