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    Default What do you talk about??

    Sometimes I get so bored of saying the same thing all night every night! But with some men, I'm just left searching for words! What do you do when the conversation gets rough?
    I also have a dilemma-I live in Miami, but I am not fluent in Spanish though i speak a little...that can be a problem when more or less a quarter of the guys in there are speaking Spanish! I don't want to lose out on 25% of the potential money because of a language barrier.
    I can say enough to ask for a dance and maybe chat for a couple minutes -but I can't really talk my way into a dance when we don't speak the same language. Besides learning more spanish, is this just a lost cause?
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    Default Re: What do you talk about??

    i live in ontario but we get a lot of girls from montreal/quebec that dont speck a lot of english that seem to do okay
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    small talk....work, where do u live, weather, jokes, current events are all conversation starters...people like to talk about themselves, so ask questions
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    I like to say things that are just different. It makes me stand out in their mind more (of course, sometimes that's a good thing and sometimes it's a bad thing). I'm pretty good at reading people, so I usually know from across the room how to approach them... "Wow, where did you come from? You look like you just fell out of the sky or something. I know you're not from here, you're too cute/whatever to be from here. You are from here? Wow, well you've managed to retain a startling amount of individuality" or "Hi, I'm Lena, how are you? Are you a musician? I could tell.. what do you write about? do you hear music when you're having sex? what's your very favorite song, right now the first one that comes into your head?" "Hi... mmmm... you smell like birch trees... oh, yes, that's a good thing, some of my favorite people are birch trees.."

    Sometimes I'll say crazy shit just to see what I can pull off... it really is how you say it more than what you say. I think I could say anything and no one would argue with me because I'm beautiful and I'm half naked. If only it were so easy when I had clothes on....

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    Trying to cue into their interests is good. It shows that you are interested and you can ask the questions, as opposed to answering them. Also, a good amount of enthusiasm, either real or fake, can always make the conversation flow.
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    Default Re: What do you talk about??

    Holly in regard to the French Canadian dancers lacking english skills, knowing just a few words with the right meaning go a long way in the clubs (like, for instance, BLOW JOB!).

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    HAHAHAHHAHAHAHA! Sometimes you kill, Melonie. I am not french canadian but I wonder if some might be offended when reading that?
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    I agree with Heather. Men LOVE to feel as though you are interested, even though you may be sitting there thinking about laundry you have to fold when you get home, always make them feel like you are really into what they are saying. Remember, they go into clubs to get from us what the usually dont get at home, ATTENTION.
    I know it gets boring at times - God, i have heard so many sob stories and so much BS from the customers, but if it gets them to spend money....... xoxox Shawn

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    Him. Very little about me. Unless a question is asked. I want to know about him. His interests. Period. Makes for great customers, and regulars. Pamela

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    Default Re: What do you talk about??

    talk about ANYTHING that comes to mind. sometimes it's not the content of the conversation it's just that you are haveing one. i never run out of things to say and of course let them talk about themselves, although tread lightly on "downer" subjects like a bad marriage ect unless he brings it up. NEVER I MEAN NEVER complain or act like you are haveing a bad night. dont talk shit about other girls. if they ask where have you been? you say oh ive been doing dances even if you havent dont any. seem busy but not pushy. these things always work for me, i come off as the anit-hustler even tho i am a big one, however i am not a ripoff.
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    Default Re: What do you talk about??

    Trying to cue into their interests is good. It shows that you are interested and you can ask the questions, as opposed to answering them. Also, a good amount of enthusiasm, either real or fake, can always make the conversation flow.
    I guess this would be my approach to things as well. sometimes the customer is into music and I'll ask things like, "Name me your top 5 albums of all time" or top 5 movies... That always gets a conversation going for me...
    There is this one customer though, that comes in regularly, sometimes goes to the lounge, and I swear he has nothing to talk about, so I ask the usual, and just do a few dances. Maybe he just wants dances and that's that, but it's still a painful process! :-/
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