Results 1 to 25 of 25

Thread: Kissing a dancer

  1. #1
    Curious Guest
    Joined
    Dec 2003
    Posts
    0
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Kissing a dancer

    Hi all
    I was wondering if it is generally a policy for a dancer to NOT kiss a customer.I only ask this because I went to a club in Toronto and picked out a lady that I really liked and she took me to a private booth which wasnt really all that private actually lol.I bought 10 dances and on the fourth dance we were both getting into the music and the atmosphere when suddenly she started furiously french kissing me.Well,this kept up on every song and afterwards we started talking and she thanked me for being a nice guy and then she left
    This has never happened to me before and I thought it was kinda strange and I certainly felt like the luckiest guy alive!hehe.I didnt want to broach the subject of possibly dating if she actually was interested in me because I know generally dancers do not date customers.I loved what she did and it confused the hell out of me at the same time.any thoughts on this??

  2. #2
    Senior Member
    Joined
    Mar 2003
    Posts
    134
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    No Kissing
    She might of felt a connection with you, she might of been under the influence of something, she might of felt obligated because you spent a lot of money on her, or more likely she wanted to convert you into a regular so you could regularly spend that amount of money on her.

  3. #3
    God/dess Pryce's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2001
    Location
    So. California
    Posts
    489
    Thanks
    34
    Thanked 408 Times in 70 Posts
    Blog Entries
    1

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    Some dancers do kiss...I wouldn't fall in love just yet.
    We all imagine ourselves the agents of our destiny, capable of determining our own fate. But have we truly any choice in when we rise, or when we fall, or does a force larger than ourselves bid us our direction. Is it evolution that takes us by the hand, does Science point our way, or is it God who intervenes keeping us safe.

    So much struggle for meaning, for purpose. And in the end, we find it only in each other. Our shared experience of the fantastic. And the mundane. The simple human need to find a kindred, to connect. And to know in our hearts... that we are not alone.
    Heroes

  4. #4
    God/dess
    Joined
    Dec 2002
    Location
    Puerto Rico
    Posts
    3,474
    Thanks
    1
    Thanked 7 Times in 7 Posts

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    It's up to the clubs and to the dancers. Some dancers like to kiss while they dance with you, others don't. Some dancers will thank you with a kiss after a dance, others won't.



  5. #5
    Senior Member
    Joined
    Mar 2003
    Posts
    134
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    A peck after a dance on the cheek is a different story. A peck on the lips is ok, but a french kiss?

  6. #6
    God/dess
    Joined
    Dec 2002
    Location
    Puerto Rico
    Posts
    3,474
    Thanks
    1
    Thanked 7 Times in 7 Posts

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    I've had dancers wet kiss me during private dances, but even then I knew it was part of the dance, nothing more.



  7. #7
    Featured Member Chuck149's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2002
    Location
    Massachusetts
    Posts
    1,231
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    I did have one lady "freedom kiss" (I won't use the "F" word) me during a VIP. It was nice but usually the kisses are just polite pecks with closed lips.

    JAG – don't read to much into it, go with the flow and enjoy That is unless you don't like it. Remember, just like the ladies, we customers don't have to do anything we are not comfortable with.
    "when it comes to staying young, a mind-lift beats a face-lift any day" ~ Marty Bucella

  8. #8
    Veteran Member hollyday's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2002
    Location
    london,ontario,canada
    Posts
    548
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    I've kissed a customer before......he was soo cute...and it was like 8 or 10 songs and i couldn't help it........
    blessed be

  9. #9
    Featured Member Prester_John's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2003
    Location
    The Wastelands of New Jersey
    Posts
    1,839
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 14 Times in 9 Posts

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    JAG - I would just be happy and thankful it happened, and store it as a great memory. Sometimes such kissing will come from the "heat of the moment", which I dont think will happen unless the dancer feels some connection with you. However, I wouldnt think it could or should lead to anything outside of the clubs (i.e. simple dating etc), because generally the logistics of a dancers life outside of the clubs dont allow for that sort of thing.

    I once got a dance where after a few songs it gravitated into a make out session. It was VERY enjoyable (because I enjoy the art of kissing), as well as being less strenuous on her. I got the impression after it was over that she would have like to take it further.. but..... (ya know). When she left for the day she gave me sought me out to give me a peck on the cheek and say goodbye. I was touched

    No phone number - No harm no foul. I chalked it up to a great experience with a sweet person, and left it at that. It always will be a great memory.

