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    Default Thinking about getting into the business...

    I think that almost every female has at least thought about stripping. Ive thought about it many times, I can dance, I know i have personality-im a great bartender! Right now, Im 21, i have two very young children. I gained 92 pounds with my first child, and I stuggled my butt off- to get those pounds off, and I have. I am still working on toning my mid section, i think i look good, but i still have a very little pouch and i want Britney Spears Abs. Im 5'6 and about 127 pounds now. I have virtually no bust- you'd think if you had children, you would have breasts, but I thank my father for my chest. I have a few issues i would like some advice on:
    1) I WANT BREASTS!!!! you cant even call mine "perky" Im like a pre-teen, which could be good, but I dont feel as feminane as i should, and i am insecure about it. I want to get into the business for money first- i solely support my two sons, im broke. Ive thought about those herbal enhancers, but Id rather get get them.... How much does breast augmentation cost? is there payment plans?
    2) Miricle strech mark remover- Im not talking one timy mark, Im talking tiny teenage girl gets pregnant and packs on 97 pounds in less than 9 months kinda strech marks- they are silver now, and i can cover them up real good with a tan, but would this restrict my access into the world of stripping?
    3) can I have some breasts please???????
    4) If i do end up making it- will i be able to support my boys, maybe get my hair done too once in a while?

    Id like a mentor, someone to talkto about the business, let me learn from your mistakes, tips on how not to fall while dancing, getting over the initial stage fright type of things. Ive worked really hard to get my body back, and i look even better than i did in high school, i really think i can do this

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    For my stretch marks, I use Vita K's stretch mark cream. It's like $8 at most Rite Aids, and this stuff is AMAZING. I don't want to know how it works or just what kinds of strange chemicals they throw in it, but it faded my marks drastically in about a week.
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    I think that almost every female has at least thought about stripping. Ive thought about it many times, I can dance, I know i have personality-im a great bartender! Right now, Im 21, i have two very young children. I gained 92 pounds with my first child, and I stuggled my butt off- to get those pounds off, and I have. I am still working on toning my mid section, i think i look good, but i still have a very little pouch and i want Britney Spears Abs. Im 5'6 and about 127 pounds now. I have virtually no bust- you'd think if you had children, you would have breasts, but I thank my father for my chest. I have a few issues i would like some advice on:
    1) I WANT BREASTS!!!! you cant even call mine "perky" Im like a pre-teen, which could be good, but I dont feel as feminane as i should, and i am insecure about it. I want to get into the business for money first- i solely support my two sons, im broke. Ive thought about those herbal enhancers, but Id rather get get them.... How much does breast augmentation cost? is there payment plans?
    2) Miricle strech mark remover- Im not talking one timy mark, Im talking tiny teenage girl gets pregnant and packs on 97 pounds in less than 9 months kinda strech marks- they are silver now, and i can cover them up real good with a tan, but would this restrict my access into the world of stripping?
    3) can I have some breasts please???????
    4) If i do end up making it- will i be able to support my boys, maybe get my hair done too once in a while?

    Id like a mentor, someone to talkto about the business, let me learn from your mistakes, tips on how not to fall while dancing, getting over the initial stage fright type of things. Ive worked really hard to get my body back, and i look even better than i did in high school, i really think i can do this
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    Boobies... I've never gotten them, but I understand that the "good" ones are $3-4,000. My understanding might be slightly off since I've never priced them myself. Plus you have to be able to take time off and lay on your back for a while. See Bridgette's post in Body Business about this.

    Stretch marks - Again, there've been several threads about this in Body Bussiness. In short, Vitamin K in any form will work, but there are products containing Vitamin K that may work better. You can cover them with DermaBlend. You can probably still work at most clubs with them, but you will make better money if you cover them. The lights do wonders to hide stuff like that, too.

    About money - It depends what area you're in and how you look and how you hustle. Where are you? What clubs are near you? Can you post a picture of yourself? In most of the country, newbies seem to start out making in the $1-150 range. In most areas that will increas with experience to the two hundreds, tho you will still have your crappy days. In some areas that will increase much much more. See the many many threads about income in the Dollar den.

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    Default Re: Thinking about getting into the business...

    All good advice from Lena. There are lots of experienced girls willing to give all the advice you can handle on this forum, so just ask away.

    I just got a breast augmentation, 2 weeks and 5 days ago. The cost depends on the area you get it done in, whether you have to travel for the surgery, how good the doctor's reputation is, etc. In Florida it is MUCH less expensive than in say, New York. I had mine done in Florida, which is one of the least expensive areas of the country for plastic surgery with some very good doctors. I paid a total of $3900 for surgery and aftercare nurses fees, plus travel and time off. Be aware that you won't be able to dance for at least 4 weeks after surgery, and you won't be able to bartend for at least 2 weeks because you won't be able to use your arms properly.

    There are companies that finance plastic surgery, but they require a good credit score, likely even moreso than if you were trying to buy a car because they can't repossess your boobs! If you have good credit though, that may be a great option for you.

