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    how many of the female dancers here have "sugar daddies"? and if you do or did, what type of sexual contact do the guys expect if any? this is a very interesting phenomenon-yesterday Howard Stern had a porn star on who used to dance and she said she had alot of guys who buy her cars and pay her bills but when they ask for sex she cuts them loose and moves on to the next one-
    guess who's back? back again

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    I will be honest and say that most girls that gets cars and what not are sexing somebody. There are a few exceptions to this rule, but in all honesty no matter how much I like someone, lets say I am an independently wealthy mid 40 man, if I buy them a car it will only be so I can enable them to have a readily available way to come spend time with me or see me.
    I know of a few girls who have gotten cars or boob jobs from long term regulars. Long term like multiple year regulars will sometimes get a girl boobs if they have either the money to throw away and know the girl really wants them or have a friend that is a doctor or something. Two girls at work got their boobs done by the same doctor for free because they each have regulars who are related to or close friends with this doctor.
    Another girl got a car from a regular. She is not and never has slept with him, but she ain't ridin a Corvette or anything either. She has like a late model four door luxury sedan that cost way less than $10Gs anyway.
    I have had some guys buy me expensive jewelry, plane tickets to of course accompany them to this place or that, and offer high end cars and the such. I have to politely decline b/c it is going a place that I do not want it to be.
    U do not want to take me to an island so we can stay in seperate rooms. Nothing is life is free and sometimes people are just nice. Someone giving you a dollar or two or maybe even five if you are short in a line at the store or airport is someone just being nice even though they are also doing it so you will not hold up the line and ie.hold them up so they are still getting something out of it. A BMW or Mercedes is someone wanting me to enjoy the driving experience of a high end car................................ and before or after these rides they also wanna feel my insides. I know the difference.
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    Default Re: patricia's post brought up a question

    I've turned down offers and overtures of sugardaddy-hood. I keep my life and occupation very separate and I don't feel comfortable with that situation.

    I don't, however, think it is the wrong course of action for many ladies and I have to admit that it is a fine family tradition on the maternal side of my family! But for me, I can't do it.
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    What percentage of Sugar Daddys do you ladies think are getting sex from their dancer. I mean if a guy gives gifts & money to a dancer for several months, lets say around $20-$30K, wouldn't you think that he would cut her off after a while if she doesn't "give back" in other ways? Or do guys just spend this kind of money on dancers and are satisfied with the companionship. I know of several girls at my favorite local clubs who have Sugar Daddys, and they all say that they don't sleep with them. But the other dancers always roll their eyes when they hear it.

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    Default Re: patricia's post brought up a question

    well, remember now that Bill Clinton "did not have sexual relations with" Monica.


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    Months from now, this thread might be easier to find if the thread title is changed to something like 'sugar daddys.' just my dollars worth.

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    Default Re: patricia's post brought up a question

    Nope, no way I'll ever be a sugar daddy, at least not with my present occupation. So sorry, ladies, no gifts from me (kidding).



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    I wouldn't mind having a sugar daddy if he lived in a seperate town, maybe an hour or so from here, didn't have my phone number or any access to my real life. He would buy me cars and other expensive things, all without ever knowing my real name. Oh yeah, and I wouldn't have sex with him.

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    lena, could u just give me your bank routing number so my checks can just get automatically deposited to your acct.?

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    I have no problem with it. I had a gf named Corrina, and she couid not work due to panic attacks. She met a single and much older man 70's i guess, i met him a few times, she was 30's.

    He bought her a new honda, payed her rent in a cute 2 bedroom condo. and all the bills. All for her to visit him 4 days/nights a week. Go to dinner. She said they talked about sex, but he could not perform. She said she would have gone on welfare if it came down to sex, so thank god it did not.

    Some guys are happily married too, but some what bored and pay for a pretty lady to go out with him. There does not always have to be sex.

    Trade off for great conversation, and to be seen with a very pretty woman!
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    I sort of have one now. He is doctor and not very happily married. He comes in my club every day and buy 3-4 dances from me. Every 2-3 days he gives me around $100. We go out, lunch and we go to a lot of nude and topelss clubs together. Sometimes I meet his other stripper friends and we just hang out, go have a drink. I have not slept with and I don't plan on it
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    Trade off for great conversation, and to be seen with a very pretty woman!
    Pamela
    I actually think there is a market for real escorts. At one time I would have been happy to pay someone good money to go to my regular dance club and make my friends jaws drop and tongues fall on the floor. LOL. Too the women would have all wondered what it was about me. Kitty Kats compete. It never happened. And after some time passed, I didn't care what those people thought and just got more LD's. LOL.
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    Sugar Daddies are actually the most "dangerous" situation for a dancer, because it mixes interaction inside the club with interaction/relationship in real life (complete with legal consequences). IMHO, Escorting is a much less "dangerous" situation because it is clear to both people that a closed end business transaction is involved - when the night is over, so is any "relationship".

