Hey people,
Can any of you relate to this problem? I feel like because I am a dancer - the females that know do not want to befriend me. I have lost 3 close friends because of this. One started dancing with me, until her parents found out....they put a stop to it & we lost touch. Time went by & I talked to her again recently& made plans to see her, and she stood me up. She wont return my calls or answer e mails etc etc. I dont understand what I did?? I didnt tell her I was still dancing, but I think that because I have money she assumes that I am. I just dont understand why she made the plans in the first place if she had no intention of keeping them. And as an old best friend, dont I at least deserve an explanation? I put myself through school, and supported myself (because my parents wouldnt help) Im not a bad person. No drinking, drugs, touching men etc....but I guess im not worthy of friends?? I lost another friend(we were friends for 4 years) because I told her i was dancing, and she told her boyfriend. He caught her cheating on him and called me up to tell me that he knew i was a dancer. This really hurt me, but when I confronted her she denied it. This caused a fight for obvious reasons. Months later when i tried talking to her, she refuses to answer me. all i want is closure. SHE IS THE ONE THAT F'D UP!!!!I feel like I have lost all of my close girlfriends. Its hard to make new friends to replace the old ones that you had for years and years. Its also hard to make friends when u are a little older....and i dont really want to make friends from the strip club. Ive tried to talk to these girls, and its a lost cause. If they ever cared about me at all, id think they would give me at least a response. As for all of my other relationships(acquaintenceships), I feel like they are fake in away because they dont know what i do....and i will never feel like i can tell them. any advice??


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