Hey there,
i am in dire need of lap dance techniques concerning the one foot rule. what do you ladies do if you can't touch the customer at all. i am in really need of advice and tips as soon as possible. i thank you ladies in advance,


Hey there,
i am in dire need of lap dance techniques concerning the one foot rule. what do you ladies do if you can't touch the customer at all. i am in really need of advice and tips as soon as possible. i thank you ladies in advance,
I work in Dallas, also under the 12in rule, I don't have any technique per se, but only to offer up that a good deal (almost all) of the clubs and dancers here ignore this law (which can lead to prostitution charges if vice comes in, but it hasn't happened in my club since I started). Once the political fervor (in SA) about the evils of LD's dies down abit, you may also choose to go that route (ignoring the law). If you really want to obey the rule, my hats off to you, and I myself am also intrested in the more seasoned ladies advice![]()


thanks for the quicky advice, i have to abide by the law for the next seven days until the court makes a decision and i'm sure they'll be looking for ppl to catch disabeying so they can go on about all the stereotypes and further justify what they're doing.
i gather there will be usage of a oposing chair?





I've done no contact, but I've never done twelve inches. Getting down on the floor.. like kneeling and doing body waves, so your tits are like eye level, works for me. Bend over in front of him and run your hand up the inside of your leg. All that stuff, that you would do onstage, but do it now for him, looking deeply into his eyes.
Lena


thanks lena i appreciate the suggestion i'm surprised no one else has any tips to share...





I used to work no contact - you just need to maintain eye contact and do your sexiest moves, really look like you're enjoying yourself. You just have to be really fun to watch, like being on stage, to do well.


I've never actually been to a strip club. But I never knew there were clubs specifically for one footed ladies?


realy cute





can you touch yourself?
EYE contact is definitely a necessity in this situation..
touching yourself (not necessarily on your sexual parts, hehehe) in a way that he wishes he could only do is sexy as hell, as well. Lick your lips, shake your thang!


Sorry.realy cute





Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but there are no tips for a 12 inch rule. For a 6 inch rule you can usually put your knee on the guys leg and put your titties in front of his face, but a 12 inch rule is designed to force the club out of business.
You can't really use Texas clubs as an example because NO club follows distance laws there anyway. And in Texas which is a good ole boys state if the vice comes in a club the girls get all the heat and the clubs do not lose their liquor licenses for dancer infractions. Most other states will suspend liquor licenses or shut the clubs down if contact laws are blatantly violated.
No guy will buy a dance with the girl 12 inches away. I worked at a club like that recently and had a horrible week.
That is why this business is going downhill. We make the majority of our money selling LAP dances and guys buy more of them when they can touch and get good grinding. If you were a guy you wouldn't drop $10's and $20's right and left to look but not touch.
All you can do is play musical clubs and eventually if we keep having to move around to beat the law there will be no clubs left to sell the types of dances guys are willing to pay for as most places nowadays are looking to pass laws designed to keep guys from getting the kinds of dances they want.



The simplest technique for the 1 foot rule is to avoid working in clubs that enforce them. Otherwise, the only way you'll make money at a 1 foot rule club is to either 1. get a paycheck from the club or 2. make your money off of stage shows.
Tina is right, few guys want to buy "air dances".
Technically Atlanta has 12" rule ( some counties)Even still some clubs are known for lap dancing and some for airdancing. At lap dance clubs as long as you don't act like it's a problem or that YOU feel they are being gipped than it doesn't really hurt your $$. if you don't offer them. I held my own at one of the raunchiest clubs in the city but gave mostly airdances-- It was all attitude. Instead of focusing on outdancing the other girls, my goal was to outcharm and out sell them for prepaid V.I.P.' rooms. And I never acted like there was naything wrong with me not touching the customers--- IF the custy asked I say something along the lines of " That's not my style"
If you are cute and OWN it, Sexy and know it, and follow the rules and demand the same from your customers there shouldn't be a huge problem (every club will be different though) I just do a lot of sexy eye co ntact , glide my hands over my body, move close, very slowly and when they get riled up I move away quickly. They usually don't mind paying for the tease. The ones who want lap dances are generally not any one I want to deal with anyway...
And LOTS of men buy not only airdances, but also buy air V.I.P.'s you just have to give off a really strong and different vibe-- be the SEXIEST, or the HAPPIEST, or The most ELEGANT, but if you just blend in with the rest of the dancers and offer less you are probably settting yourself up for failure.
Now I've given lotsa nasty lap dances before. I just don't feel like doing it right now. No judgement on anyone else, nor do I feel bad about my past actions- just not in the hyper sexual touchy feely mood for it at present.
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Very true! The days of stage dancing and making big bucks are gone. That is why i had to graduate to ld's with contact and friction. They pay for this! Watch the club rules however, and you're local laws.Originally Posted by Tina
Best advice i can give a dancer who is on this "foot rule" crap is do a sexy stage dance just for him as close as allowed table side, and get as raunchy as allowed. I mean if he's there and knows you all can't get close he will buy if he likes what he is seeing!
Good luck.
Pamela
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My club enforces the 12" rule, and I still make good money. Yes, some of the out of town guys get a little ticked, but tough, I'm not getting fired or fined just to rub on some stranger's dick. There's always another customer that wants just a sexy dance. I just use lots of eye contact and touch myself a lot (can't be the naugty bits though). At my club you can't even take your top off during the dance, but there are other areas out here in So Cal that are enforcing that now. Cali is so repressed.
When Kalani (friend & fellow dancer) wrote this, SAT was under a 1-foot ordinance - we will be at three feet come September (I believe).
The best way to get around this is to keep your top & bottoms on. I look at it as an oppty to make more money, especially once the Walmart crowd disappears. Nina's advice is dead on. When we had the 1-foot ordinance come into effect, I was still able to make money (after a very short adjustment period) by doing just what she posted. I sold my time, my witty conversation :p , and my "only-have-eyes-for-you-and-if-I-could-just-touch-you-we'd-be-cosmically-connected" dances. When my club stopped enforcing the rule, my money took a little dip b/c everyone started back in on the heavy grinding and tits in face (amongst other things).
At least we can legally touch our own breasts now![]()





YOu could do a littel strip-tease, like wearing a dress, bra, panties, garter belt, and so on, and take it all off, slowly. I do this sometimes to entertain idiots who can't figure out what a one-way touch policy means.
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