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    I want to post this and see what your opinions are. If you keep up with my posts you know that I met a guy last week in my club. I was dumb enough to take it outside of work. Well..... he is spanish....in this area everyone (spanish) knows everyone (spanish). Its like a community. For example his cousin knows his brother knows his friend who works with someones son...etc etc... people talk. eventually they will find out not only that I work but WHERE I work!!! I do not want to switch clubs, but I know for a fact that his friends will see me if I continue to work there. (they are there tonight i was told) I thought about switching clubs...but any club that Id think of working is a club that he mentioned they frequent. Im not so much concerned with them seeing me....i just met them so who cares really...... Its more the people in my personal life. If I continue to dance , theres a good chance they will find out. Im not looking to leave a legacy. Help!

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    Blaze i understand wht you are saying. When you dance in a public club, god only knows who will walk through that door. No matter where you work.

    As a dancer you take the chance to be noticed by people who you would not believe would step inside.

    I would take the 'i don't care approach', because this is your job, and you need to support yourself.

    Many dancers hide what they do from loved ones, to worry all the time who may notice them and tell others untill everyone knows.

    It happens, i won't say it does not. You may get lucky for some time and not get noticed.

    But for most of us, if we are well known in the town, get noticed.

    I am sure you will handle this well when/if it happens.

    Don't sweat it! It's your life, do what you want.
    People will always talk.....And we should not care.

    You can't stop them. Don't try. Enjoy your life, and job, have a great time! make money, and move on away from the drama.

    If you don't let it get to you...It won't.
    Pamela

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    Pamela, i private messaged you. PM me back if you get it.
    Blaze

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