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    Default Intimadated by a club!!!!!!!!

    Hi first of all i would like to thank you all who responded to my post! It helped me realise not to go to a juice bar and stay at my upscale club!
    But recently i have been really wanting to try this other club in my area, but also still work at my current club like two days a week and this other club one day a week.
    I really want to try this club because it serves alchohol (so no broke eighteen year olds!), has the level of contact that i am comfortable with (table dances), no sitting down with customers(girls just hustle there no getting paid by the hour stuff as with some gentlmen's clubs) i am pretty uncomfortable with talking to people for some reason and just would rather do dances all night. And most importantly goes all nude on stage which is the only nude bar in the state. So i think the factors to make money is there for me.
    The problem is this... along time ago i was going to autition there but i chickened out!!!!!
    Nothing against blonds at all but most of the women there were blond and i have dark brown eyes, long dark brown hair, tan skin, in shape curvy body ( basically i look alot like Brooke Burke from wild on E!) and most girls looked like Pamala Anderson. I mean they were stunning and i feel like i am too but i just got scared and i didnt think i would make any money there and just left! I know this sounds stupid but i just had visions of hustling and everyone turning me down. It sucks because i would really like to give that club a try but i am scared! Do you think i should just go for it and suck it up or should i stick to the assumtion that the crowd that goes there expects certin types of women?
    I know i am sounding weird but i guess i need some feedback. I don't want to waist my time at a club where i won't make anything. Thanks for reading this!!!

    P.S. I am deathly afraid of the bouncers remembering me! Ha Ha even though they probably wont!

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    Hey Lilac,

    Go for it!!!!!!! You will probably make a TON of money since you will be different from everyone else. Lots of guys like variety and get tired of seeing whats already expected at a strip club. (Pam andersons)
    Use that to your advantage. I see girls do it at my club all the time.
    If the bouncers remember you, just smile and wink. Dont even worry about that. Brown hair girls make a ton of money at my club *I hav brown hair as well) and guys say they love it. And by the way Brooke Burke is gorgeous, so if you do look like her, you'll really be set!!! =)
    Good luck!!!

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    I.m a red head and being different is always a plus. Get out there and shake your money maker.
    Like a soul without a mind, like a body without a heart....I'm Miss America. (Massive Attack)

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    Don't worry, lots of women are nervous on try outs. I am very confident in my ability as a DJ, but I get nervous as hell doing DJ auditions and I don't have to jump on stage and dance!!

    I remember one very young woman not long ago who was petrified and chickened out her fist night--I reassured her when I had the chance but she left anyway before I could talk to her again--she was really cute, too. I would have welcomed her gladly to try again--but too late. Now she is dancing nude at the sister club upstairs and loving it!

    Also don't be intimidated by the other dancers, as a man and as a DJ trying to put on a good show, I love blondes but I also love brunettes and redheads, other guys are the same, and many prefer brunettes. Also I can't stand Pamela Anderson she is just WAY too fake for me. She has never done a thing for me (except I saw her pictures she sent Playboy before all the silicon in her lips and breasts and bleach in her hair, then she was cute!).

    I always tell the new girls, or ones who are shy their first night at a new club, you can actually use this to your advantage--a lot of guys just love to see a woman who is a little bit shy gradually getting naughty!! This is better by far than seeing the most beautiful, perfect, but plastic dancer just going through the motions.

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    I have the dark hair/dark eyes look, myself, and have woeked at plenty of top-shelf clubs where blondes predominated...it NEVER hurt my money! Quite to the contrary, I got a lot of really positive response from guys, such as, "GOsh! Finally a brunette!". It pays to be unique ... and if you're beautiful AND unique, you're sure to make a killing there!!

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    I'm sure that if you can get hired by this club that you'll make money. Unfortunately, as the economy has gone downhill and as clubowners have the luxury of choosing among a dozen prospective dancers for every job opening, this is no longer a sure thing no matter how stunning or talented a particular dancer might be. From your description of this one and only nude club in your state, it certainly sounds like dancers from all over the state are probably interested in working there. This probably leads to a situation where the clubowner can choose among 20 or 30 or 50 prospective dancers per opening instead of just 12!

    The real problem here might be that this clubowner has a "thing" for Pam Anderson clones. I have seen this in other high earning potential clubs, where the clubowner's "thing" might be tall anorexic figures or big breast implants or tanned blondes. Unfortunately in today's club business climate, top earnings potential clubowners get enough potential new dancers that they can afford to indulge their personal preferences and fill the club with Pam Anderson clones if they feel like it.

