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    Hi,

    I've been thinking about getting a job at the local club 'cuz I could use the cash...I'm cool with most of the stuff but the one thing I don't get is lap dances. I mean, what do you do, exactly? I feel embarrassed asking this but I don't know where else to look...

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    You can order some dance videos at exoticdancelessons.com - I think she has lap dance stuff there, but if not, I have one of her videos and got some good pointers from it.

    Most of us learn to lapdance by watching others and reading what seems to work for the customers. When watching other girls dance, try not to stare because that can make the other dancers feel uncomfortable, but keep your eyes open. Look more when you can see the dancer isn't looking your way, so you won't distract her - and if a lapdancer catches you watching her, just smile at her and look away. Maybe compliment her style later on. Sometimes girls get catty with new girls, especially if they catch you watching them, so being nice, smiling, complimenting them can help diffuse that.

    Good luck!

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    A really good way is to go to a club and watch. Then when u have seen a girl who u think gives good dances buy one from her or buy a few from a couple of girls to get an idea. U can just tell em u're thinking about dancing and doing some research.
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    good advice dyvine. before i started i got a couple from one of the girls at a nice classy club then proceded to give my bfriend one past the tense . eye contact is very important and sensuality as well but above all you will save alot of time if you move slowly. take your time it will make him want more. good luck

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    I have watched for years how lapdances are done. Now my choice is to give up a good club or DO. I will be very nervous, as i am very comfortable on stage. First experience for me way back was not good. So i will tell the guy upfront, touch any part not allowed and you will be thrown out of the club. I was already told i can say that, and it will be done. BUT....they come back the next night. Man i hate laps. But i really like this club, and the new night manager wants more from me. Pamela

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    At the club I work at, when a new girl starts, even if she has done some dancing, our manager has several of the clubs regular dancers give her a dance or two. That way she can see what our club allows and doesn't allow. It's really helpful to new dancers who are shy or embarrassed. I don't know if other clubs are like that, but maybe? Otherwise, if i were you I would go the other route and just buy some dances from girls who look like they are making money. hope that helps!

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