My boyfriend loves going to strip clubs, and being a dancer myself, this confuses my feelings even more about him going to strip clubs. I'm not sure how I feel about it, on one hand, I think, hey, I'm a dancer, I can't be a hypocrite, it's just good fun, but on the other hand, BECAUSE I'm a dancer, I've seen all the shit that goes down!
So, my question to you all is, if you have boyfriends and husbands, and for those who do, how do you all feel about your significant others hitting the strip clubs and getting lap dances? For those who don't currently have boyfriends or husbands, hypothetically, how would you feel about it? If you are ok with this, what are your reasons for being ok with it? If you object and oppose of it, what are the reasons that you oppose, and how do you deal with this situation? I know most non dancers would object to their boyfriends and husbands going to strip clubs, but as dancers, I wonder if this complicates your feelings about your significant others going.


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lucky me!!

We go together sometimes and with his or my friends sometimes- so it is all good. Again if he were out in clubs alone rather than with me- I'd be ticked. Another thing is the clubs we go to and I used to work in are no contact. I'd have an issue with him regularly going to contact clubs in my area as the dancers there grab a man's package when they ask for dances
sitting at the bar having drinks with the guys in a show club is just fine with me.

It is little diffrent. 


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