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    I agree with Juliet. I love brunettes (followed very closely by red heads) and brown eyes (especially if they are almond shaped). Blondes I can take or leave (sorry :-/ )

    I once walked into my favorite club and found that all four dancers were blonde. Had one drink and left (I did tip the dancer on stage). The bartender asked why I was leaving so soon and I told him.

    The next time I went, there was a brunette and the bar tender told me that at least half of the guys mentioned that they were all blondes.

    Bottom line.....go knock there socks off at your audition. I am sure that you will do great.

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    I'm really democratic. If they're good looking and friendly I could care less if they're blondes, brunettes, redheads, latinas, etc. Right now my fav dancers are a redhead and a brunette.



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    Carlos,

    Ture, but the blondes that day all looked the same. Blonde, blue eyes, long legs, big boob, tanned, toned and attitude. Give me a break. But for others to complain, it must have been an off day.

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    I don't think anyone likes a club where all the girls look like clones. I walked out of one club before auditioning for exactly that reason. The funny thing is I am blonde, blue eyed with big boobs, only 4'11" though. I am not comfortable in that environment, because it makes me think I have to conform to some impossible standards.

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    The only thing i notice about blondes is, well a few actually. First me being one, and trying to tame down the blonde hair at times sucks. As a dancer, the blonde hair stands out, mine is very long, and i use it, when dancing. However blonde hair is an attractant, if it looks well polished. Alot of people are just naturally attracted to blonde hair. But blonde is over rated these days. Guys don't seem to take me serious i feel alot of the time. Im just the "good time girl," and sure it works great inside the clubs, but i have a LIFE outside the clubs! And doing other day to day activities i usually tie it back with a smoothing gel to appear more serious. Here in Florida i see more damn blondes than any other color. Alot of my co-workers are coming in to work blonde. Strange. I pencil my brows a few shades darker, and have a two tone color on my hair, or i naturally look all washed up. I have blue eyes, and very light skin. The darker shade i put underneath gives me character, and i keep it light on top of course. But the blonde hair is not all it's cracked up to be. OH how i love the exotic look. I just can't pull it off, being swedish. But i do get alot of comments about the long blonde hair, and my eyes. Guess that will be life. My one co-worker at the hospital i work some nights with, rolls his eyes, and walks away when someone mentions my hair. I laugh. It's only hair, that one day i will cut! And donate to "locks of love," i am sure. I see beautiful dark haired dancers getting lots of dances. It depends on the person. But blonde hair will always make some one do a double take, just becuse it stands out....no other reason. Pamela

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    I have worked at some clubs where they want all the girls to look different. being black I face discrimination off and on at clubs.

    You MUST call th owner on it if he doesn't hire you and let him know that customers like all different types of girls and not just blondes. Tell him to give you 2 days and if he doesn't like the way you work you will leave.

    Just sell yourself as you would on a traditional job interview. NEVER be intimidated by a club. Just fight harder and sell yourself more to get in!!!

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    I'm a man that visits clubs a lot and I can tell you that not being blonde is not a problem. I'm a bruntette lover myself!

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    By all means, go back and try... in a sea of blondes, you will stand out! From one brunette to another...
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    Thank you for all of your responses!!!! I think tomorrow I might go in and audition! I am nervous!! I think i will go in before work at my other club! Ah seeing comericals on tv for this club really makes me think god you only live once and you will never know what it is like unless you try! I also talked to one of the girls at my club who used to work there and she said she made so much money! She said go for it! I don't know why I am so scared! Mabey i am also nervous about trying a new club and getting used to a whole new enviroment and a diffrent way of doing things. I hope all goes well. Thank you for all that encoraged me in your posts. This board is so supportive and i love coming here!!! I don't ever remember feeling this nervous when i autitioned at the club i am at now! Ahhh I just hope it goes well and i make money! I am so sick of the chit chat bullshit that goes along with upscale gentlmen's clubs. I like the club i am at but it is just so draining seeing the girls that walk out with 1000 dollars a night are the ones that have like relationships with thier customers, call there regulars to come in when they are working and drink with them all night. I feel so more comfortable just saying hi, introducing myself , asking for a dance, dancing and then say thank you and collect. I don't know why but i feel so much more comfortable exposing my boobs and ass than acting as there fantasy date for the night. Is this making sense? I just would rather be physicaly tired than psycholgicaly drained from small talk all night!!!
    Well hopefully i will get hired tommarow an show of my brunnette hair hah haha!!!

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