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    There is this dancer at my club....she annoys the heck out of me! I just want to vent. First, she's been there the longest (about 3 years), but she's not particularly attractive, to me. She's makes pretty good money, so I just figured she was a great hustler. Anyway...

    She gets on everyone's nerves, including mine. She's very intrusive to the point of interrupting conversations between you and a customer to "help you get dances" or, although it's never happened to me, critique a dancer while she's giving a lap dance (i.e. "suck it in"). She finally pissed me off big time when she saw that the manager was arranging a champagne court for me and a customer and while this was happening, she talked to my customer as I was talking tot he manager and basically he changed his mind and went with her. I was furious!

    How do you deal with dancers like this who are constantly in your face and intruding on your business? FYI, she seems immune to the wrath of management. A lot of dancers, including me, have complained about her doing this and she's still there. I want to tell her to get out of my face, but not in front of a customer.

    Last night she was doing drugs and I saw her and she threatened to kill me if I told on her. Not that this matters, but that pissed me off even more, especially since ten minutes later she was trying "to help me make money".

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    arrrggggghhhh.......

    The only good news is that girls like her rarely last long

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    Just ignore her. I mean completely ignore her, if she speaks to you, don't answer. If she repeats herself or gets in your face answer in a way that doesn't give her what she wants (and she wants some kind of emotional engagement). If she talks to you in front of a customer just act sort of amused, but polite. This will drive her crazy and she will either stop or go insane and get fired.

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    Hell NO. I am not putting up with some ignorant person stepping on my feet while at work!
    As far as i go with the other dancers is "hi" and "goodnight". It's better for me and my working conditions.

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    oh no way...id have told this chic off LONG time ago. Yes ignore her and tell her that you can make your own money. Tell her you are your own dancer and you dont need a sidekick.
    She sounds obnoxious. You should go up to her and say, "you'll kill me if I tell on you doing drugs? Well i'll do the same to you if you continue to get in my way" (like take your champagne room people etc
    you dont have to be nice to her...

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    The girl u mention works at my bar too..her name is megan and i hate her fucking guts...she has been a thorn in my side since the day i walked in that club...and like your girl...shes not particularly pretty...crooked teeth and hair that would make straw look good....and yet she will do anything to steal a customer and then smile right in your face while she stabs u in the back....SHE IS A CUNT theres no two ways about it...and u cant say she wont last because this skank has been here 7 (SEVEN) years and not making too much of a move to go anywhere.... she has to work because her greasy, fat, five sandwich eating boyfriend wont work and makes her work there...i just ignore her now because getting pissed of was what she wanted....if she talkes to me i just look right through her like shes not there... the only solace i have is knowing that her life is hell
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    I'd enlist the help of a security person, throw them some extra tips for a few shifts and slowly mention her doing drugs, and have them look out for illegal contact as well. Money talks. She'll get fired eventualy.

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    She's just been there forever! I figured she was staying put. She sounds a lot like Megan too. She grates on my nerves! The other day she saw me putting on lip gloss and stuck out her finger and said, "can I have some?" What the hell? Could she not know I hate her?

    She's a snake, and not only to dancers, but to customers. One night a customer spit in her face, and she totally deserved it (took a $20 off the bar from this guy who was too drunk to know better and his sober friend was sticking up for him.)

    I just needed to vent. Man, I hate her. And I hate even more that the rules don't seem to apply to her! UGH!

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    The girl u mention works at my bar too..her name is megan and i hate her fucking guts...she has been a thorn in my side since the day i walked in that club...and like your girl...shes not particularly pretty...crooked teeth and hair that would make straw look good....and yet she will do anything to steal a customer and then smile right in your face while she stabs u in the back....SHE IS A CUNT theres no two ways about it...and u cant say she wont last because this skank has been here 7 (SEVEN) years and not making too much of a move to go anywhere.... she has to work because her greasy, fat, five sandwich eating boyfriend wont work and makes her work there...i just ignore her now because getting pissed of was what she wanted....if she talkes to me i just look right through her like shes not there... the only solace i have is knowing that her life is hell
    :o Wow Holly! Now tell us how you REALLY feel

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    HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
    THNAKS FOR THE LAUGH OUT LOUD
    u will soon come to discover after reading some of my posts i kinda tend to 'tell it like it is'
    hopefully i didn't offend u...you'll get used to me

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    Seems a club aint complete without a bitch or two in the mix huh?

    I travel from club to club as one booking per week and then onto another. I have seen a whole lot of clubs and a whole lotta bitches LOL!

    One memorable bitch at a club in Etobicoke just outside of Toronto. The dressing room for the feature and the house girls was mezzanine, and to hit the stage for your performance required u to enter into this metal capsule and close the door, when the door closed properly a light would blink in the DJ booth on the main floor and he would press the UP button and this capsule/elevator would rise up from the lower lever right onto the stage! Very cool but of course with the cool effects it had some glitches such as the human factor.

    DJ had a million other duties plus the operation of said capsule.
    Anyway you exit off the stage by standing on the podium that descended back down into that capsule and the light would flash and the dj would open the door. Sometimes either the door stuck (magnetic) and sometimes the deejay forgot you were in there.

