View Poll Results: Which does more to separate you from your money at a strip club? A beautiful face or a smokin' kill
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What would you think if .... ?
This is a question for the dancers.
What would you think if you got a PM from a guy on this board, that you may or recognize the screen name, asking you your stage name and the club you work at ?
Let me explain. As a frequent lurker and sometime poster, I have noticed one dancer from the same city and two others from cities I often visit. I would like to meet these ladies, and spend money on them, if they are comfortable with it. The last thing that I want is to be thought of as a stalker, and I do respect there privacy. So should I PM them or leave them alone ?
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Re: What would you think if .... ?
I'd be totally cool with it. That's what PM is for. Besides it's for registered members only. It would be creepy if, say, a random e-mail from a stranger popped up on my private address, but a PM is absolutely OK with me.
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I agree with Adina, as long as it was a REGISTERED member sending me a PM, (telling me he wants to spend $$$ on me!!) I would have no problem at all. However, I DID have some weird guy send me a message on AOL instant messenger, I can't remember what he wanted but it was pretty creepy. At first I thought he was a customer that I had given my SN to, but then he said he "met" me here...he really checked my profile and added my SN to his buddy list.
But as long as it was a registered member, I would be flattered that he would want to come see me in action. 
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I agree with them. There nothing wrong with ask just dont harass anyone.
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Sending a pm is why Pryce put it there, and i don't see any problem with it. I use it alot. I personally would not be someones private chat buddy (for those who have asked).
But to ask a question that others should not see you feel, only seems normal. As far as asking a dancer if you can go to her club and meet her, pay for some dances...That sounds great!
Of course it depends on the dancer, but you are using the pm for the right reason it seems to me.
Good luck, Pamela
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I wouldn't mind, if I knew the guy. If I didn't, I might just ignore him, depending on how he phrased his message.
Why don't you just post the cities that you go to here, and then the girls who work in those cities can PM you? ;-)
Lena
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Yes Witt go for it...thats what PM is for..as a moderator i am kind of expected to answer questions and i have before from other members so i ususally don't think it strange to see odd names in my mailbox....but i agree w/Adina...it would bother me if i got a strange e'mail....which is what nightrider did after i put him on ignore list he even went so far as to bombard my e'mail with his psycho-legal babble...good luck witt
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I'd PM the ladies asking for clubs in their respective areas and of course the clubs where they work in case I'm lucky to travel where they are
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It doesn't phase me at all. I've had a couple of men from here PM me, and I've been up front and honest about where I used to work and that I'm not working now. I've also told them that when I go back to work, I'll let 'em know.
What I DON'T give out is any personal info that would allow them to get into my non-stripper life, if you know what I mean.
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Wow witt u put into words some of what I have been thinking ,,, in fact I think I have already made some mention to a couple. But unfortunatly,,, seems like not many dancers on here work in the Northeast or near Boston in particular. If I am wrong and any dancer wants to PM me please do since I have been able to visit clubs quite alot lately, I just went to the Foxy lady in Brockton MA yesterday in fact. And I told a dancer there a bout this site (hope that was good)?
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Thanks for all the kind responses. If I could visit all of you I would
Unfortunately my travels normally keep me in the southeast. The majority of my time I spend in NC,SC, and now GA with some trips to FL, VA, and WV. I am always trying to find some place new to go while on the road. Any one in these areas feel free to PM me, I would love to find a few different clubs to try.
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