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    Default Re: What is an extra?

    Only if you can get a disease? then I guess HJ's with a condom isn't an extra (hehe).
    Yeah, I thought the same thing. Slap on a condom and nothing is extra. Woo hoo! I can call myself a non-extras guy again! I sometimes wonder what it would be like to be innocent again.
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    Default Re: What is an extra?

    Well my personal opinion of extras is: breast contact , HJ , BJ, fingering, FS and anal
    Anal, really? That has to be part of the standard service. (I don't think that ANYONE would argue that one)






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    Default Re: What is an extra?

    Amber: Only if you can get a disease? then I guess HJ's with a condom isn't an extra (hehe).

    All these definitions pertaining to the laws and rules? In my city now, ANY touching is now illegal, so I guess a lap dance is an extra? *sarcasm in voice*

    Someone said it before, but his zipper has to come down before it's an extra for me.
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    You allow him to touch/eat your cookie without calling it an extra?

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    Default Re: What is an extra?

    Amber: Only if you can get a disease? then I guess HJ's with a condom isn't an extra (hehe).

    All these definitions pertaining to the laws and rules? In my city now, ANY touching is now illegal, so I guess a lap dance is an extra? *sarcasm in voice*
    At my club, rubbing a guys face with your tits is not only normal, it's expected...

    The choice is up to each girl with how far they will let a guy go, but anything besides touching under the thong, or boobs is accepted... actually, I believe the rule is written just as .... no moth to private areas allowed.

    The grey areas are very vague though...

    skin to skin contact... is that an extra?

    slidding down a guys body and rubbing his dick with your head... is that an extra?

    letting a guy slide his hand up the middle of your chest without him actually touching breast... is that an extra?

    nibbling a guys ear... is that an extra?

    grabbing his ass.... extra?

    there are so many undefined moves... there are many things I don't think are extras and others would or vice versa.

    I think it has more to do with staying within your moral boundaries (and the laws of course).

    You have to live with yourself... if you're doing things you're not 100% comfortable with, then it's an extra.

    As long as you're staying within the legal limits and you don't feel bad about what you're doing, then it's not an extra.

    I think it's more of a personal decision than anything.

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    Another thought on this after reading some of the responses, (and I'm not trying to pick on Precious or Amber here but their quotes are germane to my point). We've had some bruising arguments over here on this topic, and considering the prevalent anti-extras sentiment over here that's perhaps understandable.

    Let me clarify that by my definition of what is (or isn't) an extra, I am not in any way attempting to define people who do them, (or don't do them). I certainly hope no one is trying to draw the line on this in a matter that puts themselves on the "right side of the tracks" while acquiting themselves of certain things that they do. Just because a particular dancer has crossed the line LEGALLY, doesn't mean that she's a bad person. I based that definition on a LEGAL standard and not a moral one precisely for that reason.

    That point taken, I'd say a good 90+% of dancers have bent the rules at some time or another, (including those who claim devoutly that they DON'T do extras), and many have done minor ones unknowingly based on the notion that they are so commonplace at their club and that the laws forbidding them are so rarely enforced that they don't realize what they are doing is illegal.

    Can compartively tame things like simple contact constitute an extra? In the right city and the right club, I say that it can. Even if every gal on the premises is doing it.
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    Default Re: What is an extra?

    i agree that not all laws are enforced or even aware of. an extra to me is hj, bj, fs, oral ect. in other words a sex act. i dont consider skin to skin or even touching of the breast an extra.
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