    PJ

  10. #10
    Featured Member LEIGH_LANDON's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2002
    Location
    tee dot
    Posts
    1,476
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 6 Times in 6 Posts

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    OH MY WORD! I have had customers TRY to kiss me but holy kamoly man alive I avoid that like mad! YUK!
    He could have the herp!!!
    What if it was one of those guys that brags about DATY dancers?? (dining at the Y - ya... eating puss pie) and he tries to kiss me? He might have just had that other dancer before ME! OH MY WORD!
    Kissing? Fuggedaboutit!
    Air kiss on the side of the face after but open mouth to mouth, with all the possiblities...the very thought makes me wanna hurl!
    LIVE LONG & PROSPER!
    Leigh Landon

    Never explain yourself to anyone, because the person who likes you doesn't need it and the person that dislikes you won't believe it.

  11. #11
    Curious Guest
    Joined
    Dec 2003
    Posts
    0
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    well said Prester_john.I will always have that memory of a dancer that I know I must have made a connection with.I think she and I got caught up in the moment and truthfully I was more shocked than anything that it happened :o

  12. #12
    Jay Zeno
    Guest

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    Hygiene sensibilities would keep me from kissing to any extent beyond a peck, unless I really knew the dancer, and since I don't really know any dancer, it wouldn't be an option. I'm no fun.

  13. #13
    Senior Member
    Joined
    Mar 2003
    Posts
    134
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    Lol, great we have an epidemic in our mist.

  14. #14
    Moderator Djoser's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2002
    Location
    Key West
    Posts
    16,343
    Thanks
    1,395
    Thanked 5,487 Times in 2,768 Posts

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    I don't want to spoil your memory, and maybe it was a very special happening, which should rightfully be treasured. These things do sometimes occur, and I have seen dancers genuinely hit it off with the rare and special (or lucky) customer.

    I have worked with dancers who did kiss during VIPs, but generally they avoid it, and those who did were almost invariably being knocked for it by the other dancers. Then again almost every dancer I have worked with I have heard bad VIP stories about at one time or another so I usually ignore the stories, unless I hear them constantly about the same woman.

    But I have to say this, if you get a deep french kiss from a dancer in a high-mileage club, where extras are readily available, you may want to think carefully about where that mouth and tongue just were!

    JAG this is not aimed at you, or meant to knock your experience...

    Djoser
    You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
    Friedrich Nietzsche

    Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
    George Clinton

    ______________________________________

  15. #15
    Veteran Member hollyday's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2002
    Location
    london,ontario,canada
    Posts
    548
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    yuk....now i'm grossed out.......
    blessed be

  16. #16
    Moderator Djoser's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2002
    Location
    Key West
    Posts
    16,343
    Thanks
    1,395
    Thanked 5,487 Times in 2,768 Posts

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    Sorry, Holly, it was certainly not meant to ruin anyone's memories, or insult or gross out any of the majority of the dancers who do not give out extras.

    But when you have someone (not JAG!) posting about getting kissed, and that person has elsewhere gleefully described the extras to be had in the clubs he frequents, the connection maybe needs to be made for their edification. I notice their post has been removed, so perhaps mine should be as well...

    Feel free to do so.

    Djoser

    PS OK I modified it, somewhat. I love kissing--it's an integral part of being intimate with a woman. But customers and dancers both should think twice about kissing if there are extras going on at that club!
    You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
    Friedrich Nietzsche

    Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
    George Clinton

    ______________________________________

  17. #17
    Jay Zeno
    Guest

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    I agree, DJ. I have someone that I kiss with nice frequency. But kissing is not why I'm in a club. More power to those who have that nice experience and come away clean, so to speak.

  18. #18
    Senior Member smurfalicious's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2003
    Location
    Central Oregon
    Posts
    162
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer


    PS OK I modified it, somewhat. I love kissing--it's an integral part of being intimate with a woman.
    Yeah, kissing is sooo too intimate for me. Like, I'd feel worse if someone I was with kissed someone else, than if they slept with someone. Nooo thanks. Plus, beer breath when you're sober, icky.

    love and cookies
    -smurf
    You can't fight gravity, on a planet that insists, that love is like falling, and falling is like this...

