I am having a problem with a particular girl at work. I usually get along with everybody, as I am friendly and outgoing and try to avoid conflict. Even the girls I don't really care for, I still have a civil, working relationship with. First of all, up here in Canada, there are lap dances in the VIP. If girls are doing extras and are discreet about it,,,fine. This girl is fully "in your face" about extras. Even out on the floor! [grr] During a table dance at the guys' tables she lets them grab her breasts, lets them spread her cheeks apart (ugh!!! [shameful] ) and does some really raunchy stuff. I have told the management several times and they are doing NOTHING about it!! This girl is also fully addicted to crack, always high and drunk at work, outright rude to all the girls (even the ones she's never met before!) and walks around like she owns the place. Even customers have complained to me how bitchy she is with them! She's the size of a large man and looks like she may have been one before, so I am in no physical position to say anything to her, and she is the type who wouldn't care anyway. I don't fight, never have, and am not going to get myself into that situation by confronting her alone or anything. This club is usually a pretyy nice, clean bar, all the girls get along (which is really rare and the main reason I love the place) but I cannot work while she is making a scene and calling me a "fuckin' prude" while I am onstage! I am not the only girl this is affecting, but management doesn't seem to care. There aren't alot of bars close to me that are this clean, so I don't really want to switch clubs. Any advice on how to deal with this? I have letting a crack addicted bargain basement wannabe hooker ruin my night. I don't want her to have that power but it drives me mad that she is single handedly "ruining" this great little bar!
WHEW! [frustrated]
I am sure some of you have dealt with this crap alot,,,,so puhleeeease let me know how you managed!
Thanks,
Kennedy



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