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    This thread was on another web site and I'm curious how most dancers would respond

    "You walk into a club and you see some 18 year old military guy(kid)...probably the first time away from home...First time in an adult club. You over hear the dancer keep telling the guy..."hey baby, keep buying dances from me...and we'll party tonight". What would you do? Let him learn the hard way or try to help him out? Morally Check time...."

    Most of the customers thought you should pull the guy's leg and let him know nothing is going to happen.

    One dancer however said:
    Let him have his fantasy. That is what he went into the club looking for, give a guy who is protecting our country more credit than that, he knows it is a fantasy. Let him enjoy it. Any guy who doesn't understand it is a role play game, a fantasy experience, should not enter a strip club. Anyone who can't grasp that simple fact needs to be spending their money on a therapist not on exotic/adult entertainment.

    Is the young guy probably naive or is it just a fantasy? I had to say if it's just a fantasy why does she have to allude to partying later on? Why can't she just call him handsome or sexy or something like that?

    What do you think?

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    Me personally would never offer "party later with me crap" I have over heard girls saying to guys that they would party sometime (not later that night,) and stayed out of it. Now if i see a dancer, and if you work long enough there you get to know who is up to what if you watch like i do (call me nosy.) you do see some of this behaviour going on.

    I stay out of it period. I want no problems with other dancers. And if he's big enough to be there, he's big enough to spend the bucks. However, being naive happens to alot of guys. I myself to be honest will get guys their drinks, they know when to say enough. But the more they drink with me the more they want dances. I don't promise what i won't deliver however, this is just hustling.
    I would not say a work. 18 or 81, makes no difference to me. Alot of guys may learn this way from certain dancers, i am not sure. But if he were with me i would not promise to party with him later. Some may call that hustling. I call that lying.

    I would hope he as well would know his cut off point with the $. Besides they ususlly don't spend alot anyway. From my experience with 18 yr olds. Scams happen everyplace. Thats life.
    PS after he gets scammed by one dancer and 'I" am lucky enough to have him come back, i will offer NO drinks, just a god time. Not all dancers are like that, he damn sure won't be going back to that one again. Pamela

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    Yeah, in my experience, it's the 18 year olds that are offering to party with me later! I never lead 'em on.

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    I don't get involved unless people ask for my opinion. I mind my own business, actually if I say more than a sentence or two to my coworkers I'm having a good day. I'm not mean or snotty, I am just selective about the people I choose to call friend in this club business. I only have a couple. Thats why I never have problems.
    The biggest problem in these clubs is she said stuff that goes on in the dressing room or the way some people back stab to customers to try to dissuade them from liking a girl that they do not personally like. Customers also help perpetuate that crap b/c some of them tell lies to try to create drama or get cut dance prices. I always say well, if u r so interested in talking about her maybe I should go get her for you so I won't be wasting ur time.
    "Come what may although I often say realities come from dreams, but approach all lies with open eyes because NOthing in this world is EVER ALL it seems."

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    a good dancer shouldnt have to lead people on to get dances.. I would of said somthing.. Nothing annoys me more when someone take advantage of someone else. perhaps when hes alone or somthing tip him off about that dancer.

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    Shan I couldnt have said it better myself

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    this sort of implied promise of after hours action is just as bad if a dancer doesn't follow through as if she does! In the one case she's committing fraud and in the other she's committing prostitution.

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