am i the only one who gets grossed out by customers who get dances, and are wearing loose pants and no undies? yuck.
am i the only one who gets grossed out by customers who get dances, and are wearing loose pants and no undies? yuck.
nope, you aren't alone.
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Leigh Landon
Never explain yourself to anyone, because the person who likes you doesn't need it and the person that dislikes you won't believe it.
I agree completely especially when you gice nude full contact dances like me. However if I had a boyfriend and HE wasn't wearing underwear, I think that's SEXY!
It's better to be looked over, than overlooked.





I'm not going to ask how you girls can tell when a guy has no underwear, Leigh already answered me on a previous post LOL
SO, then... you brought it up....why? LOL!
You know I always think going commando is so unsanitary too - further fueling my repulsion.
Or did he pull off somewhere and slip em off just before coming into the club...okay that too makes my stomach ROLL over. Buddy's got his gonchi's stuffed in his glovebox, oh for the LOVE of Mary!!! LOL!
Or did he go ALL DAY, sweating in his trousers - willy danglin freebird style, fartin and such ....LMAO!!!!!!
Then he comes into the strip bar looking for some love, cause the peanut butter on his dong doesnt work with his St Bernard dog he has waiting for him at home! Even his dog has limits ROFLMAO!
Okay this is just satire - although I cant imagine anyone taking offense here - oh ok maybe that guy who doesnt wear his big boy pants to the nudie bar that is...
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Leigh Landon
Never explain yourself to anyone, because the person who likes you doesn't need it and the person that dislikes you won't believe it.
Gem:
I'm sure you aren't the only one, but with the number of guys who do it, I would think most of us would be used to it by now. Really, there is no dif between commando and some of those thin boxers, now is there?
Funny story, once had a guy who went commando in his JEANS, because I guess he thought it was "cool". Poor thing, after two of us finished several dances on him, I thin k he was in TEARS. That really had to hurt, ya know.
used to it and accepting it are two different things!
it makes a difference in my mind. One little piece of fabric separating him from me. Two seems nicer.





I see it once in a while, and have seen it more than a few times, and as long as the guy isn't pulling his weenie out or having it dangle out from under his shorts, I really don't care, save for the fact that I know he's wanting more fun than I want to give, and more than we could possibly get away with at my club. I'll still give him a good dance, and will be nice to him, but alot of times it's hard dealing with them because they're trying to get more action. A few of the American tourists are really forward about telling me they're hanging free under their khakis, 'in case I want to play around'. I've gotten very good at handling this situation in a way that doesn't offend the guys, and sometimes get multiple dances but usually it's a polite thanks and he's off to find what he wants. BUT if the weenie comes out I'm not so nice anymore, because I am straightforward about what he will and won't get from me, so if he gets it out anyway he's a jerk and the dance is over.
It's gross, they try to pull it out, and i don't like it. You can tell when they have none on. That was a big reason for the ld thing, man.. if they don't try to stick fingers inside you, they are pulling on they penis to get the head out. SICK.
Pamela
Omg. thats horrible.
Every occupation has its hazzards though, lol.
see, it's stuff like this that makes me say it's not hypocritcal to give dances and not want your man to get one. it's totally NOT the same thing. Our job is gross.


Seems like there could be some chaffing without any underwear. What if the zipper started cutting in?
Not a good idea in my opinion. Maybe if you ladies are bitter about the boys wearing no undies, then you could "position" the zipper in a bad spot for the lap dance?
I'm a boxer guy myself. Most comfortable and they come in all sorts of cool designs.
Tyler
LOL Bridgette, I always try to explain to male friends of mine that are completely unaware of our environment and its "hazards" LOL, I always reverse the play and they usually get it....
***How about some drunk sloppy ugly chick pullin her skirt up revealing she has no panties - while you the male dancer are dancing for her and you see her untrimmed pussy swollen with excitement and she tries to pull your hand onto it? Or tries to put it on your leg or pull you naked onto her? How do u feel about that?*******
Every single man I laid that extreme example out to - was mortified!
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Leigh Landon
Never explain yourself to anyone, because the person who likes you doesn't need it and the person that dislikes you won't believe it.


Sorry Bridgette, I didn't mean to say that the ladies are bitter like that. I guess that was not the best adjective.Why do guys always call us bitter when we make a negative comment about something guys do? Tyler, it isn't us being 'bitter', it is a matter of simply not wanting an unwelcome weenie poking out at us!![]()
What I meant was that if you are looking to get revenge for the guys being nasty, you could teach them a good lesson.
I do think its more than fair for you ladies to do something rash if they guys are asking for it. Sorry for the bad pun as well.





I just find it amusing that some guys literally dress as if they were lounging around in their homes and the dancers are like their domestic partners (if they have one already) I don't see that sort of thing in clubs here, although I haven't been to all of them.
the zipper isn't always the option. The most disgusting offenders are wear like those silky sweat pants and no underwear. It's absolutely FOUL. I'm so bitter!![]()





OK, on a more humorous note, have you ever seen one of these f**king guys who wear those stupid revealing gym shorts that show all the details of their anatomy, and the guy is walking around like a stud, but he's got a little tiny peanut?
These guys always crack me up, why do they do it?
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
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Well I wasn't really offended, but I did misunderstand your point. I don't think it's a very good idea to start looking for revenge - if we're in that mindframe it isn't very conducive to being fun and profitable at work. I do understand why some guys do it - they've basically been trained by dirty dancers that it's the way to conveniently get something they want but is illegal and must be done discretely.
Sorry Bridgette, I didn't mean to say that the ladies are bitter like that. I guess that was not the best adjective.
What I meant was that if you are looking to get revenge for the guys being nasty, you could teach them a good lesson.
I do think its more than fair for you ladies to do something rash if they guys are asking for it. Sorry for the bad pun as well.
That's kind of funnyI just find it amusing that some guys literally dress as if they were lounging around in their homes and the dancers are like their domestic partners (if they have one already) I don't see that sort of thing in clubs here, although I haven't been to all of them.Americans tend to dress much more casually than Puerto Ricans, so it's not uncommon for guys to go to clubs looking for extras wearing 'loungewear'. Also from what I gather the other clubs here in PR have more private rooms/booths so it's easier for guys to get away with things without having to 'dress for the occasion' than in American clubs where it's more in the open and done in dark corners instead of booths or rooms.
AT the old club I used to work at there were alot of blue collar guys who worked nearby, so they made up most of the clientelle. The club would allow anyone wearing anything to come in.
At the club that I now work at, there is a dress code. So no track pants or anything like that. The minimum is jeans.
These men must think we get turned on knowing that they are. Boy are they ever confused!
Keep that thing away!!! LOL
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