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    Hey girls..
    grrr. So my man is going to Europe for 3 weeks. I am excited for him, but at the same time I cant get the dreaded feeling out of my heart that he may 'slip up' if you know what I mean. I know that I'm constantly stressing myself out over stupid things, but I'd feel horrible if anything happened. O well, thanx for listening to me vent

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    If he really loves you, he will be true. Even if it's hard. Pun intended.

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    I don't mean to sound harsh, Bebe, just factual.

    If you have no reason to suspect him other than just a fear, wouldn't he be justified in expecting the same of you? And surely, that wouldn't make you feel very good.

    If you can't trust each other to do what's right by each other, you're on a shaky foundation already. Trust is part of love.

    I wish you luck in finding some peace of mind about your guy going on this trip.

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    Bebe, I understand how you feel. I was paranoid for a LONG time because of a few bad experiences with guys, and even now I get a little edgy a year into the best relationship I've ever had. 3 weeks may seem like forever, but as long as you keep in touch (a phone call or two, some postcards even) it'll help put your mind at ease. It'd probably be a little more disconcerting if it's a vacation that he's going on (without you) but I would explain your concerns to him and let him know that you need a little more support right now because you're feeling a little shaky about it.
    Good luck!
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    my man is leaving for a year also...ouch that hurts but it will help me to learn how to be witout him and I will see how he does outside of relationship..It sooo hard to let somebody go like that but i cant take his dream away , so i got to let it go.. long distance or anything like that is just soo harrrd but i also dont want to see a man every single day either lol

    laterrr
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    The phone calls and the postcards are definitely a good idea. My fiance just got back from a business trip. He went to Houston, TX for a week. It was really hard for me the first night that he was gone, but it gets easier as the days roll by. Make sure that you keep in touch with each other every couple days. And I wouldn't stress too much about him "slipping up". If he really loves you then he won't do anything to hurt you. Trust is hard to give sometimes, but it's necessary if you want to have a lasting relationship. It just doesn't work without it.

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    Those European chicks don't shave! No way is he gonna want one! Just kidding..........sort of. No one atek offense please, I'm from there myself.
    It's better to be looked over, than overlooked.

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    Is he going to Europe for business ? And i am from Europe, but the women over here rock. My European friends are stuck up, lots are. (please no one take offense to that note). Not all. are

    If it is not going to kill your funds, once a week, call him and have fantastic PHONE SEX!!! Talk to him like you never have.....Sensual, not nasty. Blow his mind! He won't be able to wait until he gets home.
    Pamela

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    My fiance just came back from two week in Cali, and meanwhile I was going between Gainesville and Cocoa Beach, FL for work. What got me through it was the simple fact that my fiance lets me seduce and entertain other men on a regular basis and trusts me. The same trust is in order here. I know it can be really stressful when the suspicions start creeping in, but if he can't be faithful to you without your prompting and fretting over it, the relationship is probably not too solid. I also like Pam's idea about sexy phone calls and stuff. That crap goes a long way to letting your man know you love him, even miles away. When he returns, your love will only be stronger! Ohh, and that pent-up sexual frustration...definitely worth waiting for...
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