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    last night was my second night dancing (first full night) and I found myself having a hard time getting into the feeling of it which reflected in my tips. I also felt bad going up to the same guys a number of times, because i didn't want them to think i'm greedy (which now i realze i shouldn't care). Can anyone offer some advice on these situations??

    Whats a good way to learn some interesting tricks... What I'm doing onstage feels like its getting old and redundant.

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    So true, stage shows have to change...Alot. Music, hair, clothing, attitude, pole work and floor work. It is tough as a newbie to come up with different themes.
    I will give a tip for stage shows, Cosmo. glamour etc. Those magazines inspired me by looking at the pictures of the women! How they are dressed, and what kinda of music, dance would go great with that opening outfit. Of course you can copy, or come close to the clothes and pictures of the ladies in the back of the magazines.
    Lots of cowboy shots, glamour, and flirty dresses! I could not have done it with out looking at different types of outfits with the hair, makeup on them etc. All i then had to do was ask myself what kind of music would this woman dance to dressed like that. It does get easy. Shoes are important too. Guys love feet, shoes (some), always change shoes!

    I NEVER go back to the same guy/s 3 times in one night. I only spend about 5 minutes talking to a new guy/s. I flirt...Alot. Ask one to fix my shoe strap. (nothing is wrong with it). But it's legal contact. You are getting inside his mind. Make him feel special. Laugh at the stories, jokes, even if they are not funny to you. And learn a little something maybe about a sport, or event. So you canncarry on a short conversation, guys like smart women, even in a strip club!!

    Second night. Calm down, watch the most requested dancer there. Follow her, but with a bit of a twist.
    Does she smile alot ? Do it. Is she not shy ? Be her. It will come in time. Give it a week. You will be doing better. And look at how you are dressed compared to the popular dancer.
    Find two assets you can play up. Hair, eyes, legs....And play them as high as you can. Be sex! Good luck!
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    Good tips from Pamela. The easiest way to learn as a newbie is to watch the girls who seem to be most popular and busy. Only watch the other girls to learn what NOT to do.

    You can get alot of ideas from magazines!

    It will take a little time to figure out what exactly is your best asset, but you already know what you feel most proud of about yourself, so play on it! There is something unique about you that you can work with, that everyone else doesn't have. Exotic eyes, great long legs, sexy lips, a great ass, a sweet innocent or temptress look, whatever. Use it to full advantage.

    Smile!

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    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

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    thanks

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