What is an extra?
What is an extra?
lethalsoul





An extra is something that goes above and beyond what is legal or allowed, usually commands an extra dollar amount but not necessarily.
I didn't respond to your poll because it seems ill-defined. There are lengthy threads on the extra subject I'll try to find one or two and revive them for you.
Here's one:
There's a few more as well.



IMO an " extra " would be defined as anything not allowed by the club or the law even if the club allow's it.
In some club's something as little as allowing a customer to contact you at all it an extra yet in other's it's normal practice and totally legal to touch dancer's anywhere they are not clothed ( usually in a t-back ). Some club's allow dancer's to kiss customer's and I don't think it's illegal in any state to do so. Most club's frown on that practice and would consider it an extra. Anything considered illegal by the standard's of local law whether acceptable by the club is also considered an extra.
You're going to get all sorts of definitions. For me the definition (or non-definition depending on how you look at it) is simply:
"If IT is in the pants, then it's NOT an extra."
I'm a simple man, making my way through the universe.





CB's definition about sums it up, but there's no absolute definition, particularly with respect to "minor" extras (i.e. activities that fall short of actual sex acts but are either illegal or against club policy nonetheless. What may qualify as an extra in one city/club may be considered standard service in another.IMO an " extra " would be defined as anything not allowed by the club or the law even if the club allow's it.
Former SCJ now in rehab.
Extra is a word that got thrown around by dancers doing more than what is allowed.
anything that is not allowed inside the club is considered an extra.
It's that simple. Rules are rules. And the law is not too understanding about 'extras'.




The whole theme of "Extras" keeps going round and round without any end. Suffice to say that most Dancers here dislike them in practice and concept, and many men who post here defend it like it was the Golden Fleece. In the two months I have been here I have not seen anyone from either side of the issue say "wow.. I never thought of it that way". There is no resolution.
Here is my take on Extras. I don’t like them (what.. but you are a guy!) and I will never accept them, for both health and integrity issues. They are detrimental to a Club and to the Dancers as a whole, unless the Club owners are greasing the palms of the local Constabulary.
That being said, IF you are a dancer to does extras.. and IF you are a customer who seeks them and accepts them... when you do it.. keep your Traps Shut about it. You get a handjob from a dancer, keep it to yourself. Don’t blather to all your friends. That ensures that the place will get a rep that will potentially close it down... and you lose your handjobs. Also use your brains and don’t think just because one dancer crossed the line that there are more who will in a club. If you are "lucky" enough to get a dancer who will jerk you off, then just be happy with that. Don’t acerbate the situation by seeking it. It’s bad enough for the Club and other dancers that someone is compromising their livelihood and possibly their legal record. Broadcasting it everyone only makes it worse.
Of course, you can disagree with all these sentiments.. and I expect many too do so. Just keep in mind that this is what I feel about it, and no matter of disagreement or flaming of my sentiments will change my mind.
PJ
PS. I saw "Finding Nemo" tonight. It was great.
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