I was just wondering what you girls thought of this? I went to watch at a local club (it was amateur nite). Not only was I harrassed by EVERY dancer multiple times to join the contest, later, after the contest had ended, they continued to try to get me up there and dance. I was there with a couple male friends who informed me that during a trip to the restroom the manager came out and asked them if either of them was my boyfriend and if they knew if I would be interested in dancing. When we were ready to leave, the manager "showed up" and began talking to us and tried to get me to fill out an application. Now don't get me wrong, I'm actually considering working there, but I had never been there before and wanted to see how it was. I actually got a little annoyed that the dancers kept coming over to bug me about dancing since I made it clear I wasn't going to that night... but I couldn't help but get the feeling that the manager asked them to come over and try to influence me. My friend told me I should take it as a compliment, but I got a strange vibe from the whole situation. Should I just let it go and take it as a compliment?


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Yeah they had no idea I was thinking about working there. As for the dancers coming up, I think the manager told them to. Actually I forgot to add, one of my friends works there (didn't know that until I got there), and while she was giving me a dance she told me the manager told her to try to get me signed up... that he really wanted me to work there. It wouldn't have been that bad, but I was approached seriously about once every 5-10 minutes and asked over and over. There were about 10 dancers there I suppose. The stage was empty a few times, but they seemed to be doing okay. I do have a unique look. I have a couple of unique facial piercings (septum, vertical labret), and I usually come off as gothic. At first I thought they just wanted more amateur competitors, but then it kind of seemed like that was just another approach at getting me to dance. I got everything from "we need just one more amateur" to "you'll get money if you dance, I promise, even though you haven't done it before" to well now that we're not busy you can go up there... consider it practice... I won't tell anyone!" It was overall just a little creepy lol. I'll see how they act when I do amateur nite next time. There were alot of other girls in there and none of them were harrassed.



Anyway I'll definately go with Sin.

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