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    I went for my first audition with my new implants. Went to a local club (don't want to say which, because if they monitor this board they will know that it is me). I had a bad feeling, however it is in a good area and my fiancee encouraged me saying he felt I would be really safe there.

    They gave me the run around about the audition. Kept telling me to come in a different times. The manager was never there when I would call before my audition. (I always call to confirm my audition time before I leave home.)

    Finally they had me come in Saturday at 11am. The manager was telling me how beautiful I was, & how he couldn't wait to see me on stage, he thought I would look even better up there. They tell me to get on stage, then the manager leaves the room, before I can even get around the bar.

    The bartender tells me to start dancing, then he goes around cleaning the bar, pretty much ignoring me (no one else is in the room). He comes up and tells me he is telling the manager how great I look, & asks if I want to work that evening. I told him I would, then he says to go talk to the manager, and points me to his office.

    In his office there is no camera where he could see me on stage. I get in there & he tells me how I am sooo beautiful, but I need to lose a few pounds in the legs and stomach. (The legs I won't argue with, but I have ripped abs.) ??? ???

    Then he asks "What do you weigh, 135-140?" Huh, I weigh 98lbs, and thats with the implants which my doc says weigh almost 5lbs. I told him more like 100 lbs, and thanks for the audition, I will work on the weight.

    He tells me there is no way I weigh less than 130lbs, when is the last time I was weighed, he also says please join a gym, cut carbs and come back in 1-2 months--you are sooo beautiful, I want you to work for me, but all my girls are really thin with perfect bodies & if I let you work, the agency will start sending me fat girls. I'll admit the girls I saw were REALLY thin, but with NO boobs! I just told him the last time I was weighed was 1 week ago at my post-op, and I weighed 98lbs, then left.

    I wish I had a pic to post. My measurements are 34DD-23.5-33 as of this morning. Will post a pic as soon as I get one.

    What is your opinion on this? He made me sound obese. 135-140???

    I feel so gross right now. I am usually a really strong person, but the more I think about this the more it bothers me. This really was a major blow to my self esteem. I used to do head shot modeling, local stuff, like for jewelry & hair salons, so I know I'm not ugly, but this is really getting me down. I know I'm not fat, or jiggly, so I thought maybe he just didn't think I was pretty enough, but for some reason would rather tell me to lose weight. How could I look that fat?

    How could someone be so mean??? I have seen seriously obese women audition & the managers have been nicer?

    Sorry so long

    Jasmine

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    Ya know what Jasmine, wrong manager, wrong bartender...and they were watching you, you say. There lose. Your gain! Move on to a BETTER place! You deserve better. You will try again and find one. Pitty them. MY opinion, it happens all the time, you hun are not alone. Some clubs just can't be polie and simply say, they don't think they can use your services at this time. Maybe another time. Blow it off! Be glad this happened. Because if it starts off on this foot it may not get better if you got hired. last words" WRONG CLUB. THEY LOSE. Pamela

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    If you weigh only 98 pounds there's absolutely no way you need to lose weight to work in ANY club, unless of course you're 3 feet tall! The manager was an asshole to tell a 98-pound girl she needs to lose weight! It sounds like he may prefer girls with small boobs, or no implants, and the weight thing was just an excuse, and a poor one at that. You should try another club, and don't even sweat what that jerk said!

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    Thanks for the support! I really needed to hear something positive. I know I'm better off without the attutidue from management. It still hurt though. This is the first time I have went on an audition and been turned down.

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    hey hun
    screw that shit! I bet you are beautiful and at 98 lbs, theres just no way you can be even SLIGHTLY over weight. What a bastard. If I were you, I wouldnt even go back...maybe just to audition again and when he says YES, say, thanks, but no thanks. LOL SOmething like that. Dont waste your time with him, thats totally uncalled for.
    I would have felt like shit too, but I weigh 115 not 98.
    Good luck hun and dont let him get you down. Stupid jerks like that piss me off.

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    Jasmine, ditch that club. Find one that appreciates real girls, not twigs with niblets for titties!! Geez, I wish my waist was that size!! Mine's 26!!!!

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    Hmmm... 98 lbs? The only way you are obese is if you're shorter than my kitchen counter...

    Criminy...my WORK BAG weighs more than you, and it doesn't even have a set of nice tits to stare at...

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    Well Jasmine, I'd say this is just one more example of how much the clubowners are in the driver's seat these days. This clubowner obviously has a thing for anorexia, and unfortunately for you there are enough girls around looking for work in every club with decent earning potential that the clubowner can afford to indulge his own fantasies and turn away beautiful girls who don't meet his ridiculous personal criteria. Don't take it personally.

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    Can anyone help me with some clubs that are easy to get hired at. They don't even have to be that nice, just so I can audition without panicing. I just feel like it would be easier to audition at a club where I know I am going to get hired, and maybe work for a night or two before I go to another uncertain audition.

    Thanks,

    Jasmine

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    All clubs don't audition. some just hire you based on how you look in your street clothes and have you raise up your skirt or blouse in the office to see if you have excessive stretch marks. that's how it is done in Texas.

    Other clubs just have you audition knowing they will hire you anyway. it's just par for the course. Lots of managers don't even look at you on stage.

    Every club won't want you no matter how desireable it seems for you. everyone in life doesn't like us and this is a business of looks.

