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    Ladies,

    There are alot of guys who like Asian girls out there. I was just wondering how you ladies feel about Asian guys and customers.

    It seems that Asian guys are not approached for dances as much as other guys. Please be honest in your opinions, I do not mind if they are harsh. Thank you.


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    What do you mean by Asian? Chinese? Japanese? Indian?

    In any case, my experience with Asian guys is usually pretty bad. They never buy more than one dance and they are contstantly trying to touch where they aren't supposed to.

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    My experience with Asian customers is the same as it is with others - some of them are annoying and rude and some of them are awesome. Come to think of it, I danced for several Asian guys last week and they were all perfectly great customers. Then again, I danced for a really handsy and rude one recently too. I'll definitely approach them, that's for sure.

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    my experience with chinese and asian customers is this....they are grabby, gropy and won't take 'stop touching me' as a suggestion
    so now i NEVER go near them
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    I have also had bad experiences with Asians...I think I danced for three of them and they all gave me a hard time. One actually tried pushing me down on the private dance chair and kissing me, and another one tried moving my G-string aside while I was onstage dancing at a topless club. I swung around and my elbow smacked right into his face and gave him a bloody nose...ooops

    I am sure that not every Asian guy is like that but my personal experiences have been bad.

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    Sounds like a similiar thread (or a few) Thorn posted.
    Anyway, i have no problem with them, and don't come across many.
    Only when working the hospital.

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    I have encountered some nice and some handsy. I have found that most of the handsy ones weren't born in the US. Don't know why that is, but it is just my observation. I usually appraoch them if they seem well mannered at stage.
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    Having worked in City of Industry and La Puente in California where there are a lot of asian men, I've realized that they come in two extremes (and rarely any in between). Either they want to touch everything for the price of a dance, or they want to spend lots of money and be treated as if they are very important (which usually does not include wanting to touch everything).

    Now what's up with Asian guys preferring blonds?

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    Thanks all for the warm reception.

    Lena, when translated from Chinese the word blonde means gold. So, in a way it is a sign of good luck for some.
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    My own experience is a mixed bag. Americans of asian extraction are, generally, grabby and cheap compared to other customers. Asian businessmen, however, tend to be more generous with their money. (Admittedly, I got a LOT of Asian customers cuz I'm blond. They LOVE blonds. It's that "classic young american girl" look. If you look at Japanese porn, it's HEAVY into the schoolgirl look, and there is a particular thread of japanese porn that's into young blond american girls.)

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    I think it's because it's exotic....I'm a tall, fair-skinned blonde and guys from countries where women are dark and small are into me.

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    I agree with the blonde thing. I am a small blonde and Asian men, Hispanic men, and Indian men seem to like little blondes!
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    Does anyone have any positive experiences with Asian guys?
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    Sure, i work with some at the hospital, and they are very nice people when doing"their job".

    At the club, i had one who called himself Hadder, and he was a great customer. Loved a stage show, and got his lapdances from others. He was a spender. He was alone though, and asking all us girls for a date. Lol. But we had a very positive experience, he kept saying i will give you a $20 if you can do this or that on the pole. Some of it i could not do, he was pushing the limits, and he gave 1 $20 for effort. That was nice.
    Born and raised in Asia. Not much of a talker, but a great watcher, and spender, i thought. Only came once, young, looked like a possible student.

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    I've rarely encountered Asian men. When I have, they have been treated the same as any other customer. However, almost every Asian male customer I have encountered has propositioned me for prostitution. WHich makes me just a wee bit uncomfortable, aside from being illegal.

    McCain

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    I go up to every customer and give him a chance. I find that Asian-American guys are great, but sometimes the businessmen visiting from thier countries don't know how to behave. Plus, many times thier limited english makes comunication difficult. Living in Austin, with all it's high-tech industries, brings in a huge amount of foreigners. I still approach every customer as an individual, and try not to stereotype. If I walk up to an Asian guy and he acts inappropreatly I simply walk away just like I would to any other rude customer.

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    i rarely get a dance from an asian guy as im not blonde! i think in all my years of dancing ive had 2 that came back more than once. you figure thats out of thousands and thousands of guys i have met. the ones i did have for dances were nice and not grabby but again were from this country
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    Mixed reponses but the exceptions are rare. I find most of my experiences also grabby and excessivley dirty minded. Even when they have waved a bill at me to tip on stage --when I approach they make motion for me to take the tip with my pussy!! :o
    Definitely pissing me off and they can keep their freakin tip.
    As well as in a private dance they are pushy and get right to the heart of the dance in their perception and head straight for your puss. WHOA! Trying to tame them results in them getting angry and leaving sometimes in the middle of the dance.
    My exceptions to the "asian" experience as it were, are younger guys more americanized than not.
    I worked in Macau twice...and same results there...but we had one extreme exception to the rule we had Mr. Jang who tipped so flamboyantly and made such a show of his appreciation via the almighty dollar without expecting nothing but a kiss on the cheek in turn. We came to look forward to his visits and when a girl would come back off stage covered in bills with a big fat smile on her face we would all yell out """YOU'VE BEEN JANGED!!!"" That was fun. I might add he was a lone example in 4 months of China.
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    I have had mixed experiences with Asians as well as every other ethnicity. Some are rude, grabby and dirty, some are nice and polite. I don't discriminate based solely on ethnicity, however I notice that in my club we get alot of Asian cruise ship workers who tip onstage but never buy dances. Of course that's their prerogative and there are plenty of locals and visitors of all ethnicities who do the same. But due to the large numbers of Asian cruise ship workers we see here, I tend not to approach most Asian customers because I know they are only interested in watching the stage. It's not a racial thing though, and I also tend not to approach guys of all races who are obviously only interested in the stage.

    In other areas, I notice the majority of Asian guys don't spend much money, but then again, neither do the majority of guys in general. I guess guys of certain ethnicities get noticed more because they are in the minority in the clubs, but if you look at customer spending patterns on the whole, ethnicity rarely has much to do with how much they spend or how well behaved they are.

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    I had a large group of Japanese Buisnessmen come in on a slow night. They bought dances, were polite, to a point, and gave me money for sitting with them and bought me drinks. They were not the best but they were better than 80% of clients.

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