    One night I finish my show, pile myself and all my effects onto the mini podium, I was covered in paint from a glow show and I descended as per usual into the metal capsule....and the friggen door wouldnt open!
    I mention again I am knee deep in costume and shoes and supplies and I am covered in paint. So I wait a minute or two I keep gazing up at the camera and waving over and over and over, and banging on the door, I see the light is off by the magnet so I think hmmmm its probably stuck and the DJ doesnt realize anything is wrong so I am pushing and pushing knocking and banging to get that damn door open, I hear girls in the room so I am yelling over the tunes and whatnot HEY! HELLO? CAN YA OPEN THE DOOR FROM YOUR SIDE?? HELLO? HELP?
    this goes on for like ten f*cking minutes! Knocking and banging and I put my shoulder into it and finally the door FLIES open crashing into the wall behind it and I tumble into a heap out of the capsule!

    The bitch of the club barrels over to me and start ranting wagging her finger in my face ***You fucking bitch you broke our capsule and look the fucking wall is dented what the fuck is your problem you think u can walk in here and take over my club well aint gonna happen you fucking bitch who the fuck is gonna pay for that wall and the door HUH?? I am so sick n tired of these fucking features......and on and on and on!

    I stood there in complete awe, what the FUH???
    Are you talking to ME????
    I look at the other girls but they were her mini bitch entourage and they all look away because their alpha female was doing her thing...
    Naked covered in paint, I think I had various pieces of my costume already stuck and dried to me from being stuck in that damn booth so friggin long...and after all that crap my crayons just snapped and I went back at her, the manager had to come break it up!!!

    Crazy but for real they are everywhere and something, anything and nothing seems to provoke them.

    I dont eat anybodies shit sandwich. I avoid it at all costs but call me out girl and I am already there. With bells on.
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    The one who pissed me off the most at my last club was sly about it. Things kept coming up missing. Not just mine, but other people's too. And things were said behind closed doors, but people were just obvious enough that you could figure out what was going on. And a certain dancer would just smile to your face and act like your best friend and mentor, until you walked out of the dressing room and made it on to the stage....

    Took me a while to wise up - oh, she was good, and had been there pulling this crap for years - but when I finally did, it was because she swiped $50 out of my purse and then was stupid enough to leave early because she was "sick".... She must have known I'd figure it out at that point, because she was smart enough to not show up for her shift the next night, which was my last night there. Biker ho or not, she must have realized that I was willing to put faces through lockers and spike heels in stomachs.

    I hate backstabbing, conniving bitches like that. I just take comfort in the fact that most of the time you can kind of side-step them, and eventually their skank hides get nailed by someone who's a little less patient and a lot nastier.

    McCain

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    I'm sure she'll get her ass beat sooner or later.

    One night at my club, a bunch of girls we didn't know came to beat up a new girl. They waited until the end of the night and did it. I guess she stole from them somewhere else. Well, needless to say she didn't come back to work. In the end, the money she stole didn't come close to the money she lost.


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    I think reading between the lines, Emily and some of the other girls are hesitant / uncomfortable with work place friction (as am I), and apart from having to deal with it in the first place - which is an imposition and fucking bore in and of itself - like me, you just want everyone to do their thing and play fair.

    Yeah, I laughed out loud when I read Holly's reply, because I have been in a similar situation (working in a gym, not a club). And you are right - playing fair is not an option for low lifes, and in fact they COUNT on your principles and good hearted ness in order to perpetuate their shitful behavior. The bottom line is, waiting for something bad to happen to these kinds of people - as they inevitably do - is sometimes a painful and slow option, but unless you are willing to break some rules yourself - the only one.

    I could have done with reading posts like these a couple of years back - cest la vie. And believe me, the "waiting" option for scenarios like these is getting less and less my choice.
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    There's a bottom-feeding bitch like this at every club, and often more than one. There's a couple at my club, and I have just about got them to at least leave me alone, but I do hate them. They'll jump at any chance to steal anything they can from you, because it's really the only way they can make a profit. They are never very good-looking and always have self-esteem issues. They will see you with a customer who obviously has money and is about to go to VIP with you when you have to go on stage, and make a beeline for the guy as soon as you leave for stage, and will tell him ANYTHING to get him to go to VIP with her instead of you. Then in the dressing room she smiles in your face and pretends to be your best friend. As Chad said, they RELY on your being nice in order to continue playing their dirty games.

    So you have to become less than nice with them in order to gain the upper hand. Never leave anything of yours sitting anywhere loose, ever. Keep everything locked up, and don't carry a purse in the club - wear a garter and strap your money onto the garter with a rubber band (that is the only way to ensure it never disappears). When you are arranging a champagne with a customer and manager, hold your customer's hand or entwine your arm with his - makes him feel more special and helps keep the gutter dogs away. Ignore the bitch completely unless she does something like extras or drugs in your presence or blatantly steals your customer. Then if you don't open your mouth she will know she can completely run over you and you will let her get away with anything she wants.

    The very next time you see this skank, make a point of telling her in front of the manager that you don't appreciate her stealing your champagne customer the way she did, and that you won't let her get away with it again. Of course she will try to pretend she doesn't know what you're talking about and the manager will too, but they both know and you have made your point. Then every time she tries that BS, you just smile sweetly, slide onto your customer's arm between her and him, and purr something in his ear about being ready to go play now. You don't have to start a fight, and she'll see you're not going to let her push you around. If she's a real skanky ho, she might try to start a fight with you eventually, but most likely not as this type of skank is normally just a slimy one who relies on other people's niceness for survival and can only live slithering in the shadows. When you bring them into the light (by calling their crap in front of a manager), they generally try to crawl back into their dark hole.

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