    Just work somewhere else where they aren't as picky. you surely don't want to be in a club where if you gain 5-10 lbs they will fire you, do you?

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    ok, so now that I feel fat LOL (@ 150!)..... nah, hun, you're not fat, you're not needing any type of diet or any such shit, you just had an error in judment in choosing that club to audition for... the world is full of assholes, and all you did was cross paths with yet another one... keep going, have fun and you're gorgeous!!!!!! Tank xo

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    Yo Jasmine,
    That's some pretty fucked up shit. Whether its 98 or 100 lbs, that's pretty tiny. That's "spinner" territory if you ask me. I don't quite know what the manager or the bartender were smoking, but they're wrong. Find yourself a club where they want ladies that look healthy, not anorexic.

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    How tall are you? At 98 pounds, you'd have to be pretty short to be overweight...still, pics would help to make sure that there's something they're seeing that we're not. A 98 pound girl with DDs? Man...I want to hire you and I don't even own a club...

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    This post is almost two years old, I am sure she's found another club by now.

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    I cant belive they said that to you , maybe they were in the back smoking crack before you came in for the audition. There is no WAY you could have fat to loose at that weight. Dont sweat it

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    Sorry baby. Some people talk out their asses more than their actual mouths.

    I know it's not necessary nor always so true to life working as a stripper, but these are some of the horrible comments that you may face. If you could tackle that (and please do so with a pinch of salt; some people will powertrip at your expense for no real reason), then you will get through a lot of other things.

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    what an asshole! I went with venus to a club and she won 2nd place in the amature contest. Some good friends of ours work there and said good things about her to the owner. the owner just said, "well, I'm looking for a certain type of girl, and you don't qualify" We were aghast. our friends wer aghast. Venus is MUCH prettier than 99.9% of the girls there. Just as he said that, a girl with cottage cheese thighs walks by, one of the dancers. We told him to fuck off and went straight to VIP's (A much more upscale club) where she was hired on the spot and did very well.

    Don't take it personally. just find another club. Just like customers, owners sometimes want a certain look. i'm sure you are beautiful.

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    They sound like dick heads you will find a club that is you dont worry
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    that's just crazy how he can confuse 98lbs with 130?!?
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    They told you to lose weight and you weigh 98 lbs? WTF? I weigh around 130-135 and I've never been turned down from a club. Granted, I live in Wisconsin and most of the clubs here will hire anyone with a vagina, but still. I agree with Bridgette-it sounds like the owner either doesn't like implants or only hires based on his personal preferences. Screw them-find a better club to work at.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasmine
    I went for my first audition with my new implants. Went to a local club (don't want to say which, because if they monitor this board they will know that it is me). I had a bad feeling, however it is in a good area and my fiancee encouraged me saying he felt I would be really safe there.

    They gave me the run around about the audition. Kept telling me to come in a different times. The manager was never there when I would call before my audition. (I always call to confirm my audition time before I leave home.)

    Finally they had me come in Saturday at 11am. The manager was telling me how beautiful I was, & how he couldn't wait to see me on stage, he thought I would look even better up there. They tell me to get on stage, then the manager leaves the room, before I can even get around the bar.

    The bartender tells me to start dancing, then he goes around cleaning the bar, pretty much ignoring me (no one else is in the room). He comes up and tells me he is telling the manager how great I look, & asks if I want to work that evening. I told him I would, then he says to go talk to the manager, and points me to his office.

    In his office there is no camera where he could see me on stage. I get in there & he tells me how I am sooo beautiful, but I need to lose a few pounds in the legs and stomach. (The legs I won't argue with, but I have ripped abs.) ??? ???

    Then he asks "What do you weigh, 135-140?" Huh, I weigh 98lbs, and thats with the implants which my doc says weigh almost 5lbs. I told him more like 100 lbs, and thanks for the audition, I will work on the weight.

    He tells me there is no way I weigh less than 130lbs, when is the last time I was weighed, he also says please join a gym, cut carbs and come back in 1-2 months--you are sooo beautiful, I want you to work for me, but all my girls are really thin with perfect bodies & if I let you work, the agency will start sending me fat girls. I'll admit the girls I saw were REALLY thin, but with NO boobs! I just told him the last time I was weighed was 1 week ago at my post-op, and I weighed 98lbs, then left.

    I wish I had a pic to post. My measurements are 34DD-23.5-33 as of this morning. Will post a pic as soon as I get one.

    What is your opinion on this? He made me sound obese. 135-140???

    I feel so gross right now. I am usually a really strong person, but the more I think about this the more it bothers me. This really was a major blow to my self esteem. I used to do head shot modeling, local stuff, like for jewelry & hair salons, so I know I'm not ugly, but this is really getting me down. I know I'm not fat, or jiggly, so I thought maybe he just didn't think I was pretty enough, but for some reason would rather tell me to lose weight. How could I look that fat?

    How could someone be so mean??? I have seen seriously obese women audition & the managers have been nicer?

    Sorry so long

    Jasmine
    Dayum... tell that manager to go fuck himself... at 98 lbs already, I'm sure you are very fitness conscious, and there is no way your need to loose any weight, especially with the new rack...

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    Quote Originally Posted by noelle
    This post is almost two years old, I am sure she's found another club by now.

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