Bridge, I couldn't help but to read over your article. In it you mentioned that you had ill feelings towards your father partially because of the intervention of your wicked step mother and also because he seemingly overlooked her abuses of you.My experience:
What about all those households where the mother is married to an abusive father yet remains ignorant or complacent with his abuses. Does anyone see the mother as being responsible for the mistreatment of the offspring? Why is it that the woman remains with or even stands on the side of the father for such a duration? Why is it that she never intervenes upon the discovery of such activities taken place?
So here is a question that has been eatting away at me for a long time. How come when there is an abusive household where there is even the slightest involvement of a male- husband , boyfriend, date and the woman remains complacent , do they always try to dump the entire responsibility on the male and the woman is totally absolved (who shares in the responsibility) from any wrong doing whatsoever?
How about anybody helping me with this question?




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he seems to regularly blame the victim and make excuses for attackers.
what claim? what attemps? man i think u have lost it 


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