  19. #19
    Guest

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    There was a dancer at a club that I frequented who routinely french kissed and licked ears of all customers. I found it disgusting and told her to go away.

  20. #20
    God/dess GoldCoastGirl's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2002
    Location
    ...hehehe... email me to ask me where i am ! (i dare you!)
    Posts
    11,486
    Thanks
    42
    Thanked 127 Times in 51 Posts

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    Sorry... the most you'll ever get from me is a kiss on the cheek no matter what the repore (sp?) is between you and me... etc.

    I will have my face close to your face but do NOT ever think of kissing me on the lips! I find that highly offensive if you do that as you've done it WITHOUT my permission.


    enter: E3167322D9 for your 10% discount

  21. #21
    God/dess
    Joined
    Dec 2002
    Location
    Puerto Rico
    Posts
    3,474
    Thanks
    1
    Thanked 7 Times in 7 Posts

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    Come to think of it, I'll try my damndest not to let a dancer wet kiss me :-/.



  22. #22
    Pamela
    Guest

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    I have had guys ask for a kiss good-night at the club, i just turn my cheek, they give a peck on the face. And these are guys who are regulars, not many one timers have asked for a kiss good-night.
    I would NEVER kiss any customer on the lips. That is just me, i don't want a virus, because you never know. I used to, before learning the ropes about dancing, take money out of their mouths, and they would want to push lips together, no more do i do that. Saliva, herpes etc. nope, no mouth contact on lips.
    Pamela

  23. #23
    God/dess doc-catfish's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2002
    Location
    123 Tornado Alley Way, Hooterville USA
    Posts
    6,322
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 36 Times in 30 Posts

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    French kiss, hmm. Well I've never had anything quite that intimate, but I've been kissed on the mouth by two of my ATF's. It was a little bit startling considering that both times it was unexpected.

    I do love a polite peck on the cheek or two from a dancer as appreciation for my business. A friendly hug ain't a bad substitute either.
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

  24. #24
    Veteran Member OPEN's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2003
    Location
    MA
    Posts
    219
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    Well I had a similar experience in Minneapolis a couple months ago. Just so happend this very hot girl came up to me and we hit it off great right away. I took her to a prvt booth for what was suppose to be 1/2 hour but turned into hour and then we went back for another later. well sometime into the first time she was sitting on my lap and we were talking and she leaned over and kissed me ,,, turned into a very sensual and erotic time. I had never before frenched kiss a dancer and had no ability to say no way LOL. The whole time she kept saying I am so glad u came in,,, I wanst going to work tonight but just filled in. (She works in an orthodontist office by day and only dances once a week. She was very classy and I thought about her alot after. SHE asked me for my cell number and email add etc. but alas,,,, she has not to this date contacted me. I was traveling and she knows I am in MA . For a brief minute I thought we might have had something going, but once my head was out of the fog,,,, hehe I realized that maybe she DID like me but this was just a dance and just work that she prob happened to enjoy that night.
    Actually one more thing happend that night and I wonder if anyone here has had this? while she was sitting next to me out in the main area, I took off her shoes and gave her a nice foot massage. She was like oh no,,,, my feet arent clean, but I assured her I could wash my hands after and so I did this for prob 1/2 hour!
    Some of the dancers around us seemed a bit grossed out! I just thought she would think it felt great so I did it anyway,,,,,,,,

  25. #25
    Banned Melonie's Avatar
    Joined
    Jul 2002
    Location
    way south of the border
    Posts
    25,932
    Thanks
    612
    Thanked 10,563 Times in 4,646 Posts
    Blog Entries
    3
    My Mood
    Cynical

    Default Re: Kissing a dancer

    any escort/prostitute will tell you that kissing is too intimate and personal to share with a 'customer', whereas sex is not! If I'm not willing to have sexual contact with a dance club customer, I'm certainly not going to willingly kiss him.

Similar Threads

  1. Kissing vs BJ or HJ
    By jake_jake in forum Customer Conversation
    Replies: 6
    Last Post: 12-06-2010, 02:44 PM
  2. Kissing!
    By Yekhefah in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 20
    Last Post: 01-06-2006, 11:08 AM
  3. Kissing
    By rb in forum Customer Conversation
    Replies: 12
    Last Post: 01-12-2005, 09:16 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •