Hi i have been depressed about something latley. Whenever i meet people i lie about what i do. I don't know if this is common among dancers when you meet non dancers. I guess i am afraid of their reaction. Whether men or women i always say i am a coctail waitress. I even tell that to my parents! Not my sister though who is quiet understanding (thank god) and my live in boyfriend and a few close friends. But always when i meet a girl that i would like to hang out with i always lie about my job. It is very scary to me and i hate lying!!! I feel really alone! I mean you only live this life once and i feel like lying is such a waste. But i can't tell people the truth i just don't know what i am afraid of. I met this cool girl and we have alot in common. I'd like to become friends with her and go out drinking or something but i already told her i waitress. What would i look like if i told her i had been lying to her? I know there are girls at my club i could hang out with but alot of them have diffrent lifestyle than me( like smoking pot or getting hammered to have a good time) at this point in my life i am so over that! I just don't know what to do. I feel traped and alone. Does anyone have any advice?



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I missed those times I've had. But we all gotta move on. so I understand how ya feel girl. U would have to tell her the truth or otherwise she'll feel like everything about u is a lie and if she's a friend or a true friend she would at least understand your position as a dancer.

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