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    If the customer relationship extends outside the club doors its no longer JUST Dancing whether Sex is involved or not. This situation is what gives dancers the Gold-digger image. If its done as an escort situation (without Sex) then it can be seen as a business BUT ...BOTH parties must know that its JUST BUSINESS. Otherwise, it's a scam and its taking money away from the club AND the other dancers. Broke customers are one of the reasons the clubs are so slow right now. I wonder where that money went?

    It also never ceases to amaze me that so many dancers WANT boyfriends who are worthless losers. (not ALL dancers and especially not dancers on this board) They meet these honestly nice guys (Sugar Daddies ...who I agree are usually older and less attractive) and USE the nice guys as a bank roll for thier worthless loser boyfriends. Even with all my years in the business this is one part of the dancer mentality (along with the need to deny sexual activity) that I will just never understand.
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    A dancer once told me that a Sugar Daddy is bad for character development. She liked the concept of an Everything Guy. That's someone who encourages her in school, gives her fantasy abuse (so she doesn't need a loser boyfriend), and never gives her money she doesn't EARN. Forget about how strange that sounds. It really is less expensive and more constructive.

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    I Don't think everyone here was talking about customers at the club and dancers.
    In general a man who wants a beautiful woman on his arm and buys her gifts, no strings attached....MUCH of the time is not dangerous, most of these guys are married, and want to feel special again.
    Now a single guy who has no people skills who fixates on a woman and becomes a "sugar daddy' can be dangerous.

    Sugar daddies are amoung the most harmless of guys. Even when you break it off...If they don't first, they find another woman. It's a moral boost, and the woman benefits with his gifts, home car, etc in the meantime.
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    ok,I buy you a car,you have sex with me.I buy you a house or rent an apartment for you,you have sex with me.I buy you fur coats and other nice expensive things you better believe you are gonna have sex with me.If I come into a club and spend alot of money on you I am only having fun and do not expect sex at all.See what I am getting at keep it in the club ladies and you will be a happier person for it

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    I sort of have one now. He is doctor and not very happily married. He comes in my club every day and buy 3-4 dances from me. Every 2-3 days he gives me around $100. We go out, lunch and we go to a lot of nude and topelss clubs together. Sometimes I meet his other stripper friends and we just hang out, go have a drink. I have not slept with and I don't plan on it
    that sounds almost like a friendship-not a sugar daddy-lucky him
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    Uhhhh ...Friendship usually doesn't cost $200+ a week. Fake friends can be bought MUCH Cheaper than that.
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    A real friendship would not require such a high disbursement of money. Wine and dine her, sure. But buy her dances? No, seƱor.



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    Don't get me wrong, I don't ask him for cash, but I'm not gonna turn down a few hundred bucks when my monthly bills exceed $2,000/month. No, I'm not an extravagant chick but the cost of living where I live is very high. I prefer to do dances for him and earn my money. I am incredibly independent and I'm not the type to accept money and gifts from people. However, when we have gone out in the past, I am going in to work late to hang out with him, therefore losing money and he knows this. I think it's his way of helping me out and making sure I don't lose out at the the $ I could of made had I been at work 2-3 hours earlier.
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    Default Re: patricia's post brought up a question

    what amount of money/gifts constitutes a sugar daddy?

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    Default Re: patricia's post brought up a question

    what amount of money/gifts constitutes a sugar daddy?
    I don't really think that its a matter of any amount. If a regular comes into a club, buys a bunch of dances from a girl and pays her 10x the minimum rate per song, I don't consider that the act of a sugar daddy, just a very generous regular.

    Its when the customer begins performing or financing the dancers day to day errands and expenses, and buying personal items (namely big ticket items like cars, computers, jewelry, appliances, vacations, etc.) for her that he crosses into SD territory.
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    Its when the customer begins performing or financing the dancers day to day errands and expenses, and buying personal items (namely big ticket items like cars, computers, jewelry, appliances, vacations, etc.) for her that he crosses into SD territory.
    Nail on head. The dancers that I know who have SD's will pay for their tuition, books, dental, their kids dental, down payment on a car, rent, as well as coming into the club and spending large amounts. I've actually seen the dancers at the club when their SD's are there, and these guys get treated like kings. The girl never leaves his lap or talk to anyone but him for hours, even on a busy Saturday night.

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