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    hi! i need help! lol
    i tried to talk dirty to my boyfriend yesterday (i want to get as ready as i can before i start dancing) but all he could do was laughing and laughing... i'm 19, i look young and have that 'innocent little girl' way to act and talk... any tricks on how I can make talking dirty go with me? ???
    Also, what do you tell customers if they ask you to talk dirty?
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    First no bf's. Try a gf who will not laugh at you if that makes you feel uncomfortable.
    Ya know what though, get him in bed all hot and say a few short words. Not sex words but something like. you like my legs? Hair? Like when i dress for you sexy? That is a start to talking dirty!
    And feeling comfortable with talking dirty in small segments will lead to bigger ones. Just have him hot, and don't let him catch on! LOl

    Practice in front of a mirror, objects etc. It all helps.
    Good luck, Pamela

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    I don't think that talking dirty has to come with this job. If that's your thing then use it, but if it's just not you, don't. Guys will see right through that. Some guys may want you to talk dirty to them, but I have found that these are usually the one's who want to get dirty in the table dance rooms, so I politely excuse myself. Some guys want intelligent conversation, and this works for me, so I leave the dirty talking to the girls who can. Find your groove and go with it.

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    hi! i need help! lol
    i tried to talk dirty to my boyfriend yesterday (i want to get as ready as i can before i start dancing) but all he could do was laughing and laughing... i'm 19, i look young and have that 'innocent little girl' way to act and talk... any tricks on how I can make talking dirty go with me? ???
    Also, what do you tell customers if they ask you to talk dirty?
    thanks!
    Kat
    YOU WANT TO LEARN HOW TO TALK DIRTY? very simple-buy or rent any porn video in the guttermouths series-otherwise you can't go wrong if you say to himthings like"am I your little slut?"or "you like fucking this little slut?"or say to him"are you gonna shoot a nice load for me?"any guy would get hard hearing that-I think a girl talking dirty is almost guaranteed to be hot unless you are a bad actress since most guys love to hear girls do it-to me it's a MAJOR turn on and it seems to be a lost art these days
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    Maybe you're not made for dirty talking, Kateryn. Use your personality traits to your advantage. You should have little, if any trouble getting clients. Remember, not all strip club clients are into sleaziness. Surely enough there are guys who love sweet talking (and near naked, duh) ladies.



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    Definitely a lost art. I know a dozen dancers who can start talking when they get into it, but only a few who can walk up to guys cold and start it.... But I also know a dancer like Kateryn: 19, with the young and innocent look. She smiles impishly and says, "You think I'm a good girl... and I am." Later she starts the same line and says something very different. Not dirty, just a little scary. In the context of who she is, it's a real turn-on.

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    my husband and i could be havin' the dirtiest, sweatiest, ass slappin' porno animal sex, but if i utter one peep that actually sounds like a word. it's all over. both of us on the floor laughing 'til it hurts(its not just my man, it's everyone of 'em ever.) some of us just weren't made for dirty talk, so try it if you like, but definitely don't stress about it (BIGGEST THING- if you think its funny, so will they, try to take yourself serious)

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    My take on "dirty talk" is that it is only erotic to me if it is sincere and honestly meant. Given that, it is therefore only a turn on if it is done by someone who I am intimate with, and usually (and preferably) a long term intimacy to boot. Since, obviously, no dancer is intimate with me, and it is something I have not nor ever shall seek at a SC (because they aren’t personal love nests for anyone), "dirty talk" from a dancer is unarousing and, indeed, even a turn off for me. I've stated before that sexual talk like that wont get you anywhere with me, talking like a real person will.

    Having stated that, this is NOT a criticism of "dirty talk". I know lots of guys love it, because its part of their fantasy element. It produces pleasure for them, and makes dancers money. Nothing wrong with either of that. I am merely trying to point out that its not for everyone, so that if it doesn’t work the first time, maybe a different approach is needed a second time.

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    In "real life", I have a terrible potty-mouth and have to CONSTANTLY be on my guard in "polite company". LOL....

    Dancing, on the other hand, I played the "innocent school girl gone bad" routine, and so I was VERY much Miss Perfect 99% of the time. As a result, when I DID use an occasional naughty word to a customer, it had a huge effect. I was very careful to only use naughty words that pertained specifically to sex. No "Damns" or "Hells" or "Shits". In fact, I almost never said something you couldn't hear on television during family hour. "Nipple" said at exactly the right time will drive a man beserk.

    In fact, if you say the word "panties" in a room full of men, they will all fall dead silent immediately.

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    YOU WANT TO LEARN HOW TO TALK DIRTY? very simple-buy or rent any porn video in the guttermouths series-otherwise you can't go wrong if you say to himthings like"am I your little slut?"or "you like fucking this little slut?"or say to him"are you gonna shoot a nice load for me?"...
    Yikes, too much information.

    Well, Anabolic has his preferences and I have mine. Personally talking "dirty" doesn't neccesarily have to mean raunchy. The simple "you like what you see" routine that Pam mentioned will work better on some guys. Although I remember this one gal out in Vegas once who came up to me and instead giving me the standard "would you like a dance?" offer asked me if I had been "molested" yet.

    Yes, I bought a dance from her.
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    It's all in the attitude. If I walk up to someone and say....howdya like me to suck your cock....while examing my nails with one hand on my hip, I will get a less favorable response than if I walked up to him, looked him right in the eyes, said it, then gave him a smirk. It's all in how you carry yourself....and your attitude.

    MissB

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    Just a thought for you Kateryn,
    anyone can talk dirty. But have you ever thought about speaking sensual words ?

    Because you say you would like to talk dirty is why i say if you are having a hard time, talk sensual!
    Pamela

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