    You can dance and make great money without large boobs, and I've seen lots of girls making lots of money with the 'pre-teen' boobs you describe. They are usually young and it shows, and they play on the young girl / school girl thing. It works!

    You can also work with the stretch marks. Club lights help hide them and makeup like dermablend helps more.

    I'd say you probably look good enough just as you are to go ahead and dance, and if you want new boobs and work hard and save your money, you'll have the money to buy them in a few months.

    Just go to some clubs in your area and check them out. With or without the boobs, you can definitely make enough money as a dancer to support your kids, have extra money AND save some for later. Just be smart with your money and set a minimum to save from each shift's earnings or each week. Don't fall into the trap of spending all your money every night or only working just enough to pay bills, then wake up 5 years later wondering how come you're still broke.

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    Hey
    Don't worry about the boobs thing.. I make pretty damn good money most of the time and I have a very small bust! I have nipple rings so they're usually concentrating on those than the size of my chest.. hehehe LOL If you want something, go for it!

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    I have pictures, but they are not on my computer. I really appreciate all the feedback ive gotten from all of you. thank you very much. I live in Wisconsin, there really is not much here. Ive only been to one club, and i was not impressed, but disgusted. The girls looked like they havent showered or slept in a few weeks, and the club it self literatly smelled- bad, and i cannot even begin telling you about the customers in there. I know there are crummy places like that, and i know that i got a really bad impression. If anything, id like to take a vacation, maybe to Vegas.. and while im there, i can try it out and see how well i like it and what not. Then when i come back, if I like it, I can try to find a place out here with a little "class". I know about the pre-teen look advantage, but I still feel insecure about my breasts, and my body for that fact. My rib cage is wider than my bust, and like I said, I dont feel as feminane as I should. Time changes everything though, and I think once i have those brittney spears abs- I will feel better about my chest.

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    Actually Icstars having children takes away from your breasts. I just think you need to sit down and make a ground plan. Start from 1 and go slowly.
    As far as B.S. abs, well i would not worry about that too much. Unless you have time for a personal trainer and around 300 ab crunches a day. Not to mention the money.
    Look at Carmen Electra, she has a small belly. says she hates it, but it's womanly! Go with what you have, work on some parts that really bother you. You are unique, and will never be anyone but you!
    You have a great attitude, thats number 1 down already.
    Stretch marks, many dancers have them. Tan in a botle works fine. Do some research, you will find you are more in the norm. Just like the rest of us. NO one is perfect, ever. Just be you. Pamela

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    Default Re: Thinking about getting into the business...

    Some random thoughts --

    As for the belly, NOTHING beats lots and lots and LOTS of ab crunches. However, it needs to be in the context of an overall weight-loss and toning program. Plan to spend a MINIMUM of an hour a day. I'd alternate between total cardio workout one day and then trunk/weight exercises the next. If you can't afford a gym, then by all means start working out at home. Walking/running is a great cardio exercise. Start out with a mile in 20 minutes, work up to two and eventually 3 miles in an hour. Then start speeding up to a roughly 5 mile in an hour pace, 3 times a week. As for the rest, get some weights (goodwill and thrift shops are FULL of cheap weights people have tossed) and spend time both on upper body toning as well as ab crunches and other trunk stretching exercises.

    I've heard some great things about the stretch mark creams. Supposedly, Avon has a great one.

    As for the boobies..... I have store-bought boobs ($5,900 -- they AIN'T cheap) but I've also seen girls do GREAT with tiny boobs. Depends a lot on the "look". If you look like you've got teenager boobs, and can pull off the whole high-school-girl thingie in your act, there are plenty of men who are HUGELY turned on by that.

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    Some random thoughts --

    As for the belly, NOTHING beats lots and lots and LOTS of ab crunches. However, it needs to be in the context of an overall weight-loss and toning program. Plan to spend a MINIMUM of an hour a day. I'd alternate between total cardio workout one day and then trunk/weight exercises the next. If you can't afford a gym, then by all means start working out at home. Walking/running is a great cardio exercise. Start out with a mile in 20 minutes, work up to two and eventually 3 miles in an hour. Then start speeding up to a roughly 5 mile in an hour pace, 3 times a week. As for the rest, get some weights (goodwill and thrift shops are FULL of cheap weights people have tossed) and spend time both on upper body toning as well as ab crunches and other trunk stretching exercises.

    I've heard some great things about the stretch mark creams. Supposedly, Avon has a great one.

    As for the boobies..... I have store-bought boobs ($5,900 -- they AIN'T cheap) but I've also seen girls do GREAT with tiny boobs. Depends a lot on the "look". If you look like you've got teenager boobs, and can pull off the whole high-school-girl thingie in your act, there are plenty of men who are HUGELY turned on by that.
    as an expert I have to jump in here and say that training your abs means nothing-YOUR DIET IS 90% responsible for how your abs look, genetics are 5 % and training your abs is 5%-I can do your diet for you if you want to tell me what you eat every day-I'll correct it
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