I have a friend who does it on the side. Claims there is no sex involved just dancing goes with a driver. Any thoughts about this? Personal experiences![]()


I have a friend who does it on the side. Claims there is no sex involved just dancing goes with a driver. Any thoughts about this? Personal experiences![]()
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I've been doing private shows for years through a local agency. There is a difference between private dancers and escorts. Usually escorts have sex--dancers don't. I prefer private shows to working in a club because the money is a lot easier and everytime I work I'm guaranteed a set amount. I also do bachelor parties.
As long as you have the driver, or some other GUY tha you trust (not BF, believe me!) then it's fine. DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES agree to a private show without backup--also, when I do privates, I always get the info WITH a gf at the club, so that (1) gf knows, and (2) customer KNOWS that gf knows all the info, especially that I will be back by a certain TIME. She can't raise me by that time, it's 911 time. Keep it safe, and enjoy the easy money--oh yea, get it first, before any clothes come off (hourly flat works best)
Ok, here's my experiences with this. A couple years ago, a dancer I met at my local club agreed to dance at my house. The first time she came over, she brought her girlfriend with her, but after that time, it became almost a regular occurence. She would call me up, and come over, without her girlfriend or anyone else. Mainly because, over time she trusted me, and knew nothing was going to happen to her. We had good times, talked and stuff, and the dances were memorable. There was lots of fooling around going on, I have to admit, but we never did have sex. It was a lot of fun.
The only time I did a dance by myself was for a couple - and the girl was friends with a friend of mine. There was no sex - not even full nudity (g-string only), and they were really very nice - Originally I wasn't keen on the idea of it, so I quoted a really absurd rate - and they agreed to pay it - so I did it and it was easier than the VIP lounge at my club.
That's not to say that everyone is like this. That's why I do bachelor parties with a minimum of one other girl and we have a bouncer -
The money is exceptionally good. And it's crystal-clear that there is no sex involved whatsoever. My friend and I are even starting to think about putting together a bachelor party service because the demand is high.
If you think about it this way, my club charges $360 for the champagne lounge for 50 minutes (not even an hour). Per girl. We charge $200 per girl per hour, not including tips. That, for them is a deal - when for us, it's making us more money because we only make $125 in the lounge - and the tip from one guy can be less than , say , from 15-20 guys.
The last bachelor party we did, we had a total of 4 girls. We did 2 hours at the party and each walked away with $900.
The customers had so much fun that they now throw regular parties, "just for fun"!
"You have no idea what a long-legged gal can do without doing anything." -Claudette Colbert
There is this one older guy that I dance for about every other week, for two hours. He is SUCH a sweetheart, I only end up dancing for about 1/2 hour, the rest of the time I just sit and talk with him. I met him in my club and when he first asked about me dancing for him privately I was like, uh....I don't know about THAT. I told him we could exchange numbers and I would think about it. He was in the club with his cousin, and they both like to frequent stip clubs a few times per month, but they also like to each have a girl come to their house and dance privately for them there. At first I was a bit skeptical but I am so glad I took him up on his offer, it is the easiest money ever. I guess his cousin sees HIS girl 3-4times/week, gives her $3000 per month, she doesn't even work anymore b/c of the easy money she gets from him.
Anyway, if you are ever going to do this DO BE CAREFUL! There are a lot of nuts out there, definitely bring a driver at least the first couple of times. Other than that, it is the quickest, easiest money you will get!!![]()
Okay ladies, me-"Ms. I ain't doing nothing outside the club"- got an offer for private dances. Thing is, the guy is kinda high profile so when he came into the club he was really lo-key and i didn't know he was who he is. We had a really nice conversation but when he mentioned private I was like um, well how bout I let you find what u r looking for 2nite and was excusing myself. He stopped me and explained that I misunderstood and that he was not talking about sex, but simply private dancing. But the offer has been made and I am really taking it into consideration.
Of course, I know the deal with security and verification of information, famous or no famous, I still will do what I used to do when I was the tag along friend for girls who did private shows or dates. I need address phone number, driver license # and car tag # then I call a police friend and have them run them to make sure they come back as both existent and real. I am gonna drag along one of my buddies I used to constantly accompany last summer.
I was really thinking though about what would be a good flat rate. Its not about the whole celebrity angle cause I'm not even letting that be a consideration when quoting price. Dances in my town are $40 a song for about 3min songs. Keeping this in mind what do you ladies think would be a reasonable rate for an hour?
"Come what may although I often say realities come from dreams, but approach all lies with open eyes because NOthing in this world is EVER ALL it seems."
Anything from $150-$300/hour is totally reasonable. The company I work for charges $225/hour (I get $150) and when I have danced for people whom I've met in the club I charge up to $300. You should know that if you charge more than $300 the guy will probably expect more than just dancing.
I think it's great in some way's ,because you can make a certain amount easily. you also know the guy or girl wants to give you the money ,thats the reason they booked you right. An even better thing is if your working for yourself then you don't have to split your money with any company.
I know I am a few years too late for the original post, but I have been doing private shows for about a year and it can become a very lucrative addition to your club income. The only problem these days, besides the obvious, (stalkers, rapists, weirdos, & freaks) is advertising your private dancing. When I first started, neither one of the clubs I worked at, (there was only two consistently), they didn't want me passing out my business card or "stealing" their customers.
Now... I don't even bother working at the club, as this has become a fulltime deal, but dancing privately, no matter how much you make, will never be enough. You have to keep an edge on the competition. Whether you believe this or not, escorts are going to be one of your biggest competitors. They, too, dance privately and give it up for the same hourly rate you are charging.
I figured, I'd add a bit of my wisdom to the post. If you have any questions about private dancing in general, feel free to PM me. I have learned alot of things the hard way and have no problems helping out others. Thanks for reading my two cents...
Chytel
I have done it a few times, and now I only have one guy I dance for outside of the club.
I wouldn't even consider it unless a guy has been in the club for a while and I know him pretty well.
Make sure you have all your info straight, and give it to a few people in case of problems.
Oh, and around this area, it's usually $250-$300 per hour, per girl.
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