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    Default Tips on what u like and what not.

    What do you dancers like your customers to do?

    I've seen a guy "shower" a girl on stage with dollars...is this appropriate or do you think "what a show-off"

    I've seen a guy put dollar bills on the floor, leading to him and when a dancer started to pick them up and went to him, he said "thats your tip for the dance you can give me"...rude or not?

    anything in particular you like/not like your customers to do?

    Today, I got some dances from a girl who occasionaly would stare at me...it was a total turn-off. Some eye contact is good, but not staring.
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    I love it when a guy throws a wad full of $1's on stage. I once racked up $58 from one dude who threw it all on stage. It was all fluttering around like something in a movie.
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    As far as dancing goes, put all the money on stage and i am set! I stage danced. Table dances are fine.
    I DO have my limits, even at the clubs i worked and the money involved. For example, if a customer puts money on the floor, all the way to him, I will be DAMNED if i am going to pick it up. That is humiliation. I am only into that on the phone, not real lfe.
    Put the money on me, or hand it to me. Even as mentioned in another thread, along the railing is fine. But i will not be humiliated for money. I call the shots when i dance, and if the customer did not like it, take the damn money to some one else. Crawling for money, or bending down to pick it up off the floor. NO WAY. I treat my customers fine, i would only expect the same. And when you have danced long enough, you can pretty much tell who's an ass when they step foot in the door.
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    If your an asshole, all the money in the world isn't going to change it. You can ignore that remark, I've just been wanting to say it for a while now.

    The dollars leading up to a guy or remarks like that are rude. I would not spend time with a customer who did something like that.

    Showering with money on stage is cool, but I've noticed that a lot of men who do this are very drunk or mentally imbalanced, and expect the whole world to worship them for a few handfuls of money.

    I much prefer when a man comes up to the stage, tips a ten or a twenty, and says something like "Can I buy you a drink when you're done on stage?" Men who are discreet with their money, classy, and polite are my favorites.

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    I had a customer who once took $20's and very slowly and systematically laid them out in four, one-hundred dollar piles in front of me on stage, and jokingly at the end, bowed to me. I thought it not only generous, but funny as well.

    What I don't like is when a customer will give a waitress a tip and have her bring it over to me and say "this is from him". I find that lazy and tacky, and if they don't tip the waitress for going out of her way, cheap as well.

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    Yes if you can't take the tip to the girl yourself, at least tip the girl you're asking to make the delivery! But I definitely prefer for a guy to make the delivery himself - it's just nicer that way.

    Showering a girl with money is ok, but it's better if you just discreetly stick a big bill in her garter. And making a trail on the floor is not only corny, but tacky and kind of degrading - like you expect us to shovel off the floor for your money.

    Was the girl who danced for you staring while dancing, or during conversation before or after? That's weird - maybe she thought you were doing/saying something odd, or maybe she was just a bit of a bitch, or maybe she was just a little weird herself, or MAYBE she was just trying to do a sexy eye contact thing and wasn't very good at it. Either way, I'm sure most of try not to stare! Now you guys on the other hand, how come it's ok for you to stare at us and not ok for us to stare at you?! LOL just kidding! Sometimes I think we tend to get a little carried away with the whole 'double standard' complaint on these boards

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    The only thing I've ever seen (as far as putting money on the stage goes) that could be degrading was this one guy who used to come in once a week and sit at the edge of the stage. Every once in a while (when he found a girl he really liked, I guess) he would lay out 10 $1 bills in a row, and 1 $100 bill at the end of the row. he would tell the dancer that in order to get the $100 bill she had to squat down and pick up all the $1s with her buttcheecks one at a time. If she got them all she could keep the $100, but if she didn't then she only got to keep the ones she managed to pick up.
    Looking back on it, I can see how degrading that must have appeared. Gotta admit though, that I took him up on the offer on several occaisions. At the time I just saw it as a quick way to make $100 bucks.

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    Was the girl who danced for you staring while dancing, or during conversation before or after? That's weird - maybe she thought you were doing/saying something odd, or maybe she was just a bit of a bitch, or maybe she was just a little weird herself, or MAYBE she was just trying to do a sexy eye contact thing and wasn't very good at it. Either way, I'm sure most of try not to stare! Now you guys on the other hand, how come it's ok for you to stare at us and not ok for us to stare at you?! LOL just kidding! Sometimes I think we tend to get a little carried away with the whole 'double standard' complaint on these boards
    I'm pretty sure she was trying to do the sexy eye contact thing....it was during the dances...and then she would wink at me when i looked at her.......she was pretty, but she was just trying too hard and it wasnt coming off as sexy...

    As for the guys staring, the staring isnt usually directed at the dancer's face ........maybe "admiring" is a better word.........lol


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    I had a customer who once took $20's and very slowly and systematically laid them out in four, one-hundred dollar piles in front of me on stage, and jokingly at the end, bowed to me. I thought it not only generous, but funny as well.
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    I don't mind bending down to get the money, but not at the cost of giving myself bruises on the knees LOL. This one girl used to do a cute thing at the end of her set.. if it was a slow night she would leave a couple bills on the stage for the next girl, and right before exiting after her show she'd throw the bills up in the air, and they're flutter down around her.. like in a movie. Plus, it was a nice gesture on her part.

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    I don't know..money at work is usually a good thing, but not if I have to go out of my way to physically get it. I do my shows and dances to the best of my ability, so I see no intelligent reason to let customers tip me in inappropriate ways. However, what is rude for one girl may be acceptable to another. For instance, my customers know I like being swatted on the butt a little, and I do the same back to them if we have a "regular" thing going. I always make it clear that not every girl likes this, or will even take it for a tip. One girl at my club happens to be black and due to her beautiful rounded butt and the stigma surrounding black dancers she will get very upset if a customer spanks her, and I understand! For me, it is customer-dancer banter and for her it is abuse. So guys, if you want to do something at all questionable, just ask us! The worst you will hear is no!
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    When I refer to getting down to pick up money, I'm talking off the floor, not the stage. It's sort of part of the deal that you will have to pick up money off the stage - that's one thing, but a guy putting it on the FLOOR and expecting you to get down and pick it up is another thing entirely. No thanks!

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