Hi I really need some friendly advice from somebody out there. So if your reading here's the problem...... I've been a dancer now for over a year and I've found that can handle the customers and the occasional slow nights but one thing that bugs the crap out of me is the fact that the other girls tend to be so jealous and hostile towards me. I mean no one is phyiscally threatning me in anyway. But the dirty looks, stares and outwardness of making me feel like an outsider is there. I'm sort of embrassed to say that this bothers me because I've never been one to really care about what hateful jealous ******* think. But it's making my work enviorment uncomfortable and I'm begining to get pissed off because I don't steal other girls customers, I don't get caught up in the club drama, I mind my own business and I'm friendly unless otherwise provoked.
Some times it seems as though the other girls try reach out and try to be friendly but when I open up and try to respond they use that as an opportunity to be to prove that they are cooler or that I'm not such a big deal that sort of thing, it's werid. Anyway I make my money playing by the rules and they seem to be threatened by that. If it's jealously is there anything that can be done to ease the tention? I've tried new clubs and this problem follows me everywhere. To those that respond thanks for the advice I'm new to the forum and I think it's pretty cool!!


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