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    I hope.haha. The story got a little stranger. Two days later he told me to come over and said the following "the reason that i ended things was because i was prepared to marry the lesbian this week and i knew you wouldnt want to see me if i married the lesbian" so he says to me that he wants to date me no matter if i do get married to him or or if he marries the lesbian. I just wanted to hear everything he wanted to say so I listened and told him I would think about it (obviously never having the intentions to marry him) he had a whole plan - he was even going to give me money so that i would be assured that he wasnt using me. He asked if in 6 months it wasnt working out if i was going to divorce him or if i would just take the money and be friends. He had a whole plan as to where we were going to live together, all the fun we were going to have together, bullshit bullshit etc etc. (its really quite comical) and he said he had real feelings for me and he hoped that the marriage would really work out and that we didnt have to get a divorce. I was going to tell him no, but I told him I was going to think about it. Before I got a chance to tell him no - he called me to end everything (not just the marriage but being with me as well) He said hes not going to marry anyone and that he is going back to his country (which i later found out to be a lie) Im only hurt because for those 2 weeks he really acted like he wanted to be with me and we had sex and everything so i feel betrayed. How does someone one night want to be with you (regardless if you marry him or not) and the next day not want to see you at all? I ve posted about this 3 times and I dont want to be a nuisance to you girls.Im just sad because him and his friends are the only people that i know here. Blaze

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    You were used, betrayed. You were obviously naive or needy or both. Shake it off and move on, find a better circle of friend's. This is just one of life's little experience's. Hell if your a dancer, this is small change. You got a hard road ahead of you if men can manipulate you this easily.

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    I would not say that I was naive considering that I knew what was going on in the first place. My eyes were open to what he was about before I even moved here! How can you call me needy when I never had any intentions of marrying him. I just found it interesting that he bothered to try to tell me the entire story and then change his mind before even giving me the chance to do it alone.

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    Im only hurt because for those 2 weeks he really acted like he wanted to be with me and we had sex and everything so i feel betrayed. How does someone one night want to be with you (regardless if you marry him or not) and the next day not want to see you at all? I ve posted about this 3 times and I dont want to be a nuisance to you girls.Im just sad because him and his friends are the only people that i know here. Blaze
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